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Winner_sc

@winner_sc

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Posted: 18 years ago

I married a brahmin guy last year. I am myself a SC.His parents dont respect me n have insulted me lots and we stay separate from them.

My husband blames me for all. He hates me.Gives me pain too.

Tell me what to do.

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Emuna Belief

@Emuna Belief

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Posted: 18 years ago

See a marriage counselor with yr husband

Take it easy n no hasty decisions
Parents usually cool down after some time

Most imp. thing is that u2 love each other
The rest can be slowly sorted out

Never lose hope it takes time to build relationships
Rome was not built in 1 day

Patience is a virtue and truth prevails

Believe in God n trust in yourself
make efforts from yr side slowly but surely everything will change into your favour

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sadia

@sadia_lahori

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Posted: 18 years ago

hey i have heard this alot Brahman people only get married to Brahmans and if they dont thier life partner have to face alot of difficulties same is the case with u just be so nice with ur hasband that he forgets every thing and gets nice with u and also make him feel that ur a human u also feel bad but make him realize this in such a manner that he doesnt gets u wrong Hope my advice wil work dont talk much to his parents but when u do be nice dont talk about ur husbands parents unfornt of him if do just say somthing nice and gradully act on the advce cause alot of time it will requre just be clam n dont rush they can immediatly be nice to u

Edited by sadia_lahori - 18 years ago

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Pooja

@Angeleyes 2

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Posted: 18 years ago

I think u should sit and talk to him. Explain to him how u feels in such situation. Also if he feels that his parents are always right then u also need to show him where his parents go wrong. Don't yell or talk harsh just be clam and show him that u like his parents (even if u don't).

Also put him in ur shoes and let him see things from your point of view