Using proxy?

How was the character spared? Her mother was also an important character a character which the channel is proud of but they didn't spare that character too.

Right from the beginning they made it clear that the girl is unwanted as Beendini of the house as well as beendini of the son of the house.

Kundan's parents got ahim a girl who is old enough to know what it is all about and also in the same age group of Kundan.

Don't think CVs did that to spare the important character but more about focusing the issue of physical relationship between teenagers with or without consent.It is easier to show it on young teenagers rather than small pre teen kids who don't understand the issue.

Regarding urmi,I think she made a choice. Her goal is to use her rights as a wife and this is something she had to lose to get what she wants based on her own mother's advice .I feel so glad once again for nimboli. So glad that mangala didn't give her a speech on her rights as a wife. Cause if nimboli ever talked about her rights as wife kundan would waste no time in using his rights as a husband. Nimboli would have been in urmi 's place today. Thanks to mangala.

So where does the fault lie? Viewers or the makers?

How is Urmila grey. She is as much a victim of society and its practices as any other person. Her parents seem to have brought her up with lots of love and affection. She is the darling of her father and mother. We have not seen any other siblings. Only girl child. Yet they married her without properly investigating the family into which they were marrying their daughter.

Married underage with no education from her mother about what marriage entails. Just instructions to keep the first wife at bay and lose her from her home as soon as possible.

She is not foolish but just immature, a bit like Kamli. The games Urmi was playing with Nimboli were so childish that they were laughable. Just time pass.

Nimboli would have undergone this fate at her current age had Akheraj not been obsessed with caste and creed. Nothing could have saved her, neither her potential as future lead nor the fact that she is the "so called" current lead's estranged daughter.