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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RTee


How is Urmila grey. She is as much a victim of society and its practices as any other person. Her parents seem to have brought her up with lots of love and affection. She is the darling of her father and mother. We have not seen any other siblings. Only girl child. Yet they married her without proper investigation about the family into which they were marrying their daughter.

Married underage with no education from her mother about what a marriage entails. Just instructions to keep the first wife at bay and lose her from her home as soon as possible.

She is not foolish but just immature, a bit like Kamli. The games she was playing with Nimboli were so childish that they were laughable. Just time pass.

Nimboli would have undergone this fate at her current age had Akheraj not been obsessed with caste and creed. Nothing could have saved her, neither her potential as future lead or the fact that she is the "so called" current lead's estranged daughter.

Akheraj's main objection to the marriage at that time had been that he did not know the caste or creed of that child.Age factor came into consideration only later.
Later on when they got to know how Kundan was after Nimboli it was the same reason. They did not want their heirs to come from a girl whose caste they did not know.
Otherwise Akheraj would have said the same thing about Nnimboli Kundan too. What happens between those two remains between them.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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In addition they made Urmila a bit grey.

Reminds me of Sanchi Saurabh.

Why is Urmi called grey? Because she is troubling the lead/future lead?

Sanchi was grey.Does that mean viewers won't mind seeing her become Saurabh's victim just because she is grey?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Even when anandi was kidnapped, nothing happened to her And ganga was also kidnapped and nothing happened to her too.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Why is Urmi called grey? Because she is troubling the lead/future lead?

Sanchi was grey.Does that mean viewers won't mind seeing her become Saurabh's victim just because she is grey?




They just dont care that much.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Urmila is not that young. Why cant they show Kundan and Urmila as having a good marital life?

Will it make Nimboli feel that how can Urmila be so happy with Kundan?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Why is Urmi called grey? Because she is troubling the lead/future lead?

Sanchi was grey.Does that mean viewers won't mind seeing her become Saurabh's victim just because she is grey?



Sanchi was not grey either. She too was a darling daughter of her family and cherished sister of her brothers. In the process she was utterly spoilt by them. Not her fault.

She objected to her brother marrying a divorced woman and took an instant dislike to her because her future SIL did not conform to her idea of a SIL. Just because her to-be SIL is the perceived lead of a show, does not mean every character in the show has to like her.

From being the only girl in the family whose wishes were everybody's command, all her actions were measured against her SIL,who in any case, being the "so called" lead, was a paragon of virtue.

Demoted from her exalted position in the house, Sanchi took it badly and decided to behave in an immature and foolish manner. She was taking revenge on her family for not listening to her. She took extreme measures and was punished equally harshly.

Had her parents and grandfather taken pains to understand the girl better, things may not have taken such drastic turns.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



They just dont care that much.

Then shouldn't the viewers be blamed for that?

After all makers are in this for business and they would show only what people like to watch.
Why blame the makers when it is the viewers who don't like to see their leads subjected to sexual offences?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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but there is possibility kundan can try this with nimboli also. atleast he can try in future because now with urmila his mission is over and for kundan sex is lust so may be he will need change.
this is possible.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Should we feel happy that Nimboli was spared?

Should we feel sad that Urmila was made to suffer because they want to keep Nimboli safe from explicit sexual violence?

If they wanted they could have shown Nimboli undergoing that trauma but they wanted to keep an important character safe.


Urmila was not made to suffer... She remembered her mother's words and willingly went into the act.

With Gehna, the case was different. Basant forced himself on her after getting drunk on the first night.

Nimboli was saved only because of Mangala... CVs want mangala to be an important factor in nimboli's life whether some viewers like it or not.
Edited by Shinya - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If Akheraj and Harki decide that Nimboli would be Kundan's wife nothing would have stopped them
Mangala would not have been able to do anything to save her.


Akheraj and Harki did not want Nimboli as their son's wife.So they did not want any consequences of physical relationship between Kundan and Nimboli.


What did Mangala do when all the times she saw him trying to sneak into Nimboli's room? Nothing.
She never told his parents.
Why did she not tell his parents? Because she did not know what his parents have in mind.
She just gave that girl a knife which is of no use to her because he over powered her once with the knife too.

It is Chagini who reported this to his parents and advances stopped immediately and he changed his tactics and stop scaring that girl - This is to that unsung lady Chagini.


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