It'll take hardly 5 mins. Please read, it's for you all. 😃
This seems a bit akward to talk about. But since I've covered most of the, well, akward talks, I should do this too.
I am not naming anyone, but some people here bash stories from IF on twitter or whatever networking site that maybe. I don't know with whom it may have happened, but I still join my hands and request.. please do not bash anyone's works. You don't like them, ignore it. They haven't wrote it for you. And pls, they're putting in a lot of effort to write the story.
I'm not on twitter, and often I hear from my friends that people there are making of me, my style of clothing and whatever. They're not perfect! So those who are suffering from bashing, please ignore. If you're getting bashed a lot, talk about that to all adult. A friend. Someone, whom you think, can help you in this matter. Just don't let it be inside you and hurt you!
Talk to people here, I am always there. You can always consult me ask whatever you want to ask. Hey, I'm officially an adult, alright? 😆
No but seriously, you can always talk to me. If you're thinking hidin is the solution to all this, please don't. It's not. It'll only make matters worse. Just.. Just them be. Just let them make fun of you and don't complain. One day they'll stop making fun of you when they know it doesn't matter to you.
And it's not only about works here at IF, I'm taking about daily basis. If you're in school, home, college, society, work, wherever.. And if someone's hurting you, bullying you, making fun of you, boycotting you, or doing anything that makes you uncomfortable.. Tell someone. I know I said ignoring is the best way. I sitil think so, but that too to an extent.
If you have any more time, just read what happened to me once.
I was in school. I guess 8 or 9th grade when my parents put me into the matheletes team. I wasn't good at maths but my Dad wanted me to be. So I didn't object and because of me, we lost our competiion. Now, the whole school was blaming me for days. They were bashing me, they boycot me from every single activity, and the principal told me that if I was not interested, I shouldn't have taken part on the first place.
But that doesn't mean that I run to Dad and say it's all his fault? I didn't do that because I made the decision. He didn't make me go to that competition, did he? But I went there.
So though I know this is really stupid to talk of, but being in this critcising world, you always have to be strong and never... EVER think you're alone. :)
And besides, my chudails are more than brave and strong 😉
Thanks for reading. 😳
-Tani.