I am amazed at the way people try to find faults with Anandi's acts.
When is the right time???
Didn'Anandi herself say that she should have done it long time back?
There is also a saying better late then never
Regardless of when Anandi moved out the reactions of Dsa and J would have been the same.
In the begining she was in a state where she herself couldn't tell whether she was right or wrong.
People expected her to put up convincing arguments when she lost her husband only a few months prior to that then she lost her little baby partly because of her own mistake she became completely a broken woman who had no belief in her own self and all she wanted was to search for her baby.
People kept saying why didn't she convince the elders that she would be able to look after her child on her own? If she did that people would have said she was superwoman and how can a normal woman identify herself with her.When she behaved as a human being because she was completely drained and did what the elders told her to do becaue they made her do that out of concern.
She wanted to stay in out house peopeldidn;t agree.
Lateron she also slowly became stronger and her confidence returned and she wanted to move out Dsa didn't agree.
Yes Dsa's approval matters to her a lot because as far as she is concerned Dsa always acts in her best interests.So she wanted her consent.
It was Dsa who refused to accept reality until it came and bit her then only she agreed with Anandi that it was the best thing.
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Why ia Dsa's motive not questioned?
Why Jagya's actions are not being brought up by the TM??Is it be cause J happens to be the personal favorite of the TM?😛
Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago
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