Is this show teaching Indian men to love their wife via verbal abuse??

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Posted: 10 years ago
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CVs of YHM should be aware of what message they are giving to the society... They took a break from "Ghar ka chiraag" awareness classes and enrolled for "Verbal abuse"...
Is this TRP gimmicks? NO!!!! Becoz I dont see their TRP increasing with all these they keep serving in name of drama.

If you want the world to think that in india it is OKAY to yell at ur wife and throw her out at the drop of a hat then go ahead...

But, this is a serious blunder in the name of creative liberty!!!!

Last but not the least... This is not the RKB that we fans know of... the one we know is fiercely protective of his loved ones and most importantly his wife!!!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good post.

It pains me to see RKB like this. In the early days of their marriage, he would get angry but he never taunted her this cruelly in anger. His anger was more often than not justified but he also owned up to it. He never once asked her to leave and when she did leave, he never broke the relationship between her & Ruhi.

Then around the Mani track - he became crueler. Since the turn of the year - he spews these vile low blows in anger, and it's harder to shake them off. There are times when it even makes full sense for him to be mad, but then things get taken too far and any relatability is gone.

This isn't the couple I grew attached to, and it pains me to actually say this is an abusive relationship.

No woman deserves to be treated like a doormat. We have been waiting for Ishita for Ishita to take a stand, but she hasn't thus far. Since they've fallen in love, she allows this to happen. Does she as a character or the writer realize what they are showing? Something needs to change soon.

The CVs don't understand balance. They could've shown Raman being short tempered about these situations, leading to distance between the leads, but no...for "drama," they have been adding in crass dialogs & make the entire situation unbalanced where Raman is the dominating, hypocritical male while Ishita is left to suffer. And that's not the dynamic anyone fell in love with.

I can empathize with a short temper but not cruelty, and the CVs started to crossed that line during the Sautan Sagas when Shagun/Adi went missing.

This show used to share strong social messages, but now it has become this regressive show with a few episodes of beautify & class thrown in.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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ashok shows his love via rapes his wife not verbal abuse 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Reality or not he is the most annoying character.Thank god he exists only in fiction.
He was always insensitive towards her at the need of hour.What's the point of being nice to ur wife if only she does something great?
Ok,basically this show is effed up so badly that you don't take it seriously.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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For Raman:

For Ishita:


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Posted: 10 years ago
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A very pertinent point you raise! And I agree completely with you and Krish ben(hellooo there:).

I had the misfortune of watching today's episode and I was stunned to say the least. The show had lost its charm for me eons ago, even IshRa scenes had lost their magic(for me)...but what I saw today was plain disgusting and pathetic. If Raman is the hero of this show, I wonder who the negative character is.

Shagun echoed the sentiments of a lot of us-'Kya drama hai'! I think when creativity and out of box thinking is scarce, you end up scripting such appalling story-there was a time YHM was very relatable-to many of us(we might never be in a situation like Ishita's or Raman's, but the emotions, feelings displayed and decisions made by the characters was real). But now, the relationships are so messed up and implausible that relatability(whether to Mihir-Rinki-Mihika situation, Raman's verbal abuse or Ishita's passive reaction to Raman's yellings) has gone for a toss! And it only seems like the makers are milking these implausible situations till the viewer drops dead of exhaustion and disgust!!!

And don't get me started about the message being sent to the audience through these tracks! All I can hope is the audience (TRP or otherwise) is much smarter than the makers' make them out to be and doesn't fall prey to their cheap portrayals in the name of drama.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: TOMB-RAIDERR

ashok shows his love via rapes his wife not verbal abuse 🤣

isnt it sad tht the male lead is now being compared to a lecherous antagonist??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu rulz

isnt it sad tht the male lead is now being compared to a lecherous antagonist??

lecherous??? Not really... Not all abuse is sexual😕

EDITED: sorry I got u wrong in first place😊... I thought u were talking about raman being lecherous
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very nice post & I completely agree wit the TM!! The words which Raman said to Ishita were horrendous & cruel. What I fail to understand is jus few minutes back he promised her that her feelings r now most imp to him & in the very next second he thrashs & crushes her feelings so brutally, for the sake of his brotherly love & to prove his sister that she matters to him more than his love for his wife or heck his wife itself!.
Another thing which struck me badly was the unresponsive attitude of Ishita's parents. I mean can that be for Real??!!! A father & mother of a daughter will allow their son-in-law to threat thier daughter so cruelly & throw her out of the house like a trash...silently!! Not a word said by the Iyer parents. I don't know how did their silence act as a damage control weapon here!!! but one thing I'm sure, if the roles were reversed the Bhallas (especially Toshi Bhalla) would hv brought the roof down if her son was subjected to such cruel words from her daughter-in-law!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I skipped the episode after reading Gravity's review.
I would still like to say or rather believe that Raman is doing all this on purpose.
He has come a long way in the relationship to throw Ishita out of the house.
I would also like to believe that Ishita understands Raman's plan and has decided to play along.

Else none of it makes any sense.
One minute you go down on your knees proclaiming love and the very next you throw ur wife out of the house. Are viewers fools ?

I will still give Raman the benefit of doubt, maybe he is trying to prove a point.

But agree to the fact that the venom he spits when angry is beyond anyone''s tolerance. He behaves like one uncouth foulmouthed moron.

What baffles me is Rinki's behaviour. She knew Mihir loved Mihika and to expect a change over night is ridiculous.
Rinki should have made some effort and if all that failed she could blame Mihir.

Relationships need to be given time to mature...doesnt work like a toggle.

But then its all fiction right...if everything goes as per logic where is the drama...

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