Is this show teaching Indian men to love their wife via verbal abuse?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Desdemona

Because of Raman's constant shoutings, 'Yeh hi---- ' is banned in our living room Television. I watch just for Ishitha on my iPad.

I agree with the above post that it pains when your husband shouts on you like this. Spouses tolerate that in our country. But here in U.S. If husband is abusive they immediately get a divorce. Both husband and wife constantly have to please the other. Otherwise they end the marriage forever.

Originally posted by: beckysharp

@appuss, Very pertinent post.

yesterday, whilst watching the episode, I just saw a snippet of it and was horrified at the screaming and verbal abuse showered on the female protagonist ! What galled me, was not his throwing her out, but HER not walking out and Ishita telling Raman this was her house too !

No self respecting woman would take this kind of verbal abuse... she is not an uneducated woman nor does she need to depend upon her husband for financial wherewithal.

Why would a modern educated woman take this crap that is being showered on her ? ..

What I am unable to accept is this, if this is the BIG BLAST that was to happen, it is in a very very very bad / poor taste and imagine the effect of this on the children ! how would the writers justify that ? Aditya is worried and Ruhi is blas !

Ugh ! Ugly, total nonsense and senseless drama. I am not sure what the writers are trying to achieve by this ? ... and frankly, this is not about Ishita being a jagat mata and the sarcasm that we normally heap on her in the forum .. This is very very important for the writers to note and pretty scary thought that they are affecting a lot of TV viewers and the trend that it is ok to listen to all the abuse from your husband and get back to being normal bickering the next day !

I liked this show for what it showed in reality... and as someone very pertinently pointed out, Param for all that he is a leech, treats simmi with respect and love whereas Raman who is so called protagonist verbally abuses his wife and treats her like her place is in the dustbin and no where else ! Whereas, he is all soft and sweet with the ex who betrayed him walked out on him when he was at his most vulnerable !

So, all Shaggy's vitriol and venom is forgiven ! Why ? because she gave birth to RKB's two children and she holds that over him... Whereas Ishita for all intents and purposes, the woman he is supposedly in love with does not deserve the same respect and honour, why ? coz she cannot have children !

I am appalled at the so called though process of the writers !

Originally posted by: mischief

Very nice post & I completely agree wit the TM!! The words which Raman said to Ishita were horrendous & cruel. What I fail to understand is jus few minutes back he promised her that her feelings r now most imp to him & in the very next second he thrashs & crushes her feelings so brutally, for the sake of his brotherly love & to prove his sister that she matters to him more than his love for his wife or heck his wife itself!.

Another thing which struck me badly was the unresponsive attitude of Ishita's parents. I mean can that be for Real??!!! A father & mother of a daughter will allow their son-in-law to threat thier daughter so cruelly & throw her out of the house like a trash...silently!! Not a word said by the Iyer parents. I don't know how did their silence act as a damage control weapon here!!! but one thing I'm sure, if the roles were reversed the Bhallas (especially Toshi Bhalla) would hv brought the roof down if her son was subjected to such cruel words from her daughter-in-law!!!

Originally posted by: Desdemona

Because of Raman's constant shoutings, 'Yeh hi---- ' is banned in our living room Television. I watch just for Ishitha on my iPad.

I agree with the above post that it pains when your husband shouts on you like this. Spouses tolerate that in our country. But here in U.S. If husband is abusive they immediately get a divorce. Both husband and wife constantly have to please the other. Otherwise they end the marriage forever.