Milind seeks to give Prachi her freedom

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Yesterday's episode appears as though Milind is to be blamed for fighting with Neev and failing to understand Prachi. I have a different take on it. He knows that Prachi and Neev have not done anything wrong. Neev may love Prachi but she values her marriage more than anything. He has heard Prachi say that. He surely believes that. But he thinks that she will be bettter off with Neev. He thinks that Prachi is with him because she is compelled by her sense of values. He does not want that. He wants to be loved. He wants her to stay in the marriage because of love which Prachi has still not revealed to him. That is what is breaking his heart. He wants the divorce to end the pain for everyone. He wants to be seen as rude so that Prachi herself would want to leave him. His fight with Neev is again to make himself look like the bad guy.

I think when he told Neev that in this house someone is betraying her husband and someone is betraying his wife he meant himself and his supposed ONS with Ayesha. When he rants about his misfortune of not finding love and Prachi gets scared by his yelling, he immediately becomes soft towards her and tells her that he did not mean to scare her. He understands how it is difficult to forget one's first love. So I am sure he is doing this to let Prachi find her happiness.

He loves her too much to keep her bound in a marriage which he thinks is a burden on her. That is why even though he wanted to stop her he does not. The pain was very clear when she tells him that she is leaving because she could not bring him any happiness and by her leaving maybe he will find his happiness in his first love. That scene was really heart wrenching. Milind loves Prachi too deeply and he is hurting because of it.

Hope the two will tell each other how they really feel and unite soon.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Wonderful post dear...and so very beautifully explained....and I for one am in complete agreement too..that he's letting go of Prachi.....not because he does not love her...but because he does...and wants to see her happy with who he beleives she still loves.

I too said so in another post that....hes giving her, her freedom so that her love can succeed

And the dialogue said it all....that let love win this time...let love have the highest priority...not a marriage that is a majboori.

He so wants to be loved..my baby😳😛😃

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Posted: 18 years ago
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yaar .... why do you think I am so angry with this idiot.....

yes he is trying to unite to love- ones .... thinking how much his wife's loves her childhood friend.... but he doesn't know that it is him 😭 ..... he is now her love ......

he thinks she is with him because off her darm ..... it's her duty as his wife.... he will never expected her to fall fore a guy like him.... he thinks he isn't acceptable with his background.... the guy isn't her class....

plus that he has cheated on is wife.... so now he is pushing her away in the most hurtful way.....this "ONS "has made him belief not to be the right person for prachi... he cant forgive himself....and this now added for to his feeling not to be fit for prachi.......

yes idiot had beaten my white knight but only out off his frustration and helplessness..... he couldn't hear it any more.....he was so hurt cause he lost prachi and wanted to vent out his anger , using neev as a punching ball 😡 ...


neev said that love not only is getting the person but when you didn't get your pyar , you will pray for that persons happiness.....( beautiful line in Hindi...)

milind is acting on that..... cause he wants prachi to be happy....and prachi walk out wishing milind all the happiness.....and his love..she also did what neev explained milind about love....

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i agree with u hun but i hav jus one question...y does prachi hav 2 proclaim her love 4 milind first? why not the other way rwnd?
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: optimist

Yesterday's episode appears as though Milind is to be blamed for fighting with Neev and failing to understand Prachi. I have a different take on it. He knows that Prachi and Neev have not done anything wrong. Neev may love Prachi but she values her marriage more than anything. He has heard Prachi say that. He surely believes that. But he thinks that she will be bettter off with Neev. He thinks that Prachi is with him because she is compelled by her sense of values. He does not want that. He wants to be loved. He wants her to stay in the marriage because of love which Prachi has still not revealed to him. That is what is breaking his heart. He wants the divorce to end the pain for everyone. He wants to be seen as rude so that Prachi herself would want to leave him. His fight with Neev is again to make himself look like the bad guy.

I think when he told Neev that in this house someone is betraying her husband and someone is betraying his wife he meant himself and his supposed ONS with Ayesha. When he rants about his misfortune of not finding love and Prachi gets scared by his yelling, he immediately becomes soft towards her and tells her that he did not mean to scare her. He understands how it is difficult to forget one's first love. So I am sure he is doing this to let Prachi find her happiness.

He loves her too much to keep her bound in a marriage which he thinks is a burden on her. That is why even though he wanted to stop her he does not. The pain was very clear when she tells him that she is leaving because she could not bring him any happiness and by her leaving maybe he will find his happiness in his first love. That scene was really heart wrenching. Milind loves Prachi too deeply and he is hurting because of it.

Hope the two will tell each other how they really feel and unite soon.



very well said..! i agree completely..! he wants Prachi to stay.. his reaching out to her is evidence of that.. and he knows she would stay if he asked her to but he feels that she would stay only because of a sense of duty and responsibility and not because she wants to stay..! its like that saying if you love someone you have to let them go.. Milind is probably doing the same thing.. that scene where Prachi tells him where she hopes he reunites with his first love you can see the pain in his expression.. he doesn;t want to find happiness with anyone else but Prachi but he thinks her happiness is with Neev and he wants nothing more than Prachi to be happy..

but still i wish he had just asked her to stay..! lol..! 😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: shali

yaar .... why do you think I am so angry with this idiot.....

Aww.....he does those insufferable, brainless things...doesn't he ..that one does not know...if he needs to be knocked up..or us.😆 More like should I be angry at him..or hug him😆

yes he is trying to unite to love- ones .... thinking how much his wife's loves her childhood friend.... but he doesn't know that it is him 😭 ..... he is now her love ......

True..and both the duffers think alike don't they...proving to us ..that they are so meant for one another..if only...😡

he thinks she is with him because off her darm ..... it's her duty as his wife.... he will never expected her to fall fore a guy like him.... he thinks he isn't acceptable with his background.... the guy isn't her class....

Very good point dear 👏 Couldn't have said it any better myself....and so true...thats what he thinks...that duffer.

plus that he has cheated on is wife.... so now he is pushing her away in the most hurtful way.....this "ONS "has made him belief not to be the right person for prachi... he cant forgive himself....and this now added for to his feeling not to be fit for prachi.......

Exactly

yes idiot had beaten my white knight but only out off his frustration and helplessness..... he couldn't hear it any more.....he was so hurt cause he lost prachi and wanted to vent out his anger , using neev as a punching ball 😡 ...

True..poor Neev, got beat up..as our Teddy Bear or should I say Grizzly Bear...need to vent.😆


neev said that love not only is getting the person but when you didn't get your pyar , you will pray for that persons happiness.....( beautiful line in Hindi...)

Yes ...very beautiful lines indeed and our Hero is following them to the T now ...by setting his wife free.😡

milind is acting on that..... cause he wants prachi to be happy....and prachi walk out wishing milind all the happiness.....and his love..she also did what neev explained milind about love....

Yes duffers both

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Posted: 18 years ago
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yes duffers both.... but duffers who are setting each other free without knowing that their happiness lies with each other....

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: shali

yes duffers both.... but duffers who are setting each other free without knowing that their happiness lies with each other....

Thats whay they are duffers...who are truly meant for one another and no one else...😆😆😆 They do think alike...😉 Each wanting the same thing...the others happiness...😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Make it three people wanting each other's happiness. Neev wanting Prachi's happiness. So he will let go of Prachi. Milind wanting Prachi's happiness so he too will let go of Prachi. And Prachi, she wants Milind's happiness which she thinks is with Ayesha. Milind keeps on saying that one cant forget one's first love. So you cant really blame her for thinking that he was in a way refering to himself. So she willingly leaves Milind. But at the end of the day nobody is happy.

Neev is in an uneviable position. His love has become one sided now. So no hope of redemption. But these two duffers can alteast have some hope for the future when they realise their sacrifice is meaningless because there is nothing more each want than the confort of each other's arms.

NP fans hard luck, MP fans stick on for that great day of realisation.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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krishna.....

love is such a strange thing we never know when we like a person so much that we can't live without eachother.... this is happening with michi now....

prachi thinking that milind will be back with ayesha, will never happen .... milind is over ayesha.... yes after the so called ONS he felt guilt but nothing more....guilt for ruining her life.....but he knows he never will be back ayesha....she is his past now....

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