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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: saba113

Mannu is 15 years old for heaven's sake not a grown up boy is Jagya mad who will say let his 15 year old son take decisions of his life and romance a girl of similar age group This does not happen even in western societies leave Indian


Okay, I know they are 15-yr olds. And what they are feeling towards each other is not love in the first place but just attraction, which with time may just fade off.

However, if ganga is overly worried about their friendship, then there is a way out to handle the situation. According to me, telling lies to puja that mannu is not at home when he was very much in the house or telling her that her mom has asked her to come home or cutting off manja or whatever is going to only aggravate the problem rather than solving it. She must have a head-to-head conversation with her son and understand how he thinks about the whole issue and what his plans are about his own future.

Regarding what jagya will say - as per what is being shown lately, Jagya will believe it only if he witnesses it himself. If he does find out how they both feel about each other, I think jagya will talk to mannu and make him see sense. He will not use manipulative methods.

This is what I feel. You may think differently or feel that ganga's strategy is the best. Every one is free to have their own views.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

Mannu though basically good boy seems to be a adamant type. Y'days scene when he returned the college application, it was so clear. He was not ready for any further discussion on that. In such a case Ganga being so stringent will only make him more adamant. Maybe a much open communication is needed so that both know each others point of view. Mannu deciding to stay in Jaitsar because of pooja doesn't seem right. He is giving up his own previous wish to study for a teenage crush is not a good idea. If he is love is true then let it stand the test of time.

Problem is ppl don't have open conversation on these love matters specially when the kid is young and parents are conservative. Ganga will not do the open talk for sure. If Jagya comes to know about this love angle, he may handle it better(maybe from guy's POV).

i don't thin mannu is adamant types.he was just avoiding discussion on it so that he doesn't've 2 give the reason as he knows he doesn't've any reason.
and ganga can't've nay open convo abt pooja wid him bcoz she doesn't've any open proof.wat"ll she say 2 him??shes only sensing sumthing wrong .wen she"ll get the proof then she"ll deftnly talk 2 him openly &will try 2 make him understand in this. and here JaGan both cud handle it better. it cna't b done by only one parent.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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One doubt , Mannu is in 10th or 12th?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Prophet_

One doubt , Mannu is in 10th or 12th?


He is in the 10th.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tiny15

i don't thin mannu is adamant types.he was just avoiding discussion on it so that he doesn't've 2 give the reason as he knows he doesn't've any reason.

and ganga can't've nay open convo abt pooja wid him bcoz she doesn't've any open proof.wat"ll she say 2 him??shes only sensing sumthing wrong .wen she"ll get the proof then she"ll deftnly talk 2 him openly &will try 2 make him understand in this. and here JaGan both cud handle it better. it cna't b done by only one parent.

So he wants his parents to accept his decision without giving any reason when he is the one who initially wanted to study in Mumbai. He gave the papers without second thought. Didn't he think he will be questioned? Doesn't his parents owe an explanation atleast! I don't know but I felt he was adamant type once he takes a decision reg something.
What proof can anyone give for love/crush whatever!😕 I think this track will bring some drama in Mannu front. Maybe Ratan truth comes out.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


Okay, I know they are 15-yr olds. And what they are feeling towards each other is not love in the first place but just attraction, which with time may just fade off.

However, if ganga is overly worried about their friendship, then there is a way out to handle the situation. According to me, telling lies to puja that mannu is not at home when he was very much in the house or telling her that her mom has asked her to come home or cutting off manja or whatever is going to only aggravate the problem rather than solving it. She must have a head-to-head conversation with her son and understand how he thinks about the whole issue and what his plans are about his own future.

Regarding what jagya will say - as per what is being shown lately, Jagya will believe it only if he witnesses it himself. If he does find out how they both feel about each other, I think jagya will talk to mannu and make him see sense. He will not use manipulative methods.

This is what I feel. You may think differently or feel that ganga's strategy is the best. Every one is free to have their own views.

I never said Ganga's strategy is the best where i said that show me ?She is wrong in handling it Jagya may handle it well than her but Jagya will not let it happen i have this much hopes on him He is a sensible man

but calling her worry as wrong i don't agree to that

Just attraction ? 😆no one is just attracted like that Those kids are getting more and more serious it will hurt them immensely when they broke off Breaking off from even best friends take time to over come hurt feelings
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

So he wants his parents to accept his decision without giving any reason when he is the one who initially wanted to study in Mumbai. He gave the papers without second thought. Didn't he think he will be questioned? Doesn't his parents owe an explanation atleast! I don't know but I felt he was adamant type once he takes a decision reg something.
What proof can anyone give for love/crush whatever!😕 I think this track will bring some drama in Mannu front. Maybe Ratan truth comes out.

ur 1st few lines i don't think he thot all abt it as he was thinking abt pooja only.and he gave papers w idout any 2nd thot bcoz he'd already thot that he doesn't want 2 go bcoz of pooja.but wen he was asked abt it he avoided bcoz he doesn't want 2 give any reason . just see wat reason will he give abt his refusal esply wne he himself wanted 2 go at 1st.and kids do such things like wen they want 2 avoid giving answer as theres no reason they make lame excuses.2 me it luked like hes avoiding giving reasons bcoz he himself knows that the reason is wrong & no1 will support him 4 this & he mite b thinking now matter is solved & elders will 4get all abt it as he himself refused.actually hes so blinded in pooja's crush that he overluked all these things.
@bold i agree he owe an explanation but i don't think he thot abt that. he only thot abt pooja at that time & most probly hes thinking that J trusts him v.much(wen he gave mannu money widout saying anything) so he"ll think now he doesn't want 2 go so no prob 4 them also.
@ur last para thatswhy i m saying how cud ganga talk 2 him openly?? if only she caught him red-handed like hear his phone convo wid pooja or saw them hgging or confessing luv then only she can take any step.may b ratan drama
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Manja 😆😆😆...doesnt dat evn make a comb ined name fr mannu pooja =manja 😆
well high school or teenage crush are normal these days they may be attraction n these attracted people if find compatible to each other do end up in marriage in future...well thats quite a long time to go though

mannu's age ...in this age ppl r rigid...he wont listen dats sure ...n agressive way of making them away is wrong option

to wat i see...there is nuthing wrong in generartig feeling fr sum1...parents need to deal children very
carefully...they hv stop being parents n becum their frnds ...dats whn child gets more close n tells everythng to their parents

well i dont knw abt rest bt as per my personnel experience ...wt my parents evn my frns parents ...this makes one more responsible ...and also a sense whr to draw line
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree in this age kids bcum adamant. mannu may not bcum adamant openly.but still theres need of strictness in this case. every child & prsn is difft so no single way can b said 2 b rite or wrong.
and ganga is not being overlystrict. she only tries where its possible.shes not stopping him from going anywhere.
and i goes by wat chanyakya'd said that kids shid b treated wid full care & luv till 5 yr then he shud b dealt strictly till 16 & after that he shud b treated as frnd.
so mannu is not 16 so he needs 2 b bit strictness form his parents esply ganga who ahs sensed sumthing wrong.
and luk how mannu is neglecting his studies 4 pooja i won't b srprsd if he"ll b shown getting failed & ganga will again get blamed that she din't stop him.

so in mannu's case both ways r 2 b tried. wen u bcum sure or catch him red-handed then make him sit & talk 2 him & tell abt the consequences.

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