Im not liking the constant bashing of Nachiket's character

Hey guys... I have been reading comments from the past few days and I have noticed that there is constant bashing of nachiket's character which im not able to understand and neither have d comments been able to justify it. Let's not get into the confrontation section between N&R becos all hv diff pov's and no point arguing on the same. Now getting into d different comments...sum saying dat Neil doesn't have a mind of his own or listens to his sis...i don't agree with dat at all...he has always reprimanded pam and nivedita when needed and especially for Ragini ..there are so many instances...at the farmhouse when dey were playing cards or when nive had a fall...or he corrected pam not to insult aman ...so many instances yaar... cant think right now.. The biggest one when he declared dat he doesn't want to go ahead with d engagement but the mahan aatma Ragini pushed him into it...He is just waiting for one positive signal from ragini and trust me he will bring the world at her feet...but ragini and her fake marriage and aman sir. Neil has always been away from nive and ragini is always stuck to Dr aman...here also neil is targeted. Nivedita knows very well dat neil is clearly not interested but she is doing it on purpose as her intentions are wicked and let her face d consequences for it. Also Neil and ragini's marriage broke becos of them only...there was no pam or nive involved...so no question of listening to others. Also everybody wanted d fake marriage 2 b revealed and when it was revealed...sum had a problem with him questioning aman and ragini...and if he had not reacted.. den we say d hero is useless...so in other words we have a problem if he says good morning and we also have a problem if he doesn't say good morning. Also im very sure if he had reacted more strongly towards Rk for not telling him d truth..den too we would have criticized him...I mean common yaar guys..dis is too much. Also Pam is a living truth in neil's life who doesn't want to sudrofy...so wat can neil do...can he throw her out...but atleast he takes a stand when required and dat will have importance when ragini supports him which doesn't seem to happen. Also sumbody mentioned dat the entire khanna fly keeps on insulting ragini and fly but wat abt ragini insulting neil time and again...who will keep a count of dat???Ragini keeps on reacting on evry damn thing without thinking...wat abt dat...All dat im sayin is why cant we be fair instead of just bashin one lead character constantly...seriously no offence to anybody...i luv reading all d hilarious comments u guys post

Originally posted by: Hiphop_R

Yaa but can u tell me who should he try to win back or woo when dat so called lady love is just not interested..who doesnt give a damn to whatever he does or says..just keeps taunting and givin gyaan. He had taken d decision of not gettin married...but wat did his luv do..sunofy's him and hurts him which was not necessary at all. When he refused 2 get engaged she said dats a part of his nature...so if neil would have said all dese things 2 ragini what she would have done.He had said one thing 2 her when he came 2 india and she was so hurt dat she did a fake marriage drama for f**kin so many months...

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Ragini is a woman scorned and Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned. He lied to her about Rupali by not disclosing that his ex girlfriend had re-surfaced, that he was treating her pregnancy privately and had put her up at a hotel, he being a cardiologist had suddenly turned ob/gyn with not a word of explanation to his wife. If I were his wife, I would be beyond miffed too. And he brings the baby home expecting Ragini to accept the child still with no word of explanation but blaming her for Rupali's death with not a question asked about the phone call. To top it all, he ups and leaves and she is left to flounder with the upbringing of two children on her own with no financial means. He needs to be applauded indeed for his selfish, cannot see beyond his own egotistic nose self, and she needs to be grateful and accepting that he deigned to spare her a thought after 15 miserable years.

Neil returns and insults and humiliates Ragini that no man could ever be with her while he himself has not been celibate these 15 years. Yes, she is hurt, she needs to recover what little respect and confidence is left to her in front of this man who had meant the world to her and who had shattered it all. Does she know he still loves her? No, his actions have not bespoken that for years. 15 years is a long time to be away, not care whether she is alive or dead and then pop back into her life 'cos he heard she has moved on (by his own acknowledgement) like she is a possession that has been cast aside but is his, nevertheless.

If Neil's insult to Ragini about no man being able to tolerate her is not good enough reason for her to fake a marriage, her insult to him should not be reason enough for him to embark upon a real engagement. And no, neither her lack of interest in him nor her avid interest should be the driving factor in his trying to woo her back. If he truly loves her and realizes how he has wronged her, he would do what it takes to see if he at least stands a second chance, not by uselessly professing undying love (which led them nowhere the first time around) but by actually proving his love by showing her he never cheated on her while they were married (let's forget the shenanigans in NY).

RK had to tell him that, not to leave any stone unturned and to do his best to prove his innocence in the Suhani matter, Neil still persists in thinking it is not necessary to give Ragini an explanation about the paternity of his girl friend's child that he brought home and expected his wife to raise sans questions.

Ragini has had no hope of reuniting with Neil these past 15 years, she has not indulged in affairs, she has not married Aman even when there has been no hope that Nachiket loves her. So why does Nachiket have to jump into marriage with Nive or anyone for that matter, just because he thinks he stands no chance with Ragini? Not fair.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Ragini is a woman scorned and Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned. He lied to her about Rupali by not disclosing that his ex girlfriend had re-surfaced, that he was treating her pregnancy privately and had put her up at a hotel, he being a cardiologist had suddenly turned ob/gyn with not a word of explanation to his wife. If I were his wife, I would be beyond miffed too. And he brings the baby home expecting Ragini to accept the child still with no word of explanation but blaming her for Rupali's death with not a question asked about the phone call. To top it all, he ups and leaves and she is left to flounder with the upbringing of two children on her own with no financial means. He needs to be applauded indeed for his selfish, cannot see beyond his own egotistic nose self, and she needs to be grateful and accepting that he deigned to spare her a thought after 15 miserable years.

Neil returns and insults and humiliates Ragini that no man could ever be with her while he himself has not been celibate these 15 years. Yes, she is hurt, she needs to recover what little respect and confidence is left to her in front of this man who had meant the world to her and who had shattered it all. Does she know he still loves her? No, his actions have not bespoken that for years. 15 years is a long time to be away, not care whether she is alive or dead and then pop back into her life 'cos he heard she has moved on (by his own acknowledgement) like she is a possession that has been cast aside but is his, nevertheless.

If Neil's insult to Ragini about no man being able to tolerate her is not good enough reason for her to fake a marriage, her insult to him should not be reason enough for him to embark upon a real engagement. And no, neither her lack of interest in him nor her avid interest should be the driving factor in his trying to woo her back. If he truly loves her and realizes how he has wronged her, he would do what it takes to see if he at least stands a second chance, not by uselessly professing undying love (which led them nowhere the first time around) but by actually proving his love by showing her he never cheated on her while they were married (let's forget the shenanigans in NY).

RK had to tell him that, not to leave any stone unturned and to do his best to prove his innocence in the Suhani matter, Neil still persists in thinking it is not necessary to give Ragini an explanation about the paternity of his girl friend's child that he brought home and expected his wife to raise sans questions.

Ragini has had no hope of reuniting with Neil these past 15 years, she has not indulged in affairs, she has not married Aman even when there has been no hope that Nachiket loves her. So why does Nachiket have to jump into marriage with Nive or anyone for that matter, just because he thinks he stands no chance with Ragini? Not fair.