Neil is very contradictory

He left Ragini. He put the wishes of a friend ahead of his relationship with his wife.
The adopted baby, born to his friend, was more important than staying and raising his own kids.
He seemed not to find any way of convincing Ragini of the truth and winning her trust.
He chose to leave. Such a stupid MU! (The writers continue to insult the viewers' intelligence)

And yet, 15 years later, he behaves like there was no divorce. How can Ragini be possibly married to another man? How could she? His Ragini! "You know I am so possessive about you. You know I can't bear to see you with another man" Oh please give us a break! No one believes you Neil.

Ragini could have married and divorced several times in those 15 years! Or had untold
one-night-stands, or dated every man in the hospital where she works, or got piercings everywhere, or listened to really loud rap music every night and pissed off the Society, or sold her house and moved to Mexico...

She could have even moved to the moon, you wouldn't have known or cared. You never called her in 15 years!

Oh yes, you didn't waste any time being alone while living in NYC. You had many relationships, - you were certainly not celibate!

So why this sudden care and ownership of an ex-wife?
If Neil always cared, then why did he stay away?

The 15-year gap makes it very difficult to buy this story.
The writers messed up.

Perfectly put !! Who will buy this stuff .. Divorce is done why didn't he bother to get to know what she was doing all these years.. And Neil was a flirt will remain one only try to show his power of Ragini is still mine she is the wife I left & no one can be better than me. 🥱

I used to watch rishta.com. There was a episode where a divorcee mother comes to get married (after 2yrs of divorce) n finds a nice guy...but her ex husband (who left her alone, without any source of income)comes back, says sorry and tells her to come back.He even beats up the new guy she found.

He is indeed contradictory but that doesn't nullify his love to Ragini.

I think he genuinely thought that Ragini had moved on and he wanted closure. The fact that it was all a fake drama has just made him go off the edge which is no justification to what he has been doing in terms of deriding Ragini the day he first met her.

Yes, he hid his facts and dug his own grave. Well if you made a choice then live with it. Now don't come crying and blame Ragini that she misunderstood.

I won't entirely give Ragini the free-ticket because her basis for suspecting that Suhani is his child is plain stupid. If you can't seem to trust a man with whom you have 4 kids in 4 years, then what more can you expect? If she was obsessive natured then she needed to get it off her head that he wouldn't cheat on her after he still pursued despite her repeated NOs.

Originally posted by: Saabi45

He is indeed contradictory but that doesn't nullify his love to Ragini.

I think he genuinely thought that Ragini had moved on and he wanted closure. The fact that it was all a fake drama has just made him go off the edge which is no justification to what he has been doing in terms of deriding Ragini the day he first met her.

Yes, he hid his facts and dug his own grave. Well if you made a choice then live with it. Now don't come crying and blame Ragini that she misunderstood.

I won't entirely give Ragini the free-ticket because her basis for suspecting that Suhani is his child is plain stupid. If you can't seem to trust a man with whom you have 4 kids in 4 years, then what more can you expect? If she was obsessive natured then she needed to get it off her head that he wouldn't cheat on her after he still pursued despite her repeated NOs.

Lol Sun, I totally agree with his current decision making being absolutely rotten. I mean who does that? Utter fool.

He is still thinking of Ragini as the woman who misjudged him completely 15 years ago and also thinks that their love 15 years hasn't changed with the bitter separation. That is what's causing all this one-sided blame crap.

Ragini also needs to reboot herself and get over the fact that only he is responsible for creating doubt in her mind. If you can't trust then don't tell us that you love him today too. What's the point?

I so wish somebody plays quiz quiz with him now, preferably Dr. Aman since he doesn't think its important to give explanations to Ragini.

Originally posted by: Saabi45

Lol Sun, I totally agree with his current decision making being absolutely rotten. I mean who does that? Utter fool.

He is still thinking of Ragini as the woman who misjudged him completely 15 years ago and also thinks that their love 15 years hasn't changed with the bitter separation. That is what's causing all this one-sided blame crap.

Ragini also needs to reboot herself and get over the fact that only he is responsible for creating doubt in her mind. If you can't trust then don't tell us that you love him today too. What's the point?

Originally posted by: xyze

I so wish somebody plays quiz quiz with him now, preferably Dr. Aman since he doesn't think its important to give explanations to Ragini.

Aman should ask Neil:

1. Does he know how much loan is on Ragini's head?

2. Does he know how she tried to fulfill the duties of both mother and father alone?

3. Does he know that because of him re entering her life, her share of children think she is useless and hasn't done anything for them.

Aarav disrespects his mother that she doesn't have enough money to fulfill his desires. Why couldn't he give a little amount from the millions he earnt or leave some property(the home he had in Mumbai) for the Nishi and aarav?..Ragini might have never used it but the kids might have needed it.

4. Why does he shout and reprimand Ragini's only friend who helped her and stood by her when he himself left her alone?

These are more important questions in life rather than favourite food, colour and hill station and unfortunately Aman has answers to all these and not Neil.