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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saabi45

Lol Sun, I totally agree with his current decision making being absolutely rotten. I mean who does that? Utter fool.

He is still thinking of Ragini as the woman who misjudged him completely 15 years ago and also thinks that their love 15 years hasn't changed with the bitter separation. That is what's causing all this one-sided blame crap.

Ragini also needs to reboot herself and get over the fact that only he is responsible for creating doubt in her mind. If you can't trust then don't tell us that you love him today too. What's the point?


that is what is glaringly missing out from this track..that both were at fault and both need to realize..not one playing victim and other held responsible and begging for forgiveness...their love was never an issue as rachna says...inspite of everything that happened between them they both still love each other so much ...it was sthe trust and communication factor...a small mu escalated this huge and destroyed everything
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is such a lovely thread and the discussions are bang on. I so wish somebody shares this thread with the Creative Head.
I am not happy with the way things are moving onto make Ragini the only one responsible for the entire mess. No, she doesn't need this in her life.

I do not have much of an argument ovr here, because Nachiket's words all seem very hollow to me. I somehow cannot connect and I don't know how to react.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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if it is so hard for us to believe his words ..how are we expecting ragini to melt listening to all this right after his roka and suhani issue...and that too 15 years of absolutely silence and ignoring her ke baad...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't know.
This drama is probably okay for tenny bopper romance but for a matured romance, I expected a mature handling.

And I agree with Pinot, in these 15 years, Ragini could have gone through so many phases. For all we know, she could have been dead.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: xyze

I so wish somebody plays quiz quiz with him now, preferably Dr. Aman since he doesn't think its important to give explanations to Ragini.

Aman should ask Neil:
1. Does he know how much loan is on Ragini's head?
2. Does he know how she tried to fulfill the duties of both mother and father alone?
3. Does he know that because of him re entering her life, her share of children think she is useless and hasn't done anything for them.
Aarav disrespects his mother that she doesn't have enough money to fulfill his desires. Why couldn't he give a little amount from the millions he earnt or leave some property(the home he had in Mumbai) for nishi and aarav?..Ragini might have never used it but the kids might have needed it.
4. Why does he shout and reprimand Ragini's only friend who helped her and stood by her when he himself left her alone?


These are more important questions in life rather than favourite food, colour and hill station and unfortunately Aman has answers to all these and not Neil.


I love this quiz quiz Nachiket needs to answer these Q's and many more.

I just wish Aman would ask N these things instead of keeping quiet.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: xyze

I so wish somebody plays quiz quiz with him now, preferably Dr. Aman since he doesn't think its important to give explanations to Ragini.

Aman should ask Neil:
1. Does he know how much loan is on Ragini's head?
2. Does he know how she tried to fulfill the duties of both mother and father alone?
3. Does he know that because of him re entering her life, her share of children think she is useless and hasn't done anything for them.
Aarav disrespects his mother that she doesn't have enough money to fulfill his desires. Why couldn't he give a little amount from the millions he earnt or leave some property(the home he had in Mumbai) for the Nishi and aarav?..Ragini might have never used it but the kids might have needed it.
4. Why does he shout and reprimand Ragini's only friend who helped her and stood by her when he himself left her alone?


These are more important questions in life rather than favourite food, colour and hill station and unfortunately Aman has answers to all these and not Neil.


hi good one,
Edited by Vidya_Bng - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: d3c3nt


I love this quiz quiz Nachiket needs to answer these Q's and many more.

I just wish Aman would ask N these things instead of keeping quiet.





See Aman respects N and R so he will stay quiet.

But who's stopping us?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: d3c3nt


I love this quiz quiz Nachiket needs to answer these Q's and many more.

I just wish Aman would ask N these things instead of keeping quiet.






i dont think for few days,he will even come face to face and talk after yesterdays quiz game with him.He will be too afraid to do that.No one can do that except Sherni and im sure she wont espicially once DNA report is out as she will be more in guilty phase.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think the DNA thing comes after he walks off the engagement or somewhere in that timeframe.

Typical BT tactic, she will call and he will go off to meet her. They might have a bang-bang end on Thursday with her calling. LOL

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vidya_Bng


hi good one, BUT

She chose to walk alone ... sometimes you have to pay a heavy price...

about Nishi and Arav ...Ragini being a Most self-less mother, she should have let Nachiket to take the responsibility of all the 4 kids.

after the divorce , legally she should have claimed her part of Financial security, but she din't ... bcz of her ego and that time she din't think of Nishi and Arav...

Now she can not crib on how difficult it was to survive...

I look at it differently...at the time of divorce Ragini thought Neil cheated on her and her kids. She thought of him as a guy who didn't care for her and the kids, all that mattered to him was his ayyashi..
So it is actually surprising Ragini handed over two of her kids to such a man(as per her). Probably her financial incapability made her take the decision because I doubt any mother would want her children to grow up with their ayyash dad.

Yes, may be Ragini insisted that she won't take a single penny from him. But is it enough for Neil to forget about his responsibilities for aarav and nishi?

All he had to do was leave his Mumbai wala house or a bank balance in their name. Yes, Ragini would have declined it but couldn't stop him from doing so.damn he could even force Ragini legally to accept it
I strongly believe he should have done this, if not for anybody else then for his own mental peace that his other two kids would at least never be on road and he did what he could.
What if Ragini couldn't manage or what if she died?
He should thank god that both Nishi and aarav are such dumb and mean kids that they haven't blamed him once for this.
They are busy buttering him up so that now he fulfills every wish of theirs.

I don't think Ragini has ever cribbed about the fact that Neil never did anything financially for them. When she said it wasn't easy, I felt it was about it her being alone at a very young age and having a lot of responsibility with no emotional support.
She has never wanted him to call or come back so that she could give her kids a more luxurious life, it was so that she could give them a father and a complete family.

It is us who are thinking from the finance angle.

God! With each post my support for Ragini and anger for Neil increases...don't know how will I take it when they would put all blame on Ragini and Neil would be glorified
Edited by xyze - 10 years ago

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