Originally posted by: Vidya_Bng
hi good one, BUT
She chose to walk alone ... sometimes you have to pay a heavy price...
about Nishi and Arav ...Ragini being a Most self-less mother, she should have let Nachiket to take the responsibility of all the 4 kids.
after the divorce , legally she should have claimed her part of Financial security, but she din't ... bcz of her ego and that time she din't think of Nishi and Arav...
Now she can not crib on how difficult it was to survive...
I look at it differently...at the time of divorce Ragini thought Neil cheated on her and her kids. She thought of him as a guy who didn't care for her and the kids, all that mattered to him was his ayyashi..
So it is actually surprising Ragini handed over two of her kids to such a man(as per her). Probably her financial incapability made her take the decision because I doubt any mother would want her children to grow up with their ayyash dad.
Yes, may be Ragini insisted that she won't take a single penny from him. But is it enough for Neil to forget about his responsibilities for aarav and nishi?
All he had to do was leave his Mumbai wala house or a bank balance in their name. Yes, Ragini would have declined it but couldn't stop him from doing so.damn he could even force Ragini legally to accept it
I strongly believe he should have done this, if not for anybody else then for his own mental peace that his other two kids would at least never be on road and he did what he could.
What if Ragini couldn't manage or what if she died?
He should thank god that both Nishi and aarav are such dumb and mean kids that they haven't blamed him once for this.
They are busy buttering him up so that now he fulfills every wish of theirs.
I don't think Ragini has ever cribbed about the fact that Neil never did anything financially for them. When she said it wasn't easy, I felt it was about it her being alone at a very young age and having a lot of responsibility with no emotional support.
She has never wanted him to call or come back so that she could give her kids a more luxurious life, it was so that she could give them a father and a complete family.
It is us who are thinking from the finance angle.
God! With each post my support for Ragini and anger for Neil increases...don't know how will I take it when they would put all blame on Ragini and Neil would be glorified
Edited by xyze - 10 years ago