If you were in prachi's place....

hey ppl,

okay if you were in prachi's place what would you have done??i mean is it easy to forget first love and marry some one else???and if u have married then not to look at ur first love nor even as a FRIEND???

But what he sleeps with other girl like milind slept???

hunny....

it not that she has abandoned neev.....
she thought off doing the right thing by leaving him alone.... he was married and her presents would harm his married life...and she was bing hurt also....

and now she is married ... she has moved on.... but seeing neev in pain hurts her aswell... but they are separate now forever... and milind is taking over neev place in her heart...

but there will be always a small part in her heart that will be reserved for neev.. and their childhood.....he has become a friend now and isn't anymore her jeevan saathi....

Originally posted by: shali

hunny....

it not that she has abandoned neev.....
she thought off doing the right thing by leaving him alone.... he was married and her presents would harm his married life...and she was bing hurt also....

and now she is married ... she has moved on.... but seeing neev in pain hurts her aswell... but they are separate now forever... and milind is taking over neev place in her heart...

but there will be always a small part in her heart that will be reserved for neev.. and their childhood.....he has become a friend now and isn't anymore her jeevan saathi....

Very beautifully put dear.👏👏👏 Couldn't have done any better.

well if i was at prachi's place i vl never forget my childhood luv who cares for me n supports me n b there wen eva i need him .......
i think the person like neev are very less who r always there for their luv...
i vl never leave neev coz i'm nt dumbo like prachi......
coz if u r in this stage as prachi is......then u shud listen 2 ur heart n vl go bk 2 neev coz othervise u ruined ur as well as neev milands life n noone can happy like this....

so i vl definately go bk 2 my true n pure luv neev..

IF I WOULD A HUBAND AS GOOD AS MILIND IS THEN I WOULD STICK TO HIM PERMANENTLY.AND SHOULD SOLVE OUT ALL THE CONFUSIONS AND LEAD A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.

I believe in eternal Love, it is not necessary that 1^st love is eternal… none of us are so lucky. Yes, 1^st love always remains special because it introduces us to the feeling… but as u grow as a person, your out look to life changes, Personality, priorities change it is possible that your interests conflict with ur partner… separation comes along. Time goes by u meet someone else, fall in love and that time with age & experience u get the maturity to adjust in a relationship… hence they are more successful.

If u ask me personally I would marry only if I can commit to marriage wholly. So if I marry then my past is my past. There is NO way that will have any priority in my life. If I could remain in a relationship with my ex in talking terms, then we would have spoken and made it work. It is history now because either or both don't want to even see eachother's face… so yes that would technically mean remaining friends is not a possibility at all. You severe a relationship, you severe everything with it… that is according to me. But this is a very personal decision; it varies from ppl to ppl. I can understand if two ppl who have shared a past can still be friends, and I also understand those ppl who don't want anything to do with their past as long as they are able to disassociate themselves completely. There cant be a right or a wrong way here.

Coming to if I was in Prachi's place… I would have made my relationship with Neev work. If I couldn't work it out, then it is a Bye Bye forever. At the situation Prachi is in now, I understand completely her choice to ignore Neev.. why shouldn't she? Neev is always taunting her, there is so much of bitterness for even a casual talk. His wife has a problem with me talking to him. My husband has a problem too and why would I want to be friendly with a guy who cant respect my husband despite the fact that he stays in his house? When I am not interfering in his life, then I wont tolerate any interference in mine either.

The stage of life Prachi is in… there is no question of a choice, Milind is and will be her only Priority. Neev might have been her 1^st love… but Milind is her husband and she loves him a lot and always will.

Originally posted by: Ryka

I believe in eternal Love, it is not necessary that 1^st love is eternal… none of us are so lucky. Yes, 1^st love always remains special because it introduces us to the feeling… but as u grow as a person, your out look to life changes, Personality, priorities change it is possible that your interests conflict with ur partner… separation comes along. Time goes by u meet someone else, fall in love and that time with age & experience u get the maturity to adjust in a relationship… hence they are more successful.

If u ask me personally I would marry only if I can commit to marriage wholly. So if I marry then my past is my past. There is NO way that will have any priority in my life. If I could remain in a relationship with my ex in talking terms, then we would have spoken and made it work. It is history now because either or both don't want to even see eachother's face… so yes that would technically mean remaining friends is not a possibility at all. You severe a relationship, you severe everything with it… that is according to me. But this is a very personal decision; it varies from ppl to ppl. I can understand if two ppl who have shared a past can still be friends, and I also understand those ppl who don't want anything to do with their past as long as they are able to disassociate themselves completely. There cant be a right or a wrong way here.

Coming to if I was in Prachi's place… I would have made my relationship with Neev work. If I couldn't work it out, then it is a Bye Bye forever. At the situation Prachi is in now, I understand completely her choice to ignore Neev.. why shouldn't she? Neev is always taunting her, there is so much of bitterness for even a casual talk. His wife has a problem with me talking to him. My husband has a problem too and why would I want to be friendly with a guy who cant respect my husband despite the fact that he stays in his house? When I am not interfering in his life, then I wont tolerate any interference in mine either.

The stage of life Prachi is in… there is no question of a choice, Milind is and will be her only Priority. Neev might have been her 1^st love… but Milind is her husband and she loves him a lot and always will.

Ryka darling beautifully put dear👏👏👏

Loved the way you explained that 1st love introduces you the feelin...somethimes we even mistake ....friendship......for love.

Love is an emotion that changes with time dear.....with age...with experience and ....maturity.

Thus as you so well said, 1st love not necessarily is the enternal love...maybe the secons one is the one...that last you a life time.

if i was prachi i would never leave neev....for some silly sacrifices...though i love my sis i will try to clear all misunderstanding between us and makes her realise what she done is wrong...and she needs to be happy too....and gives her support and teach her lifeand not sacrifcice everything in name of love

if i was prachi i will never ever leave neev....he means alot in my life....

if some circumstances i am lead to married milind and neev to ayesha...i will try to make my marriage work what prachi has done and at the same time i will not forget neev though he is no more part of my life as a lover but due to 20 years relationship i will maintain a relationship as a friend with him and advise him to move on and tries to make his marriage work and change ayesha in his charms

in any i will never be mean at least since we are apart we can be friends and if milind misunderstand me i will try all my best to make him understand that i am just for him and neev is no more in my life but he have a special place in my heart that is friendship and i value it since he took care of me and was my support for 20 years and tells him clear that after marriage i only love him...unlike prachi to shut up and give pain to both guys neev-milind....

if neev is not happy with his marriage and he is stuck with me i will advise him that marriage is based on trust and love and now i don't have a place in life but ayesha..he have to take the first step to make his marriage work and change ayesha makes her forget her past with all the love he gives her...and will take a promise from him that he will never look back in life...and now his life will be only ayesha and promise a lifetime friendship...

i will not be like prachi being mean and ignores his feelings...he still in the spot of love but she can as a friend advise him to move on but no being mean leads nowhere..he will be still stuck in her because he doesn't gets love from anyone not even from his wife in this sense he needs to be advised

i wish to be having a Anurag-Prerna relationship in form of Neev-Prachi

i am strong love believer but i give more importance on marriage but still i won't forget my old relationship which was my entire past life...

but the fact that i am not like prachi....who just for new relationship ignores her old relationship at least neev is no more in your life he means a friend to you...for god sake open your mouth to your husband...and i wish i don't get a husband like that jerk milind who have problems with my childhood friend who means nothing to me now the love for him fades away only pure friendship and still being a jerk misunderstanding...and i will show marriage is more important than my past love

If I was in Prachi's Place ..I wld have never left Neev at all...may it be sacrifices or whatever..

He wld be the only person close to my heart & I wld love him & treasure him KAYAMATH TAK!

I wld have never ever landed in such a situation at all....& thats it....

If I got some1 like Neev I wld be able to Live without food or money or anything But not without HIM.....