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Rajesh's demand in d marriage s acceptable or not............

nirmala

@nirmalac99

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Rajesh s a gud friend of Dev.....no doubt abt tat... but i want to know whether his demand in d marriage s acceptable or not....I could not judge it.....would love tat if I get some help...ur replies and vote

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KratikaSengarKS

@KratikaSengarKS

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Posted: 10 years ago

Yes, as far as V know Rajeesh, he is not bad at all.. and dev would never have a friend like bad attentions and all..
and thats why I I found it acceptable.. as he didnt had a bad attention at all.

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Anjali

@Angel_Arya

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Rajesh had no bad intentions but he should have thought about the bride's family too.Not all are comfortable and Payal's family didn't like that.

What if the same thing was asked from Dev's sister to dance with bride's family and friends???

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KratikaSengarKS

@KratikaSengarKS

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Angel_Arya
Rajesh had no bad intentions but he should have thought about the bride's family too.Not all are comfortable and Payal's family didn't like that.
What if the same thing was asked from Dev's sister to dance with bride's family and friends???

Yess exactly that true too.. it depends on the families.. soch samajh ke bolna chaiye...

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Anjali

@Angel_Arya

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: KratikaSengarKS

Yess exactly that true too.. it depends on the families.. soch samajh ke bolna chaiye...

Yes,in some of the families it's accepted but considering Payal's family...she belongs to a middle class family in a small town of Jharkhand...so i guess it isn't acceptable.

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KratikaSengarKS

@KratikaSengarKS

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Angel_Arya

Yes,in some of the families it's accepted but considering Payal's family...she belongs to a middle class family in a small town of Jharkhand...so i guess it isn't acceptable.

Yeahh everyone has their own opinions na... so Yeahh!!

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Ash

@melodica

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Posted: 10 years ago

No.. he wasnt wrong but dey werent comfortable!

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anonee

@anonee

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Posted: 10 years ago

Rajesh's intentions may not have been "bad" or "wrong".

However, the method he used to convey his intentions were extremely wrong.

He said that Dev would not proceed ahead (and this includes the wedding) unless Alka and Neelam danced with Dev's friends. He was not making a request. He was not being polite - - he was being coercive.

He was using a threat to make them dance with him. On the other hand, he never asked for Guddi or Gul to dance with him and the other friends of Dev. So, it was clear he was targeting Neelam and Alka. It appeared as if he felt that the bride's family have to do whatever he wishes because he was the groom's friend.

Rajesh felt entitled. It never occurred to him that Alka and Neelam (or any adult for that matter) has the right to decide for themselves when, where, and with whom they want to dance.

Edited by anonee - 10 years ago