Father in prison was better than no father at all.

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dey.bh

@dey.bh

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Posted: 10 years ago

First of all, let me thank the written updaters for their updates. I haven't seen the show lately and therefore had to depend on you guys. 👏

Coming to the post, I want to know why did Mr. Mathur kill himself ?

- Because he loved his family ?

- Because he could not accept his mistakes ?

- Because he wanted to remain the 'superman' for his family?

- Because he was ashamed of being a loser to his family ?

-Because he didn't want to be labelled as a failure ?

Whatever the reason was I think he being alive in jail would have been a better option for his family if not for him. If he loved Amaya so much he should have remained with her instead of killing himself and interpreting that running away is after all an option.

As per the spoilers Rohan will break his engagement with Rachita. This is the way the world works outside. This will break Rachita emotionally.This will make her believe no one is trust worthy and there is nothing such thing called love. The same goes for Amaya. To her mother and father were perfect couple and of course they were the best she could see.Loving and romantic and staying aside each other in good and bad times. This suicide will remain as a dark spot in her life which will make her insecure about making relationships. Jas is way too young to even think about it.

I am wondering how the situation would have been if this man was alive. Of course there would have been a trial on him and he would have been punished legally but his family would still have his moral support. His three daughters would fight for their existence under his guidance. Aren't there criminals in jail? One like Sahara chief or another popular filmstar( I am not taking names as it is against the rule of the forum). DO they all die to get away from the situation ? Are their families equally distressed like the Mathurs are in this show ? I guess not .

I don't know how many will admit or agree to it but suicide is after all an act of cowardice because death is worst of all human experiences and humans irrespective of their age and experience cannot get over it that easily and when it is an optional one they end up cursing themselves. Why was I not around when he died ? Why could not I reallise he was in trouble ? Why didn't I help him ? and then also there are thousands of such maybes . May be I could have helped and may be he could have lived somehow. With death dies hope and killing hope is only a coward's job. Besides, a man never dies alone. With him dies a story beautifully crafted by the nature and what a pity it is to end a life this way.

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thala

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Posted: 10 years ago

awsm post

liked the way you wrote it

yes its a cowardly act as he himslef said it in voicemail

but suicide thought appears for a sec

the moment you overcome it

it dissappears

he was selfish

bhaad mein jaaye meri family

i will not have to see myself behind bars

but thank god he atleast left the keys of banares house

this is a good foundation for amaya to hate the word love

which will make the story of the leads interesting

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zona.

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Posted: 10 years ago

It was a very coward act to commit suicide... He didn't think how his family will survive then... It would be a get set back for them...

But the other side... If he was in jail there would be also large No of problems... Ruchitaz engagement wouldn't have survived even then... And now they would know that they'll have to do everything on their own... His dad is dead though it is a very huge loss but they have to face it for once ... Seeing his dad In jail would make them sad and weak daily everytime they meet him they'll have the same feelings...

But suicide was a very wrong thing from mathur prospective... Problems r in everyone's life and every thing has a solution if there are bad times this doesn't mean they'll remain forever and go and commit suicide...!!! Even toughest situation has a solution and demands determination and hope to win!!

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Ecrivain

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Posted: 10 years ago

Debby dear nice post ..n here is wht I feel

Apparently he thought tht his being alive will cause more issues as his family might be harassed for answers which is now sort of taken care of as his death gave an indication tht he was at fault n does cos of humiliation ..

Second he didn't have to face his family with the wrongs he did ..n so suicide was an easy way out but yes it's wrong no doubt there

Now coming to the emotional backlog tht the family has to go through anyway ..so there isn't much he could have done while alive ..cos ppl Lile Rohan will end the relation even if he was put behind bars 😭

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dey.bh

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Posted: 10 years ago

Thank you every one for replying.

Yes, there would have been problems even if he was alive but he could still be his family's real strength or support them morally.

Now his wife has to handle her youngest daughter who is still in shock and a daughter like Amaya was anways a trouble maker. At least he being alive could have taken care of that even if he was in prison. They allow paroles and jail visit. So, their position would have been better from emotional point of view.

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Subhashini Suresh

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Posted: 10 years ago

Awesome post

Just now went through all the WUs till yesterday as I had no time to watch after 1st episode

Mr. Mathur was a coward who was not able to stand and face the world when problem comes. Though he has done so much for his family especially his daughters , when there is a tough situation, he has left them stranded. He very well knows how the world will look at his family after getting the name as bankrupt. He should have been a support for his family but committed suicide making his family to face all sorts of taunts.

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thala

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Posted: 10 years ago

it was pathetic to see them mobbed by journalists

i can now understand the problem of a celebrity who surrounded by cameras, mikes and bombared with questions non stop

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dey.bh

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: thala

it was pathetic to see them mobbed by journalists
i can now understand the problem of a celebrity who surrounded by cameras, mikes and bombared with questions non stop

Celebs or elites are actully tutored to deal with media problems. Here, Amaya was to be shown literally stripped of her page 3 status and she not obliging to the change in her life.

Dr. Bajaj is an upper class doctor and it was so obvious that he won't entertain her now at this point of time. A local doctor would do wonders and that too at a nominal fee. Send Gurdeep and just get a doctor. Amaya has a lot to learn. She instead of listening to he mother's advice calls someone for help.

Lets see what happens next.

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Subhashini Suresh

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: dey.bh
Celebs or elites are actully tutored to deal with media problems. Here, Amaya was to be shown literally stripped of her page 3 status and she not obliging to the change in her life.
Dr. Bajaj is an upper class doctor and it was so obvious that he won't entertain her now at this point of time. A local doctor would do wonders and that too at a nominal fee. Send Gurdeep and just get a doctor. Amaya has a lot to learn. She instead of listening to he mother's advice calls someone for help.
Lets see what happens next.

Yes .. The story will focus on her change over now. It is not gonna be that easy. Other two girls can easily change but it will take time for Amaya. She needs to learn a lot from her mom.