The dignity in Kasturi

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Posted: 18 years ago
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At the start of this serial there seemed a great amount of dignity and humility in the character 'kasturi'...she was softly spoken, respected people/ humans; relations, she was calm and composed even when the biggest tragedy struck her. But as the serial is progressing this very trait with which she commanded respect and love seems to have become so lost that there is now a dire need to post a missing ad in the world media! If everyone has guessed right and the latest twist is about kasturi playacting with Robbie to get to the truth, then it is very deplorable and the very essence of her character will be lost. I am not a fan of anyone in this show, rather I like watching all of them since they (especially robbie) act so well, so, for me, when Kasturi married Ronak it was the most logical thing that she could do. But her behaviour lately has been arrogant, self-indulgent and a tad too 'self-forgiving'!

Sadly, she is becoming arrogant like the Kripa's and kashish's from kektas soap factory... why do they butcher all these women?! The only ekta heroine who held even a shred of her dignity all through her serial was Anjali from Kaavyanjali...

I sincerely hope the serial makers bring some dignity back into Kasturis character...she needs to be more humble and well....a lot less like kashish and kripa (not intended to hurt or offend kripa and kashish fans)

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Well said! We are also searching for the same old kasturi!!!! 😕

I think if she is playacting it means she stooping too low and essence of the character is lost!!!

Robbie please forget her and go very far away dear, I cant see u being used up and heart broken once more!!!😭

Edited by RK_fan111 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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M sorry to say but I totelly disagree with ur pov..

@ Dignity... As a wife , her first dignity towards her husband & his family..she is quite clear in her mind d way Ronak.. on d 18th epic if u watch it.. her behaviour is not change @ all 4m d very begining.. she never insult Robz @ any circumstance.. all though wht he has done we all know so I'll not going in it..

To sit outside & talk is very easy but to invlove urself & doing act its not so easy job..

@ Robz:- 4m d very begining I say dhr is no luv factor in him..yes 4 kasturi side yes..it is...

"whn a childish boy meets a mature women" wht happend... dht's d creatives wanna show us..

I always say & believe very deeply dht..

"Luv is not life.. its a PART of life.."

For making successful marriage & longtime relationship. "4T" is required in d life:-

1. Time
2. Trust
3. Talk
4. Touch

all d above factors r totelly abstion in Roka's relationship..

"Dhr is no SHIP in dhis world can carry meaningless relationship..."

Robz never thinks about kasturi in any circumstance or any step of life.. my dear friend ...its not luv@ all... life can't be live like dhis way.. d way he is stalking kasturi left right left.. wht do u think it's works @ all..

he never understand about any kind of relationship rather as lover, as son,4 his career, I mean any step..just show me one step ...in which he acts like responsable person...

I always say ..every coin has two side.. plz watch other side too..

dhis is d most weakest relaionship I ever seen in any tele..any tele couple...uptill now..


@current track:- wht is her first duty in dhis current situation : to clear her husband 4m dhis bloody game played by some selfish person.. for that if she used Robz wht's wrong in it..???? just wait & watch how she use him..she never ever cross any limit of her traditions...becoz she knows very well she is not kasturi chawala any more..she is "Mrs. kasturi Ronak singhniya " it's make vast diff..

whn u r @ ur parents home it's diff ..& whn u become married & come to ur "sasural.." its diff.. ur dignty has been change 4m d first day whn u enter @ ur husband's house..

Marriage is secred bond bwtn two ppl called husband & wife..@ any stage of life rather good or bed dhy never apart dht's d real meaning of dht bond...

"To advice & say something is very easy but to imply it
it's not so easy.............."


Edited by nightangel - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: nightangel

M sorry to say but I totelly disagree with ur pov..

@ Dignity... As a wife , her first dignity towards her husband & his family..she is quite clear in her mind d way Ronak.. on d 18th epic if u watch it.. her behaviour is not change @ all 4m d very begining.. she never insult Robz @ any circumstance.. all though wht he has done we all know so I'll not going in it..

To sit outside & talk is very easy but to invlove urself & doing act its not so easy job..

@ Robz:- 4m d very begining I say dhr is no luv factor in him..yes 4 kasturi side yes..it is...

"whn a childish boy meets a mature women" wht happend... dht's d creatives wanna show us..

I always say & believe very deeply dht..

"Luv is not life.. its a PART of life.."

For making successful marriage & longtime relationship. "4T" is required in d life:-

1. Time
2. Trust
3. Talk
4. Touch

all d above factors r totelly abstion in Roka's relationship..

"Dhr is no SHIP in dhis world can carry meaningless relationship..."

Robz never thinks about kasturi in any circumstance or any step of life.. my dear friend ...its not luv@ all... life can't be live like dhis way.. d way he is stalking kasturi left right left.. wht do u think it's works @ all..

he never understand about any kind of relationship rather as lover, as son,4 his career, I mean any step..just show me one step ...in which he acts like responsable person...

I always say ..every coin has two side.. plz watch other side too..

dhis is d most weakest relaionship I ever seen in any tele..any tele couple...uptill now..


@current track:- wht is her first duty in dhis current situation : to clear her husband 4m dhis bloody game played by some selfish person.. for that if she used Robz wht's wrong in it..???? just wait & watch how she use him..she never ever cross any limit of her traditions...becoz she knows very well she is not kasturi chawala any more..she is "Mrs. kasturi Ronak singhniya " it's make vast diff..

whn u r @ ur parents home it's diff ..& whn u become married & come to ur "sasural.." its diff.. ur dignty has been change 4m d first day whn u enter @ ur husband's house..

Marriage is secred bond bwtn two ppl called husband & wife..@ any stage of life rather good or bed dhy never apart dht's d real meaning of dht bond...

"To advice & say something is very easy but to imply it
it's not so easy.............."


I agree with u😊


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Posted: 18 years ago
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@nightangel- i absolutely respect your feelings but perhaps i have not explained myself well. I agree with you that as a married woman Kasturi's first responsibility is towards her family, but that does not give her the right to demean another human being. One can be firm and polite at the same time and there is no need to acquire a rude and arrogant tone. To me there is no excuse in the world to be rude to someone or hurt their feelings. If Kasturi had ignored Robbie (after trying to explain to him) in time his attraction for her would have faded. And if we look at her responsibility towards her sasural, well she did not really fulfill them very well yesterday when she made public joke out of her husband, her marriage and her in-laws by jumping onto stage and calling her husband a murderer without verifying the proofs. This is what I mean by dignity...she could have done whatever she has done now in a firm yet quiet manner with thought. In my view she has displayed an utter lack of regard for human emotions (whether it was declaring before a family that one of their own was buried behind a wall, or in her behaviour towards robbie etc) and a careless thoughtlessness.

Yes she was polite in the start despite robbie's madness but was she consistant with that behaviour? no...the arrogance in her just seems to increase and she seems very illogical and incoherent in her actions.

I applaud her for her efforts to make a fresh start, but kasturi and raunak knowing robbies madness for her could have moved away but they chose to stay close to him... which provoked him even further.

i agree that robbie is childish and immature...often people who are as celebrated as robbie is (or has been) do retain this childishness and immaturity well into their adult years...but kasturi is supposedly mature and could have handled everything in a mature manner but sometimes she seems quite childish herself.

finally, whatever robbies faults, he has never misbehaved with her physically and he had maintained a respectful distance. and i reiterate that i find kasturi's rude behaviour unacceptable. if she just lets him be (even if he is childish and adamant and destroys himself and his career, coz he will grow up and learn and will beleive me let go of his 'zid' one day) and is polite but firm at the sametime she would probably still achieve what she is achieving by raving and ranting at robbie now!

Robbie's behaviour towards kasturi does not justify her rude and inconsistant behaviour. It would be dispicable if knowing fully well that robbie is crazy about her, she gows ahead and puts upa farce of loving robbie...nothing in the world can excuse trampling all over another human in that thoughtless manner. There are other ways of finding the truth and getting justice...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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sorry guys I think the dignity we were talking about is a woman's dignity, where we live doesn't matter either is @ parent or @ husband, I think both place dignity depends on a girl's dignity.

You told to save her husband she is doing it right?

Breaking someone's heart and using them is just too much

For your selfish , you can't play with someone's feeling that will never give you happiness rather than the curse with spoil your complete life.

Ekta never showed any dignity in women in all her soaps ,everyone gets 3 to 4 married and divorcee, hater in form of love, revenge, stupidity.

I think Gauri of Kutumb never lost her dignity from the beginnig to the end, it was the best framed character of Ekta in her history as per my opinion.

The above is all my point of view and opinion, no offence at all

Everyone can't think alike.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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nightangel: i guess we just have to agree to disagree on this one 😉 ...see i find kasturi very irrational these days...she does not this raunak is innocent yet...she truly beleives that he murdered shivani and why does she suspect raunak? because some one wearing the same colour of suit as raunak was chasing tanya and responded to her calling raunak sir...now how much more illogical can she get...could two people not wear white and just because someone responds to 'raunak sir' does not make him raunak...while implicating someone for murder one needs more than that!

and now she is begining to think raunak is innocent and is suspecting robbie...why? because she saw him talking to his dead sisters friend who helped (according to robbie) nab the supposed culprit...who risked her life to bring justice to her dead friend...robbie's sister (and this is what robbie wanted to do)...and if one thinks about it she was the one who last spoke or had any contact with the supposedly dead shivani, robbies sister...so in my mind robbie is justified in talking to her, whenever.

dont get me wrong, i am not a robbie fan nor am i trying to justify his actions...i am just an impartial observer and these are just my 2 cents worth!:)
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i know she should have seen his face first
when that guy was running
but thats the story 😊
we have to wait and watch
the truth has to come out someday 😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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@ ramsha- u r right, instead of shouting "raunak sir, raunak sir" 🤢😡 while standing in the living room, she should have ran behind him n catch him 😆 😆to see if its really raunak or not 😆...what a stupid show this is. 😡
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjali10

@ ramsha- u r right, instead of shouting "raunak sir, raunak sir" 🤢😡 while standing in the living room, she should have ran behind him n catch him 😆 😆to see if its really raunak or not 😆...what a stupid show this is. 😡

And how stupid we are tat we are still watching this show😆😆🤣

Krishi

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