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pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

Can I say something? The society people tell Ragini that she needs to move out or clarify who Neil is.

And she tells them Neil is her ex husband. They don't believe her. and they want Neil to come and say it himself.

Society people are they justified in saying such things is another matter. But Neil had dragged Ragini by hand when she was in society meeting. And he comes to her house at odd times. Even though he is no longer her husband.

And the reason is their kids together. All said and done that is why Neil comes there. So when Ragini asks him to tell the society people who he is at least he need not say he is her ex husband at least he can say he is the father of the two kids. Why not answer the simple question. It is not about society people asking the question. It is about Ragini asking him to say the fact.

Why does he give a lecture to society people without answering yes or no. The question is not about Ragini's character well it is about her character but the question is because of his frequent comings and goings. So he has to answer the questions. Why does he give a lecture to the society people about "main kaun hoon blah blah blah " regarding the matter?

Fifteen years Ragini was residing there. Even Dr.Aman was visiting but questions did not arise. But now they question only because Neil comes at odd times behaves badly rudely etc. So he has to answer the question not because of society people but because of Ragini and because she asked him. to answer and he said yes.

His lecture was irrelevent and irritating because c'mon it was stupid of him. to go on blah blah blah ...

also when the thieves attacked he thought he was some super hero or what? May be he learnt martial arts in US but it was a bit too over much.

And the way he goes behind Ragini is a bit too much. C'mon he left her because of some reason regarding her behavior. So why is he still pestering her bothering or concerned for her?

He is behaving like a junglee instead of an educated doctor that too from US.

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brainychild92

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Posted: 10 years ago

can you tell me the dates of the society wala scene? i haven't seen everything (new watcher)

but yeah, if that happens, yes.

In that society, it is bound to come up. Its not a problem that a guy is coming/going, but it matters what time. If this is happening, he needs to either remember or not remember that he is an EX; his inconsistency will drive everyone insane.

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pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: brainychild92
can you tell me the dates of the society wala scene? i haven't seen everything (new watcher)
but yeah, if that happens, yes.
In that society, it is bound to come up. Its not a problem that a guy is coming/going, but it matters what time. If this is happening, he needs to either remember or not remember that he is an EX; his inconsistency will drive everyone insane.

I think it was last week or even week before last. I am not too sure. And I am writing this a bit late. even though I was irritated immediately. More by the way Neil rendered the whole dialogue

It matters in a society what time a man comes and goes. And Neil should remember this. Or else clarify in front of everyone who he is . Because Ragini has told everyone that he is her ex. And it matters very much that he accepts the fact in front of every one.

Instead of saying yes or no he is going on and on lecturing. Was isn't it irrelevant?

It wasn't as if society people are asking him this question. They are asking her and Ragini tells them the truth. and they don't believe her and they want to listen to it from his mouth.

What is the point in all this lecture by Neil about who he is ? Nobody questioned Ragini in all these years . Only now when they see him they have this question. So why he is talking about fifteen years time? Answer the question and be done with it.

Check last week's episodes I will try and get the date.

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pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

And it is not just that. Society people do they not have brains? this lady has resided there all these years. and she has an old lady mother and an even older grandmother living with her. And two grown up children . A daughter who is "gonnu" be married soon. And this guy comes at odd times sometimes at mdnight etc . If it is a security issue they can take down his name and number through the watchman. If it is anything else Ragini can go to court even if he drops in at odd timings. And there they can clarify as to who he is. What if he is a relative other than ex and he comes at odd times? If it is a "security issue" then watchman can take down details of the person coming and going.

If it is something else immoral they cannot just assume and "throw" Ragini out or say stuff like "You can rent it out" . Ragini can take the society to court. and sue them for defamation. could win the case.

Kitty started this nonsense. But now she cannot convince the society people. So see the damage a stupid female has done?

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pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

On top of that Kitty has found out who he is. And is trying to marry off her daughter to the son who very near killed her. And that is not immoral. But assumptions on immorality can make the society ask the owner to "clear out"? I have never heard of such a case. And if there is one then Ragini can very well go to court and win the case.

Remember this is Mumbai and here tenant has so much rights. Over the owner of the place. and they ask the owner to clear out or else... rent it out? what nonsense? check the laws before saying such things.

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pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: brainychild92
can you tell me the dates of the society wala scene? i haven't seen everything (new watcher)
but yeah, if that happens, yes.
In that society, it is bound to come up. Its not a problem that a guy is coming/going, but it matters what time. If this is happening, he needs to either remember or not remember that he is an EX; his inconsistency will drive everyone insane.

February 4th episode. Where Neil comes during daytime and is sitting inside. That is the date.

I think you can watch it in you tube or anywhere else.

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dhanutha

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Posted: 10 years ago

Dr.Neil had to give a big lecture bcoz he did not want the society people to repeat this with Ragini again,and also askes them about how they can even doubt her character after knowing what kind of a person she is.I think thats the only reason why he did not bother to tell them that he is her ex.

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OodlesDoodles

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Posted: 10 years ago

This whole scene to me was done tastelessly .

For starters I don;t think it was such a big issue for society people to really discuss. If so the president of the society should have taken the matter up in person and not insulted her in the open. Its just 2 people Aman and Neil they have seen coming so why take such judgement. Its not like she is running some kind of brothel something that there are tons of men coming. They know Aman so that leaves only Neil. For one person this was indeed overreacting.

Its a shaadi ka ghar for christsake so there will be lot of people coming in an out . How is that they don;t object to Karan. If they really wanted to ask they should have asked after the meeting when he dragged her so Neil could have explained himself. Instead they waited and decided to get more and more people to gang up on Ragini. That was so mean of them.

Rags herself fell in her trap . She should have told the society people that he was her kids father. That would have been the shut up call. Why this ex husband name she said when she herself dislikes it.

Regarding Neil not stating the fact like he mentioned she did not want their relationship to be referred in that way. Hence he did accept that when he was asked . However he knew these people and their intentions. I really like how he put them in their place without disobeying Rags . The lecture was to show the society to not jump into their conclusions without getting their facts.

When the thieves came it was sacarsm there because Rags was just being so dumb. What did she expect from the thieves. Both of them care about each other so although they both want to think that they are not affected by the others action they both are. Also situations today are similiar to when they were in love and that is playing a role in their present day judgement

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poetic

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Posted: 10 years ago

BTW, why was Ragini dumb when the thieves came ?,I remember N speaking nineteen to the dozens

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solembaum

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Honestly I found that whole scene too patronising... and even Neil was too patronising and dramatic... I would have honestly preferred this being done in a more realistic way and Ragini handling it without Neil coming to say something about it... and then his thing about respecting her...He is almost always taunting her about the kidn of wife she was and is now to Aman...he even called her a failure as both a wife and a mother... and he has till date not apologized for that... so while there are so many scenes that show his care and all... I am waiting for him to stop his taunts related to her suitability as a wife and wehther people can tolerate her etc... I hope whatever happens in the wedding does not take them back to the bad fights phase... and I hope ragini also remains toned down with her reactions to Neil... I liked the way she spoke to RK about their relationship... Not denying the love... not accepting it also may be... but still saying that a solution could not be found then and even today there is none to their problem... rather than saying anything blaming Neil in particular .. and yeah while I love both of them and I am looking forward to them getting back together hopefully long before the end of the serial... I do think some of those lectures were too patronising...and I generally have a problem when people are shown as patronising...

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