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Post her marriage we do have to take note of the fact that she was starting with a clean slate with a completely new family and new environment.
She has been in Udaipur for how long? two + years
She has been in Jaitser for better part of her life.
They did show her taking ti life in the city in her own way. Just because she didn't change from Gaghras to sarees like her MILs wear that doesn't mean she didn't take to city life she learnt to do a lot of things that she didn;t know when she was living in Haweli.
In fact there is a lot of difference between the Anandi who entered Shekhar family and the current Anandi. I am not talking about face change here but her priorities the way
I personally don't see why she need to change her attire .Attire is part of personality.It all depends on how she carries herself. No where had she ever given that she is so called village girl despite growing up in a village. Attire I mean her sticking to her traditional style of dressing - the rest is the dress designer's fault .
The Anandi who talked about Desi nushkas now talks about seeing a doctor or consulting a psychologist for Sanchi and the Anandi who didn't know preparing anything beyond Rajathani food prepares pasta for her son like so many urban moms do.
Learning driving she did take a long time to get around doing but so do lot of so called city bred girls.
There was Gauri too who grew up in a village just like Anandi did the things there is a lot of difference in the way both adapted the life style that a city offers.
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Till Shiv died she had been a normal bahu and wife content with what she has .So why find fault with that ?
Yes she left a life she made for herself in Jaitser and she started making alife for herself in Shiv's home making his home her home his family as her family.She started from scratch.
Now Shiv died leaving her with two small kids and the next pahes of her life has just started and people already are complaing about her?
If I remember it took her several jolts to make her a sarpanch and it is obviously going to take that many jolts to make something out of her life and an identity for herself which she gave up when she married SHiv.
I think this forum is harsh on Anandi and judgemental .If Shiv had been there in Anandi's place during Amol's birth trauma he would have reacted the same way as Anandi did but people would have cried along with him but it is Anandi they find faults in her decision'
Is it Anandi's duty to verify the claims made by the parents or is it the duty of the orphanage? They obviously verified the claims before they called Anandi and informed her about Amol's parents. By the time Anandi came into picture verification has already been done and the inefficiency of the orphange has been exposed.
The question in front of her is not a legal question but an emotional issue.
Why accuse Anandi that she doesn't think? Do the viewers themselves think what they are trying to show through the story?
Just because Anandi was not shown working in Bhaili that doesn't mean she has not worked.
The makers and the channel are there to make money along with telling the story.
The few people who come to these online forums may be interested in seeing Anandi doing something with her life but the people who bring the channel business are the ones who like to see Anandi as a wife bahu and mother more than anything else.So obviously instead of changing the story they gave more footage to family drama less footage to her professional life.
Why blame the CVs? There are people in this very forum who thought Bhaili tracks are not interesting.
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