Does Sahir suffer from an identity crisis?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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That is what him being defensive in today's scene with ACP regarding Alvira made me think! Why was he reluctant? Only reason i can think of is he does not want ACP to know that Alvira is not his mom, this is not his family ... he is scared to loose the family identity he has got ... scared to stand naked in the world with no identity ... not knowing who his parents are!
May be this was another thing zeenat belittled him about ... having no identity of his own!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think he is just protecting Alvira like any rational person would considering she just almost died. The cop should start his questioning after she is well rather than going on rampage. Sahir obviously cares & respects Alvira so he is just telling Rathore to back off a bit. I don't think there was anything more in this scene than Sahir being a courteous & caring son.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tamsham

I think he is just protecting Alvira like any rational person would considering she just almost died. The cop should start his questioning after she is well rather than going on rampage. Sahir obviously cares & respects Alvira so he is just telling Rathore to back off a bit. I don't think there was anything more in this scene than Sahir being a courteous & caring son.


I am not talking about him telling acp to back off ... that was what you said it was him trying to protect alvira ... but when ACP said why u dont want me to talk to her ... what r u trying to hide ... he looked defensive ... am talking about that bit
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Exactly my thought he is not afraid to say Alvira is not his mom but after to stand alone and say he doesn't have any identity ...he doesn't have a family ...
Identity crisis is a biggest crisis for an individual in personal level .
More than respect or love it's insecurity which plays here in sahir's mind .
I doubt his real identity is hidden from him.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It's a possibility...for sure.
They really should have revealed atleast a little bit about the past...everything is a mystery...we don't even know which ones to take at face value now!

And the cop should not have badgered Alvira like that in the first place! That was nonsense!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hmm so when I read ur post I was immediately transported back to Alvira saying "sahir , sahir beta " cringeworthy i tell u but I m sure Alvira enacted the whole scene especially as yo yo was telling ARZOO abt mummy ji 's deceits and like yesterday when pigmented cheek servant was talking to ARZOO , the meranin started floating arnd 😆

Basically Alvira n Zeenat are a team , KA is an effing idiot being taken for a free ride , like a pawn in the chess 😉...

Sahir is being " used " by one n all

And ARZOO is still the soft target ...no matter whether she finished the whole box of BADAM in one go n grew a brain overnight ...sach to sach hi Rahega 🤓?...dimaag KI kami AUR pimples Chupaye nahi Chupte 🤣" ducks, hides, runs for life "

I need to sleep ASAP ..before I am virtually dead 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i have felt the same too.. that is why after being snubbed a lot of times, he still kept serving the family because he thinks that he is alone and he needs them more than that off how much he spends over them.. and i also believe that Alvira is aware of Sahir's thought process, she knows that he will always need the family to call them his own and thus since the first episode she has been very effectively making him fulfill his orders.. for example gifting paak daman during eid, and then keeping arzoo as an employee and many other stuffs.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: dakshaavi

Exactly my thought he is not afraid to say Alvira is not his mom but after to stand alone and say he doesn't have any identity ...he doesn't have a family ...

Identity crisis is a biggest crisis for an individual in personal level .
More than respect or love it's insecurity which plays here in sahir's mind .
I doubt his real identity is hidden from him.


Yes the way he brushed aside when arzoo told him she knows ... and then changed the topic by saying he is hungry ... and its' not important ... and yesterday again getting defensive ... he does seem he neither wants to talk about it nor wants anyone else to know
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettypri

It's a possibility...for sure.

They really should have revealed atleast a little bit about the past...everything is a mystery...we don't even know which ones to take at face value now!

And the cop should not have badgered Alvira like that in the first place! That was nonsense!


COP ke dimagh mey bhosa jo hai ... i mean seriously ... he just talks talks and talks ... sab kuch ho jata hai ghar mey he does nothing 🤔

As for past i hope they reveal something ... and when they reveal its' convincing
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

i have felt the same too.. that is why after being snubbed a lot of times, he still kept serving the family because he thinks that he is alone and he needs them more than that off how much he spends over them.. and i also believe that Alvira is aware of Sahir's thought process, she knows that he will always need the family to call them his own and thus since the first episode she has been very effectively making him fulfill his orders.. for example gifting paak daman during eid, and then keeping arzoo as an employee and many other stuffs.


Yes Alvira is a manipulator ... Sahir's need to have a family is what has kept him doing everything for them ... despite never getting the affection

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