Raman's words about Adi after counselling - is it justified

After came back from counselling Raman interpreted that he is the responsibility of all mistakes.
That means he only responsible for Shagun - Ashokh relation. Kya pakwas hai. Shagun went to Ashokh
For only and only money and luxury life. But his words means that Shagun is innocent. Also this words to
Ishita his lovable wife. Is it justified ? Also Shagun spent her life for 6 years to Ashokh. Cv's why give this
dialogue to him? But in older episodes he insulted shagun each and every time.
Now what happened Cv's. It means Cv's trying to show her positive in Raman's view.
Is it suit for our dignity of women. With a only weapon as a mother of that criminal
Child her deeds may be justified. Its utter nonsense scene.

Raman has a habit of falling into a guilt trip. So its just his guilt trip talking. I too didn't understand his dialogues. All I could understand is that raman goes into a guilt trip on seeing Adi.