21.01.2015 - Pongal/Lohri celebrations vs. Bhalla Parivar Hypocrisy - Page 2

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am back to comment😛...Thanks for review😳

This is for Toshi...u dont deserve any grandchildren...u filthy women..u r a big dark spot



Raman trying to cover up and patch up ...Dude u gotta go a long way in search of ur own self respect if u have one


ISHITA-RUHI...two pure souls having ❤️-❤️ talk


Ramans state in the upcoming episodes...😆😆😆


For Ashokwaaa😎




About the precap...and seeing Adi-Shagun S*&^ tactics rather foolishness i can only offer them this expression...divorcee calling someone else hubby her pati...airhead why u prove to be one day by day

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Posted: 10 years ago
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nice review..i dont want to say nything about epi as cvs r butcherd each nd every char...btw dat orange color flowers r called as kanakambaram...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mera EK hi question hai.
HARR cheez mazak mein udana accha hai kya?

What was that Raman's "Yeh abhi bhi badhki kyun hui hai?" JUST a second after "Beta madrasan ka dimag bahot garam hai!"

HOW is this possible? And why do CVs make light of Ishita's hurt and anger? Why can't Raman actually be just serious about hurting her?

Just watching Ruhi with Ishita made him say "ohhh I wish I could tell you how much I love you"

Ghanta.

Bullshit.


Crap crappity crap.


Arre if you love her sO much then PROVE it. Ishita ko izzat toh di nahi. Aisi izzat ka kya jo 2 second mein chali jaye aur wapas aajaye.



And more than anything else I HATE HATE HATE Raman's "Ho sake toh mujhe maaf kar dena"

Beta maaf nahi karegi na toh tujhe lene ke dene padd jayenge.


Toshi ji was toh what I don't even know or care anymore.


Sigh.

Ruhi is my savior too. Only she can complete Ishita in ways no one else can. Not even Raman. A child's love is truly unconditional.

I wish Adults could also love like this.

Raman needs to hold his shit together. He is losing it. He just looks damn idiotic day by day.

Its liks YHM CVs have PLANNED this- Pehle Ishita ko stupid banao fir Raman ko.

Bleh.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: gravity23

What the F is Toshi ji upto?


Gifting her Bahu stuff for 'Shaadi ke baad ki PEHLI LOHRI' after humiliating her..and asking her to apologize to her bitchy Sauten...for NO fault of hers...as if that will just erase the abominable episode from Ishita's mind😡

"Mainu pata hai..ki tu hum sab se naaraz hai...ADI pareshan hota hai naa..toh hum sab PAAGAL HO JAATE HAIN" and AGAIN, that oft-repeated, much irritating, redundant, convenient, patchwork line, "Ishita...tera dil vadda GREAT hai" Is this a STANDARD line for Toshi ji? Like, dont they EVER rehearse and find it sick and sly, to be saying the same thing over and over again, after doing something cringeworthy and hypocritical? I will strangle her the next time she mouths this dialogue..Lost ALL respect for her..can NEVER take her seriously anymore...

Pongal celebrations are in full swing..VANDU notices the wedding ring absent in Appa's ring finger.."Aapki wedding ring kahan gayi?" she asks..Appa reprimands her, and asks her to get busy with the Pongal celebrations...

It is so CLEAR that Ishita is upset...feeling uneasy...she's wondering what suddenly happened...She's wondering how tables turned when she was ABOUT to go apologize to Shagun...Arrey yaar, tumhara pati wahan side mein khada tha..isliye tumhari Sauten ne drama kiya..Yeh samajh kyun nahin aata Ishita ko???

"Ishima...kya hua? Aap udaas kyun ho?"Ruhi asks her, entering the room. She goes on and on about how she had been to her Ishima's clinic to get her toothache checked...and how Raman Papa and Ishita performed the rituals "Aap dono toh uss samay ek doosre ko jaante bhi nahin the" she concludes, cheerfully...

"Ishima...AAP HI MERI MAMMA HO...chahe kuch bhi ho jaye..main aapko kabhi hurt nahin karungi...kabhi SORRY nahin bulwaungi...kabhi chhodke nahin jaaungi" "Ishima..I LOVE YOU"...Sooo sweeet...sooo ADORABLE...IshRu are MADE FOR EACH OTHER...I was crying...literally...it was sooo touching...Ruhi, with her gap-toothed smile...RUHI is the ONLY soul in the Bhalla House who is pure, innocent and sooo perceptive...Such a CUTIE! Such an adorable darling...In fact, the Bhallas should LEARN from this oft-neglected child of their own clan...Unconditional love and support...not the kind Raman is trying to justify...CVs, I have a request...Please do NOT tamper with Ruhi's innocence and guileless nature..

Raman who was watching all this, standing at the door, thinks to himself, for the Nth time:

"Kaash Ruhi ki tarah main bhi aasani se keh pata Ishita, ki main tumse kitna pyaar karta hai...bahut koshish karta hun ki tumhen hurt na karun...phir bhi hurt kar hi leta hun...ho sake toh mujhe maaf kar dena" Why should your wife FORGIVE you without a fight? Without You making an effort to ACTUALLY UNDO WHAT YOU'VE DONE...My affection and admiration for Raman is going downhill day by day...his complacent attitude..his ABSOLUTE disregard for prompt action to alleviate his wife's feelings...What has he BECOME? There's no Genuiness in what he's trying to for his wife...He STILL hasnt gotten over the Shagun syndrome, no? Thinks designer sarees and customized earrings and this and that will be a perfect substitute for his loyalty and respect. B.S. HE NEEDED IT. The nerve...He is turning out to be a typical MCP..cannot stand this shit

UFFF...MISHOK are back...and NOT with a bang...Mihika gave a speech to the Khanna Brothers worth raised eyebrows from Ishita herself...about how they should stay OFF alcohol atleast on THIS day...I must say, Mihika was looking like a typical South Indian beauty...lovely...some white-ish saree with a green border..Kanjeevaram hi hoga...

Pongal celebrations begin with Amma-Appa doing the honours...shehnai (I guess, wohi baj raha tha) was playing in the background...The women were looking simple and BEAUTIFUL...Madhvi Iyer donning a pink Kanjeeevaram, and flowers in her long braid, looked really pretty...MISHOK arrived and touched Amma-Appa's feet...

Amma gave Mihika the gajra...some orange-looking flowers..I dont know what they're called, but they look extremely pretty...

Ishita and Raman are getting ready. She helped Raman size up his outfit neatly..He realises that Ishita's "probably very hurt" and that he should say sorry to Ishita...Is it ROCKET SCIENCE? The minute he tries to speak to her, Ruhi comes in with those orange-looking flowers and says she wants her Ishima to wear them...Ishita is ALREADY looking sooo beautiful..elegant, exquisite, and ethereal...the white and red Kanjeevaram saree, the red lipstick...the orange flowers in her neatly tied bun..the sombre look..EVERYTHING ADDED TO HER BEAUTY TODAY...

Raman was looking nice too..and I'd prolly have commented on his hotness, had he not tried to "buy" his wife's forgiveness by gifting her customized diamond earrings, the same as the Khandaani ones already gifted to Shagun..
"Yeh aapne Shagun se wapas le liye?" Ishita is surprised
"Main daan ki hui cheez wapaas nahin leta Ishita...yeh maine khaas tumare liye banwaye hain...kyunki unpe TUMHARA hak tha..." Why didnt you protest against the same the day Ishita handed you over the earrings? Nt impressed...in fact..this DELAY in understanding these little nuances...are pissing me off.😡

"Aap kyun nahin samajh paate ho mujhe...Maine kabhi aapse kuch nahin maanga..Bas aapse chahiye..toh thoda sa bharosa, thoda si izzat...in sab cheezon ki koi zaroorat nahin hai mujhe" Ishita gives it back to him, in a sombre, yet FIRM and NO-NONSENSE way!! Loved that Ishita Bhalla...👏👏 I totally gorged on the fact that you DID NOT GIVE IN to Raman's second-hand, outdated apology...No man on earth should take his wife for granted in a way that makes him feel he can win her heart back just by buying her a filthy expensive pair of diamond earrings, no matter how gorgeous and exquisite they may be👏
Appa is worried at the bewildered, upset expression on Ishita's face...I was wondering what exactly happened...First, I thought maybe App a was tryin to read Ishita's expressions..turns out Ishita's face reflected the sight of Mihika sitting around the Pooja fire..

"Aayiye saale saab, kaise hain? Hamare saale saab zara late-lateef hain...Bade log, busy honge. Haal hi mein kuch contracts sign kiye hain...office mein bahut kaam ho gaya hoga naa'' Ashok taunts Raman, as he makes his place near the fire...

"Appa...aapne phirse shirt nahin kharidi naa? Phirse wohi daag laga veshti pehena hai aapne" Raman says, as he tries to smoothen a crease in Appa's veshti...Raman tried to be the ideal Daamad today, but Ishita wasnt even looking...Serves him right

Mihika thinks adding an ENTIRE BOTTLE of chilli powder into the prasadam will be a FITTING REVENGE. How SCHOOL-GIRLISH! But I loved the expression on Mihika's face, "ACCHA HAI NAA?" when Ashok felt his insides burn after taking a spoon of the prasadam.

"I'll have your YUMMY...Sambar...katori se" Ashok pacifies her, once she starts blackmailing him citing her pregnancy blues. "Kitni KAMEENI biwi paayi hai maine" ASHOK mutters out loud, and takes out a bottle of alcohol, stuffed inside the folds of his veshti ..to take a swab and down out the burning sensation in his esophagus.

Mihir enters and hears Ashok bitching about Raman. "Excuse me, you're talking to me?" Mihir shot back, as Ashok addressed him.

"Saala.baap banne jaa raha hai...phir bhi ATTITUDE dekho" Ashok thinks to himself. 🤣

"Jab pata chala hoga tumhen...toh pairon ke neeche se zameen hi khisak gayi hogi..aur meri bhi" I really didnt know in which sense Ashok said this line. And, going by what Mihir said, "Lagta hai tum hosh mein nahin ho...kyunki tum kya BAK RAHE HO, mujhe bhi samajh nahin aa raha..." even HE didnt understand that, I guess.

Mihir ogled at Mihika, opening the door just a teensy little bit...and then realised, she's married. Ufff...Heartbreak and all...Kab tak DIKHAYENGE? Rinki kyun nahin hai...would've loved to see RiMi flirting and MIHIKA watching the same with hawk eyes

ADI came to check on his mother, sitting outside in the lawn..asked her why she isnt ready yet...
"Kiske liye taiyaar hona beta? Yeh sab tyohaar un logon ke liye hota hai, jinka husband
ho...Parivaar ho.." "Ab mera Pati SAARE RULES Ishita ke saath manayega" Wow...Even AFTER the divorce, Shagun thinks RAMAN is HER Pati...and so does ADI...THIS is the counselling the MORON is getting, huh?😡

And so...ADI decides, "Aaj ki Lohri ki Puja HUM hi karenge...agar Ishita Aunty ko pooja karni hai toh unhe alag jaake karni hogi" Tu kaun hota hai YEH DECIDE KARNE WALA???xyza 8onsksknls 😡😡😡 Felt like ghumaoing my hand and giving him a whack that would echo, even amidst the Band Baja of Lohri celebrations...


PRECAP - Shagun managed to get the customary red and white dress gifted by the Bhallas, I guess..she's getting her mehendi done..when somebdy in the crowd asks ADI about Ishita, "Yeh kaun hai"..

That ________ said, "Err..YEH...YEH MERI NEIGHBOUR HAI" How DARE this sick, pathetic, creepy bratty MORON say something? And as far as its apparent, I dont think any of the Bhallas will say anything

WHAT THE F ARE THE CVs upto? The Bhallas stood doing nothing..Raman, very 'conveniently' just stepped on the scene..and Ishita looked heartbroken. AGAIN. If this time None of the Bhallas say a WORD, then I've had it.

Chhii EK...your drama levels are DEPLORABLE. What depths will you go to now? Raman Bhalla isnt the ONLY man in the world to have divorced his wife...or the ONLY one who has a son...GET A LIFE..AND STOP PLAYING SEXISM IN YOUR SHOW EVERY SINGLE DAY😡

P.S. Now I know..why TOSHI JI and RAMAN are sooo alike...The MIL tried to appease to Ishita's better nature by gifting her LOhri ka saamaan, and uttering some cringe-worthy lines which sounded FAKE and extremely sly...Just as the HUSBAND tried to buy out his wife's forgiveness..Pathetic...And I know, I'll just get angrier day by day...

P.S. Ruhi, DO SOMETHING SHOCKING and infuse some much-needed sense into your Raman Papa's and daadi's head

P.S.Ishita was the REAL HERO of today's episode...Love and ADMIRE the succint, curt response...I just hope, in HOWEVER subtle ways you can manage, please do not let your guard down so easily...and GIVE IT BACK to this family taking their morning dips in hypocrisy


Nice review G. i wont say it everyday since i wait for your review. Well, as for the precap Shagun sees Raman and guess what? She is upto brownies again! She will tell them that Ishita is adi's chotimaa,,just to impress Raman. Raman has not just taken ishita for granted but he is treating her like a doormat. She should just do whatever he wants and in return, woow... she will get some expensive gifts. He is literally bribing her to take shit in future too. Wonder if he knows the meaning of love? And he guesses Ishita is hurt?? Wow and that too just guessing...

This Raman looks like Shagun's husband not Ishita's anymore! and why is he treating Ishita like shagun?😡



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi21

Mera EK hi question hai.

HARR cheez mazak mein udana accha hai kya?

What was that Raman's "Yeh abhi bhi badhki kyun hui hai?" JUST a second after "Beta madrasan ka dimag bahot garam hai!"

HOW is this possible? And why do CVs make light of Ishita's hurt and anger? Why can't Raman actually be just serious about hurting her?

Just watching Ruhi with Ishita made him say "ohhh I wish I could tell you how much I love you"

Ghanta.

Bullshit.


Crap crappity crap.


Arre if you love her sO much then PROVE it. Ishita ko izzat toh di nahi. Aisi izzat ka kya jo 2 second mein chali jaye aur wapas aajaye.



And more than anything else I HATE HATE HATE Raman's "Ho sake toh mujhe maaf kar dena"

Beta maaf nahi karegi na toh tujhe lene ke dene padd jayenge.


Toshi ji was toh what I don't even know or care anymore.


Sigh.

Ruhi is my savior too. Only she can complete Ishita in ways no one else can. Not even Raman. A child's love is truly unconditional.

I wish Adults could also love like this.

Raman needs to hold his shit together. He is losing it. He just looks damn idiotic day by day.

Its liks YHM CVs have PLANNED this- Pehle Ishita ko stupid banao fir Raman ko.

Bleh.


agree with u to the T.
Raman, our very own Raman could be so blind to Ishita's pain i had never ever even dreamt of it. And loon at him. Ignoring her issues not once, but every effing time. Bullshit.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Trashy crap ..yuckk..
Raman and bhallas deserve only shagun and Adi ..
Ishita and ruhi r too good for them ..pure relation is ishima-ruhi ..bhallas r using ishita's goodness and taking ishru as granted ..hate them..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: nb.neha

Shouting

Yelling
Insulting apology
Being addressed as a neighbour
After all this raman is ready to do the lohri puja with shagun because of Adi? Is this is his way of saying sorry? Or does the word sorry has no value for him bcoz he forgets everything in just a second. How mean can he be. Puja with shagun? ??? Really?? He actually agreed to do that??

Shagun is evil. But she was like this since day one. Raman wgo gives into Adi's demands is much more at fault that shagun or anyone else


I think there is major thing amiss here-

Raman is still in counselor mode thinking that his son still needs a secure home with mom and dad who r together! Shagun is still using that , plus Raman and Toshiji's blind love for their GKC! But he had blamed Ishita for getting shagun home, and next day he begged her to come with him.

Within a day Adi is out to being his normal criminal self where he can make others do sussu in their pants!😡 Raman and Bhallas are not able to see that. It took him hardly a day from being insecure to being overconfident that this is his house and he will take a call as to who lives here! Phew!

I think somewhere Raman still likes ogling at shagun, he no longer seems annoyed or uncomfortable around her!

how did he become so insensitive towards ishita? His apology today was so goddamn awful!😡




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi akanksha, agreed to each single word of ur post, if u remember right, I never complained abt Raman's shouting... Never bcoz somewhere I felt he was too blind in love n that wasn't his fault.only wen he folded hands, I got angry but today , he was at his heights...
Dint he know how hurt ishita was,despite that they way he tried to say sorry, the approach itself was not sincere ,as if she was angry with him , not abt adi, rather abt some normal hubby wify issues like coming home late...etc n its not good...

I expected a serious reply , rather than 'acha kiya maafi nahi maangi' expression ...does he seriously think its a petty issue,that he can manofy with earings...want to c how Raman will genuinely apologize ishita n assures her of his love, respect n faith in her

Loved ruhi a notch more after the SBB segment...muah darling...that's wat is standing for ppl u love...

Ishu was looking gorgeous, hope she wears an original kanjeevaram saree , at least for once in the soap

btw thank u for the analysis ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Honestly. I couldn't care less. The show has lost its charm. Not even this could possibly save it for me.
It's pathetic on how one could shun a full blown member for the sake of a 12 year child who I admit needs love but in his case doesn't deserve it. How is Raman any different from Subbu? Doling out injustice and threatening if not taking away her basic rights as the daughter-in-law and the a wake up call from a four year old any justification to this? It's frustrating, nerve wrecking and heart wrenching.

One track. Not even Mani or Raman's ruthless behaviors and borderline forcing himself could ruin the show for me but this one track did. There were so many ways the track could have gone about. So many ways without ruining the essence of IshRa and Ruhi-Ishita. But to me it just fails. I'm sorry, but this isn't the show I fell in love with. Ishita is family. Their family. If they need a four year old to dole out justice and common sense then they aren't family but a bunch of hypocrites.

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