21.01.2015 - Pongal/Lohri celebrations vs. Bhalla Parivar Hypocrisy

What the F is Toshi ji upto?

Stupid episode. Filler. Just to push the drama to probably friday or saturday.
What is the point i don't get it? Is there NOTHING more to the show than this irritating love triangle of sorts? They can still explore so much about the leads, their love towards each other, Ishita's trials as a mother.. Simmi-Param drama, or for a change proper closure to Mani track lekin out of so many cool options, they choose to show such typical tellyworld crap and to top it, they literally 'fill' every alternate epi with utterly nonsense scenes. Im starting to lose my patience now, to be very honest. :/

Raman failed to redeem himself in this epi also, and not im not going to buy any of his romantic drama until he sincerely apologises for the wrong done by him.
I watched the epi while working so i might be wrong, but what i could comprehend was ki when Ishita said, i just want a little respect and trust from you, did he just say 'why is she showing attitude?' or something on those lines? Coz if he did, then oh my god CVs, u just killed Raman Kumar Bhalla for me.

Toshi Ji was at her disappointing best. Bloody hypocrite. Im so glad Ishita expressed her disappointment to her. That lady is too much.
What kind of a woman Toshi Ji is, really? Blaming Ishita for literally everything and uske baad trying to be overly-sweet with her?
'I know we have wronged u.' Now what good is this realisation when u have to do such thing again and again? :/
Toshi Ji broke my heart. And she's lost all chances of redemption acc to me. I will never look at her the same like i did when she stood up for Ishita during accident track. :/

Raman too. Like mother, like son. Toshi Ji said not one word to Shagun and Adi. And Raman, not one word to Shagun, Adi and Toshi Ji. Bus stood there evesdropping on Ishita and Ruhi. My foot. Selfish people. I doubt if i'd be able to love Raman like i do, knowing that he too, is just as selfish as his mother. Blinded by his love for that one moron of a son. :X
His casual attitude while Ishita was making something realise very serious, just killed it for me. Disappointing, disappointing and utterly disappointing. :| I now dare CVs to make a mockery of an apology from Raman to Ishita. Make that one seriously intense scene to a comic one and i swear that would be the end of YHM for me. It's going too overboard now.

Ishita and Ruhi scene was so pure. :') It was all the more fun to watch coz i know it will be Ruhi now who'll be standing for Ishita! Lovely SBS/SBB. :D
Raman as usual standing there like a mute spectator. So unless i see a very valid reason for him not yet saying anything to his stupid son, the character no longer exists for me.

These people again started with Appa and his finances. Gosh i can't tell u how irritated i was by that. :X
Instead of those scenes, atleast Raman ko Toshi Ji se baat karte hue dikha dete yar? Kisi ko toh ye bolte hue dikhate ki aage se Ishita ke saath hum ye nahi hone denge? :/ I'd have felt ki goodness does get rewarded after all. Lekin these people started with their own pooja drama. 10mins of pooja scenes jisme i could see no sense whatsoever. Bloody nonsense. :X

Ashok, im sorry has been made into such a comic caricature of a villain na.. So annoyingly stupid.. I now realise Raman ka character toh assassinate hua hi hai, Ashok has also gone with the wind. Where has that classy villain gone man? :/

Mihir was good. Still in character. And it was such a treat to watch him so sensible after such a bitter break up. :)

DT was right in her expressions throughout. She looked lovely in that cream-orange saree. :')

Ruhi my doll. :D

P.s. In all seriousness, RIP Mr. Raman Kumar Bhalla. :(

i m a silent reader to ur reviews... at times i agree, at times i dont... but generally i keep quiet...

@gravity.. We have written such similar reviews. :D
Literally this epi pissed me off like anything.
Apart from being boring, so so SO disappointing. :(

Shouting

Raman is becoming shagun.love is materialistic for him now.just hated when he gifted earings.and also loved ishita response to him.loved ruhi ishita scene.and again raman standing as stupid at door perplexed how to say sorry.u know how to force urself on ur wife,scream at her now and then but dont know how to say sorry.strange!!!😡gift is one which has love in it which ruhi gives to ishita by standing for her.shagun is real mom of ruhi but still she is not majboor for adi or shagun.just loved ruhi and ishita.DT expressions were bang on.she was looking gorgeous as always😳.u bhalla clan don't deserve tiny bit of our ishru.just hate them.i am sure he will tomorrow not correct that moron for adressing ishita as neighbour and doing lohri pooja with shagun disgusting😡.and questioning ishita on her motherhood,i mean how can he!!! YHM=ishita and ruhi.

Grav

Nice review

Raman is not able to understand his wife's feeling is pathetic and also feels sorry for him. He has been stucked between his wife and son. He is trying to gift the earrings sumilar to his khandhani earrings to break the silence of his wife. He cannot able to understand that no gift can bring the trust on him and the self respect of her which his wife lost today can get it.

Ashok mihika and suraj conversation brings clearly said the cultural differences among them.for punjabis drinking is the part of thier celebrations whereas drinking is prohibited for tamilans on auspicious days. It was clearly shown that Ashok was not interested in attending their celebrations. But when he saw raman the happiness he has in his face is that his life time goal wasaachieved

Mihir and Ashok conversation is the result of misunderstanding between them . Mihir was taking about his promotion in theoffice but ashok was talking about mmihika's pregnancy. It was hilarious but both of them was not understood what the other person has said.

Raman and appa's conversation was nice a careing sson in law for his father in law.

Note
cv's has to know the rituals properly or study well about it before the try to portray it in the screen . Without knowing the correct ritual the sending wrong message to the others

the orange colour flower is called kanakamarAm in english it is called firecracker flower

I don't even try to fathom the level of hypocrisy of the Bhalla clan. Today Toshi explained how important Lohri was for a newly wedded couple and tomorrow they'll celebrate it with Shagun! Ruhi had to be the one to stop that bullshit! A six years old had to be the one who saw how wrong all of it was! Raman and his family- they are very impressive when it comes to talking! They always have so many fancy things to say, promises to make. Ask them to keep even a single word, they are the first to hide!

Two things had made me have two different extreme feelings.
One was Ruhi-Ishita scene and another Raman- Ishita.Both love Ishita but the difference in showing their love at this period of disaster...has a stark difference.One will make your eyes well up and another will make you pissed off.
When I see a 6yr old kid knowing what pain her mother is going thru ...she makes an instant effort to assure her mother and cheer her up.The scene is so heart warming.It makes your eyes moist.
And another scene the MAN RKB... who is said to be madly in love with his wife doesn't even realize what makes his wife angry.His dialogue.."yeh itni bhadki kyun hain yaar"...really Raman??Your wife gets insulted by your bratty son and Shagun...u watch it as mute spectator,you blast her and blame her for Adi's leaving the house...and still u ask what makes your wife angry?Heights of stupidity.And next to patch up with her and wipe off all the mistakes... Raman gifts Ishita ,earring.I loved Ishita's reply...so TRUE...RKB u surely have failed to know how your wife is.