17.01.2015 - Raman Bhalla's Characterization is Tarnished For Good

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: FuriousFan
Even if Adi's character gets reformed in the future...he is never going to get sympathy from me. Since his character has been so much tarnished now.
And please Ishita leave that bhalla House...let Raman and Toshi be happy with that evil Ghar ka Chirag. Adi holds more importance than you in that house. Bhallas are going to forgive Adi even if he grows up to be a murderer.😡😡😡

Same here...I have no sympathy for that creep and no matter how sugary and saint-like he becomes, that window of doubt will always be there in my mind...Forget him, am worried if I'l ever b able to accept Raman as The Raman Kumar Bhalla that I'd madly fallen for...he toh seems light years away from his real self

Sr. Bhalla has NO say in this matter...he is a mute spectator and an automatic supporter of the shit his wife says and does...Toshi ji has eyes ONLY for ADI...They all disgust me now

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pomegranate

@pomegranate

Sparkler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#42

It drives me crazy how the bhalla's are looking past shagun because of their love for the GKC. this is not love, this is just some kind of obsessive mental illness. No wonder It is easy for an opportunistic woman like shagun to take advantage of such foolish and blind people. I just want everyone to see the real face of their precious GKC, because it is not pretty.

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: teenager08
i absolutely hate it when the creatives temper with male lead just to portray the female lead in good light. :/

Raman was SO disappointing today. :( It hurts to see one of TV's strongest male characters being butchered like this - for no solid reason that too. :| Kuch toh substance hona chahiye show me? Kahi par bhi? Or is it that the CVs have lost it completely? :S

I know one possible justification for Raman's outburst would be that anger makes people do (and say) crazy things which we often don't mean, and that Raman siding Ishita in front of Shagun might be his redeeming act lekin i don't buy this nonsense. :/
It's so irritating - ki out of ALL the 'real scenarios', they have to show 'men losing their minds in anger'. :| May i very humbly ask, tab reality kaha gayi thi jab Shagun eas brought to Bhalla House AND made to stay there DESPITE having a brother in the same city, or the more recent 'Raman and Shagun's glorious anniversary celebrations.'
I find it very annoying when these CVs start to include rubbish realities in their entirely fake portrayal of real circumstances. :|

And i don't believe i actually look forward to ashok-mihika-suraj scenes these days. :| still better than stupid husband-wife-sautan and saas-bahu-beta drama. :(

As for Ishita's hurt i mentioned yesterday, i want to say that when Ishita's hurt, i relate to her more than anybody else in the show. More than Raman also. Coz that hurt and disappointment in her makes me realise that she's still so humane. :') Her tears give me proof that she still hasnmt turned into a Devi. :D ;)
And ofcourse, another reason is that her healing process is absolutely magical. :D Whether it is done by Ruhi, or Raman, or even Toshi ji for that matter, gives me immense happiness. :')
Personally, i want this track to go all the way to Ishita's infertility and Ruhi healing her again. Raman doing that would be enjoyable too. ;) Lekin the fact remains ki i've given up all hopes on a cliched 'iloveyou' scene followed by some epic consummation. :/

P.s. Raman, i hope you're back in form real soon. It's really difficult to watch the show when u don't behave the way u should. :/

@bold - I know...Its so OBVIOUS they're doing it coz they SOMEHOW want Ishita to be the bigger person...the righteous one...the blameless one...and that's fine, but u do it in a way WITHOUT tarnishing Raman's original characterization naa!!

Of course they'v lost it...WHY ELSE wud they ruin the most powerful male lead in Indian Telly..?? WHY?? Ive watched other soaps where (No offense meant) the other male leads dnt even MATCH UP to the spunk and charm KP has...then how can they take a good actor and leave this dent on his career by making him act SUCH regressive,ILLOGICAL parts??

Maybe they thought "Ishita pe chillaya toh kya ho gaya...atleast Shagun ke saamne apni biwi ki tareef ki" But its NOT A WIN-WIN situation anymore...I mean, two days later I still cant forget that OTT hollering...the exaggerated, misplaced ANGER...ALL OF IT

Exactly! And what kind of a brother is Mihir...itne dinon mein usko akal nahin aayi ki kisi pe bojh nahin banna chhaiye...AB SAMAJH AAYI...Aur yeh ab bhi isliye dikhaya taki Raman ko Iishita pe chillane ka ek suhana mauka mile...That's it! That was the SOLE purpose...

Hahaha...well yeah..I wouldnt brush past that...when she cries, feels hurt, rejected, disappointed, whatever...it DOES seem human..and maybe that's why we yearn for her..like we're all doing now...DT is a wonderful actress...POWERFUL EMOTING...but Raman ka powerful acting iss track mein barbaad ho gaya...

Well..I'd want RUHI to be a part of this healing process...not Raman...he doesnt deserve it right now...HE needs to heal his ADI obsession first..RUHI wud b a gud fit coz she standing beside her Ishima out of PURE LOVE would be an anti-thesis of Raman clinging to that ungrateful ADI out of fear he might leave Him again..wud be fun to watch...I want to see RUHI putting everybody's brains back in place...

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: pomegranate
It drives me crazy how the bhalla's are looking past shagun because of their love for the GKC. this is not love, this is just some kind of obsessive mental illness. No wonder It is easy for an opportunistic woman like shagun to take advantage of such foolish and blind people. I just want everyone to see the real face of their precious GKC, because it is not pretty.

Mental illness is the word for it. They are ALL going through it. We are sitting here angry and frustrated with this track...but I cant imagine what message it must b sending to thousands of second wives out there...who feel INSULTED coz of this track..coz it IS an insult to be behaving like this with ur current wife, to prioritize your EX bcoz of a 12 yr old creep she's given birth to...respect is diff...over-obsession is ENTIRELY A DIFF BALLGAME

It makes it seem like a woman who gets married to a man with a dark past needs to hang up her boots at the outset and forget about her own peace and happiness..EVEN HER SELF-RESPECT AND DIGNITY...not pretty at all...pathetic...

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Amni

@amni375

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#45

Actually, all of the characters in this show have been tarnished. Sad but true. I have stopped watching this show for over a week or so . But I still visit the forum.

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: amni375
Actually, all of the characters in this show have been tarnished. Sad but true. I have stopped watching this show for over a week or so . But I still visit the forum.

Barring Ishita..even earlier she was mahaan, and even now she is mahaan...but am just hoping she'll speak up for herself...and shock the bhallas out of their wits

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: dreamzsrk
Not sure what the episode has done to me now. I am getting up in the middle of the night and thinking abt it. Glad that I gave a miss, if just WUs has so much power in creating negative energy around me, what if I had seen the episode.
Why raman ? why

Ekta, For god sake can you keep all your dirty stuff without involving kids ? btw, What are u showing to the society?

Kids can be manipulated and used easily for ones benefits?
Kids can go to any extent to blackmail elders
Family with no boy kids are the ones that are cursed badly and living in deep sin
Male shavenism is normal in society and women should adjust and learn to live with it.
Step mom can only be a step mon to kids
saas-bahu relation can never be mom-daughter relation
Promises are just meant to be broken. Love is just meant to be hurtful always
more importantly, one CANNOT refine or get healed from the past

Shame on you guys. No values for society no values for fans either. I feel am being cheated to spend my valuable time on this show. banging my head will never be enough

I went through the same kind of torture during the MANI track, that ur going through now, wouldnt be able to sleep at all...had bouts of anxiety..never knew a stupid show could have that much power over me...😭

I am glad you're speaking out on this...kids can be manipulated, male children are always the Ghar ka Chirag, and female children are a perishable commodity in most Indian families...Saas is the Bahus mom AS LONG AS the grandson does not come into the picture...when the GKC comes into picture, ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE

Past always has to brandished like a sword before the current wife's eyes..Always