17.01.2015 - Raman Bhalla's Characterization is Tarnished For Good

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

How DARE Shagun place her hand over Raman's? That too, IN FULL VIEW of the other family members? With his WIFE being alive and in the same house? NO sense of propriety..coz well...in HER mind, Raman is still pining for her and wants to sleep with her ...😡

"Chhodo yaar...bachkana harkat macha rakhi hai" Raman shirks her hand off.. "Mujhe life mein AUR BHI kaam hai"

Ishita looked VISIBLY PISSED. And she should. Such a BITCH this Shagun is. Threw on an act and shed some fake tears to get the sympathy of the family members...Why was Toshi ji mum?? Aise toh she keeps saying snarky things to Shagun...and now she didnt have ONE word to say?

ADI who was watching all this rushed after his mother..

"Dekha naa..iss ghar mein sab mujhe kaise treat karte hain? Ishita ne Raman ko ek LOOK kya de diya...Raman ne beech mein hi game ko chhod diya" She is his WIFE, unlike you, she can give him WHATEVER look she pleases, you vamp😡

ADI fell for his vamp mother's 'Its all because of Ishita' nonsense AGAIN..Am sure he's thinking what to plot next...

ASHOK is going mad. Thinking about how the news about Mihika's pregnancy will severely affect his reputation.

"Baap banta rehta hai...woh bhi KISI AUR KE BACCHON KA" Suraj taunts him..

"Apna naam AAYA rakh le" 🤣

ADI sees Ishita in the hallway and charges her

"Aapne meri Mumma ko kyun rulaya? Aap kya chahti ho, ki woh ek kone mein pade rahe? Kal bhi Mamma ne aap dono ki ladai rokne ki koshish ki...aur aapne unse kitni rudely baat ki!"

Ishita tells him he is a kid, and shouldn't be interfering in adult conversations...that when Ruhi does that, she corrects her as wel, and so she's trying to explain the right thing to him...Naturally, since the wheels have set in motion and EK's predictable Saas-Bahu drama is a major part of twisted marital relations, Toshi ji butts in right after ADI leaves..and taana marooes Ishita..

"Ishita...maine tujhe pehle bhi kaha tha..ki ADI se door reh" Madwoman, your GRANDSON approached her, not the other way round

"Woh abhi baccha hai..usi teri lecturebaaziyaan nahin samajh aati..main tujhe PHIRSE keh rai hun..tu ADI se door reh" she repeats with a tone of finality, and those big bulbuous ANGRY eyes. What is WITH HER? Honestly...SO..let's get this straight...It was fine till Ishita arranged the Christmas party for ADI, and even ShaRa's wedding anniversary celebrations..and CANCELLING her goddamn FUN trip for this wretched MORON..and cooking his favourite dishes..and even TOLERATING and being cordial with his bitch of a mother...BUT THE MOMENT SHE TRIES TO DISCIPLINE HIM for something he's done, All Hell Breaks Loose...Disgusting...

Mihir who'd just come in, was a witness to this dramatic scene and decided he'll make a move..and goes to speak to Shagun...Naturally, she sheds a few more croc tears..and pins the blame on Ishita..MIHIR YAAR...How did you fall for this vamp's acting, man?!!

"Inhone tumhen ek ghar diya...rehne ke liye panaah di...ADI ko itna laad-pyaar diya..aur tum aisi baatein ADI ke saath kyun karti ho?"

MIHIR gives Shagun a STUPENDOUS proposal.."Shagun. ...tum iss ghar mein bahut problems face kar rahi ho...tum mere ghar pe aake kyun nahin rehti?"Jab tak tumhara bhai zinda hai...tumhen kisi aur pe bikh banne ki koi zaroorat nahin." He also clarified that ADI can stay with Raman, and Shagun, with him..and she can come during weekends to meet ADI...Sweetie, WHY DIDNT YOU COME UP WITH THIS BRILLIANT PROPOSAL AT THE VERY OUTSET? Why didnt you fulfill your "Bhaiyya wale" responsibilities when it was desperately needed? Sooo obvious this is a DELIBERATE PLOY to make it look like Ishita is the WICKED ONE HERE😡

Ishita's in the clinic. She gets a call from Raman..and lets the phone ring ...doesnt pick it up...Raman keeps calling.

"Rassi jal gayi lekin bal nahi gaya"

Adamant, Raman calls at her clinic...and the receptionist tells her she's free and isnt working on any patient...the receptionist informs Ishu about the call, and she asks her to tell Raman she's busy with a patient...he's thinking of how to 'manao' Ishita...How does it matter? 5 minutes later he's gonna scream at her like a banshee...

"BLUEBERRY CHEESECAKE ICE-CREAM" VANDU'S demand...She is SUCH a sweetheart. SUCH a cutie. Bala isnt very eager to travel 25kms to get the cheesecake..."Main TUMHARE BACCHE ko apne pet mein 9 maheene tak rakhungi, aur tum mere liye ek ICECREAM tak nahin la sakte? I know you dont love me..Mujhe pata hai, main moti ho gayi hun...UGLY ho gayi hun naa..isliye" Vandu pouts...

"Arrey aisa mat bolo Vandu...main jaaunga naa South Delhi...thodi naa 100 km jaana..bas...25 km hi toh jaana hai" Bala tries to do some damage control🤣 Bechara..phas gaya hai...but kya kare?? I totally go bonkers when I see husbands fussing over their demanding, childish preggy wives...soo soo cute..That's a huge motivation for me to get pregnant too😛

Bala and Raman accidentally meet at the ice-cream parlour..Guess Raman was also planning the same thing to manao his sulky wife..

"Dono ki biwiyan same hi hain...toh hamare liye saza bhi same hi hogi"

Raman comes back home, calls Neelu "ICECREAM aur CHEESECAKE leke aaye hain..bulale sabko" Nobody responds..Raman goes to ADI's room to look for him...the room's stark empty...he scrounges for their clothes, their stuff..finds NOTHING...

And then-

"ISHITA, ADI KAHAN HAI?"

"Pata nahin Raman..main toh office mein.."

"AREY MERA BETA GHAR SE MISSING HAI...ISHIMA..ISHIMA..ISHIMA BANNE KA BAHUT SHAUK HAI..EK CHHOTE SE BACCHE KA DHYAAN NAHIN RAKH SAKTI"

She repeatedly kept saying she was in the office and she DOESN'T KNOW where ADI's gone...and YET-

"Tumhen PATA HONA CHAHIYEN NAA...Tumhen SABKUCH PATA REHTA HAI NAA?"

"ADI ko lekar TUM BAHUT LAPARWAH HO"

"Tum jao apna ILAAJ KARWAO..tumhara dhyaan kahan rehta hai aaj kal"

"Jhagda hua na tumhara ADI ke saath...tumhi ne kuch kaha hai naa ADI se..aur woh ghar chhod ke chala gaya?" He CHARGES her.

"Aapke kehne ka matlab kya hai, ki MAINE ADI ko ghar se bhaga diya hai?" Ishita retorts.

Raman looked SOO BLOODY UNNATURAL behaving like a MCP. Like, Really. From fretting over why Ishita wasnt ADI's real mother, TWO DAYS AGO, he's transformed into this rude, callous husband who shoots off the first things that come to his mouth, without ONCE thinking how hiw wife will be affected by it. Im glad Ishita SHOT BACK at him..but still..there she was, standing like an injured soul..with tears ready to roll off any moment..PATHETIC, it is to watch this avtar of the male lead.

Ishita is NOT ADI's nanny...NOT his maid..DOESNT OWE HIM ANYTHING...That twerp should thank his lucky stars she willingly got him to Bhalla House WITH his bitchy mother...and ensured his lavish existence didnt came to an end...He should be thanking his lucy stars for just THIS...For that matter, ALL THE BHALLAS..especially Raman...

Toshi ji enters the scene and informs Raman that ADI's gone to Mihir's place. "Main wohi rahunga jahan meri Maa rahegi...aur Shagun kehti hai ki woh iss ghar mein nahin rehna chahti...usko ajeeb ajeeb sa lagta hai" Raman gives Ishita DIRTY LOOKS...He says he'll go to Mihir's place to fetch ADI...Ishita offers to go with him and he hits back with folded hands and "Nahin please..main apne BETE ko khud le aaunga"

Raman's gone off to MIHIR's place..yelled at Mihir as well "TU AISE KAISE ADI KO LEKE CHALA AAYA?" Mihir tried to make him understand, but RKB ka toh khoon garam hi hai...

Shagun joined in on the drama and tried to shower some fake concern about Ishita's feelings...how it gets awkward when they fight with HER around blah blah blah..Raman asks to cut it, and taunts her, "You know tumhari prob kya hai? Tumhen ab bhi lagta hai ki TUM mere life mein bahut important ho..Ishita ADI se pyaar karti hai..woh uska bahut acche se khayal rakhegi...Kisiko koi problem nahin hai"

What's wrong with RKB? 5 minutes ago he was blaming Ishita left, right and centre and now he's praising her? INCONSISTENT CHARACTERISATON, I scream from the rooftops

"Ishita Aunty ko problem hai' ADI interrupts Raman's speech..Well, well, well...VENOM HAS BEEN INJECTED.

PRECAP - Obviously, ADI makes his bloody unreasonable demand. "Main ghar tabhi jaaunga jab Ishita Aunty KHUD yahan aake Mamma ko sory bolengi" Raman looks NON-PLUSSED..IS HE EVEN THINKING? LIKE, Is he kinda mulling it over? What an ASS he's behaving like...😡😡😡Am sooo angry...Ishita was made to apologize even earlier ...for NO FAULT of hers..and now AGAIN, she'll have to do that...There's a limit to the levels to which you can ask a woman to stoop to...to be hailed as the Great One by everybody...and being accepted...disgusting...

P.S. Please find my special notes on today's episode below..and feel free to RANT to your heart's content

Edited by gravity23 - 10 years ago

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Mihir said ONE thing which I agree with...and which he said TOO LATE

"Waise bhi...jin bacchon ke parents divorcees hote hain, unhe toh kayi saari adjustments karni hi hoti hai naa"ADI isnt the ONLY unfortunate one to have divorced parents..

Now. Raman claims he wants ADI to stay in Bhalla House and that Shagun too should stay with him, because he's following the counsellor's advice and trying to frame a "happy family" picture for ADI. His current wife could very well have done that..And I guess, THAT was the plan till sometime back..WHAT happy family is he trying to conjure up now, for ADI?

1. When he SHOULD have acted, he didn't. Stood motionless, as if was forced to be on mute. Going along with EVERYTHING Ishita said and did. And now, he just doesn't know what he wants to do. Blame Ishita for everything, take charge or both? He's found a good middle-ground. Blamed Ishita for things she isn't accountable for And TAKE CHARGE when it comes to ADI, to ensure he makes his arse warm in Bhalla House..at the cost of Ishita's peace of mind and dignity. Even if it takes Shagun's smirks and Ishita's hurt for ADI to be happy, Raman will make sure he does that.

2. No point doing all those filmi parikramas and delivering romantic lines, when you're hours away from crushing your wife's self-respect and dignity, to dust! Raman's done it SOO many times, its not even funny. ADI even got Ishita jailed, for Chrissake! But all's forgiven, coz he's a disturbed child' is it?? how conveniently everybody's forgotten what Ishita's done.

3. Toshi ji annoyed me AS MUCH AS RAMAN DID. Now that you have ur ill-mannered pota in the house, it doesn't matter if you blame your laadli bahu for everything, isn't it? Nobody even bothers to find out what the matter is. All she cares for, is her grandson. She ANNOYED me soo much today...wanted to shake her up, stir her brains, fry them a bit and make her see SENSE

4. Mihir is a tube-light. Yeh mahaan idea, ki uski behen ko uske ghar mein rehna chahiye, PEHLE KYUN NAHIN AAYA?

5. It doesn't matter that Mihir IS Shagun's bro and can take care of her, Raman STILL falls for his maniac son's B.S. and thinks it would be fine of Shagun to stay with ADI. So partial. So selfish. What about the wife? Has she no feelings?

6. Raman, PLEASE get a full-time Aaya with a degree in Child Psychology for your criminal son, since Shagun would be busy with her beauty treatments.

7. Ishita, you're partly responsible for this mess. You should've stood your ground and made your boundaries clear at the very outset. You should've voiced your displeasure when you had an inkling this horrible arrangement could turn out to be bad. You should've told your husband this isn't acceptable, and that the ex-wife needed to be placed under a different arrangement. No point crying over spilt milk. And so, quit crying. Quit taking their shit. Buck up and fight back. Show your husband he cant manage by himself, an iota of what he blamed you for today. Leave the damn house and go on a soul searching mission or something. Do whatever the heck pleases you. Just stop stretching your body tissues to gain this crazy family's love and acceptance. Coz They're Not Worth It.

8. Thank You CVs, for ruining our favourite characters. But while you're managing the whole Bhalla House's healing process over their extreme obsession regarding ADI, please get Subbu in picture and make Ishita twirl around with her past love. I don't care if you get him back from the grave. Raman Bhalla NEEDS a reality check.

Edited by gravity23 - 10 years ago

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akruz

@akruz

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Haven't watched the episode yet but all this seems so out of this world ...

Adi has been given to shagun by court... So how can Raman expect to take adi back home without carrying the baggage by name of apshagun...or is it that he is ok to keep shagun at his home so tht he can keep adi forever .. What is their actual intention?? Why don't these guys just sit and talk , atleast that is the first thing that happens in a family when such situations arise rigt ..and decide how to go forward ... Just in the name of drama they have outgrown all insanities acceptable to common people ..

Now which husband in his proper sense would ask his wife to say sorry to his ex??? Even if ishita apologies to shagun and she and that a$$hole of a son decide to move backin , till when??? For once why not these CVs show us something realistic ...

My favorite serial has been butchered beyond limits ...

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yshu8

@yshu8

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

I was so waiting for ur post, so badly ...to vent out my agony...

Today was heights,Raman is worried, angry, annoyed ,I get it.he shouts at ishita , totally get it...'tumhara dhyan kaha rehta hai' ...endurable...'laparva ho'...can take it into system owing to Raman's nature...since I love him ,I will take it...

But...'ishima' dialogue... Hmm...OK olv made sure I digest...wat I saw after that was ...unbelievable... Raman saying , 'tumne adi she kuch kaha' did he just mean that?

When she offers to go along, the way he folded his hands...its nice to luv ur son but in that process hurting someone who loves u is foolish...

Everyone is feeling bad for ishita but ironically I felt bad for raman, I pity him , a big time.this man , can't help him...

One shud learn from his mistakes, if a person betrays u once, its not ur fault but twice, its definitely ur fault

He needs to b dumped by adi just the way shagun dumped , dats wen he will know

Raman, look at those two angels who love u yaar...

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teenager08

@teenager08

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

Im too pissed at this show to even write anything. Forget Raman, Ishita, Adi everyone.
Yeh Hai Mohabbatein. :X End this track asap. ASAP. That's all i have to say.

The only saving grace was Ishita's mobile wallpaper. That mandir scene was so pure. :') My heart just melted seeing the so-in-love couple again. <3

Might be back after regaining my sanity. :/

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K.S.

@K.S.

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

thank god..u made a post..i am waiting fr ur post nd ganbarun..

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nb.neha

@nb.neha

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

I don't even feel like writing anything. YHM has been ruined. I don't see the track ending soon either. I don't even know how they intend to end the track. Today's episode left me disappointed to the core. Every character has been ruined. Raman why don't u divorce ishita, marry shagun yet again n have your son with you forever. Shagun was so right. Raman's love for Adi ruined everything. Shagun achieved what she wanted. Disappointed. Hurt. My fav show my fav couple has been butchered.

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arshi21

@arshi21

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

i am SO angry that I am bordering on bashing the show and the CVs.

But I have never supported bashing and hence, I cant do it.

I have to take deep breaths before I can come and comment.

Good lord.

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ANU

@banksii

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: gravity23

Mihir said ONE thing which I agree with...and
which he said TOO LATE

"Waise bhi...jin bacchon ke parents
divorcees hote hain, unhe toh kayi saari adjustments karni hi hoti hai naa"ADI isnt the ONLY unfortunate one to have divorced parents..

Now. Raman claims he wants ADI to stay
in Bhalla House and that Shagun too should stay with him, because he's
following the counsellor's advice and trying to frame a "happy family" picture
for ADI. His current wife could very well have done that..And I guess, THAT was the plan till sometime back..WHAT happy family is
he trying to conjure up now, for ADI?

1.
Whenq
he SHOULD have acted, he didn't. Stood motionless, as if was forced to be on
mute. Going along with EVERYTHING Ishita said and did. And now, he just doesn't
know what he wants to do. Blame Ishita for everything, take charge or both? He's
found a good middle-ground. Blamed Ishita for things she isn't accountable for
And TAKE CHARGE when it comes to ADI, to ensure he makes his arse warm in
Bhalla House..at the cost of Ishita's peace of mind and dignity. Even if it
takes Shagun's smirks and Ishita's hurt for ADI to be happy, Raman will make
sure he does that.



2.
No
point doing all those filmi parikramas and delivering romantic lines, when you're
hours away from crushing your wife's self-respect and dignity, to dust! Raman's
done it SOO many times, its not even funny. ADI even got Ishita jailed, for
Chrissake! But all's forgiven, coz he's a disturbed child' is it?? how
conveniently everybody's forgotten what Ishita's done.



3.
Toshi
ji annoyed me AS MUCH AS RAMAN DID. Now that you have ur ill-mannered pota in
the house, it doesn't matter if you blame your laadli bahu for everything, isn't
it? Nobody even bothers to find out what the matter is. All she cares for, is
her grandson. She ANNOYED me soo much today...wanted to shake her up, stir her
brains, fry them a bit and make her see SENSE



4.
Mihir
is a tube-light. Yeh mahaan idea, ki uski behen ko uske ghar mein rehna
chahiye, PEHLE KYUN NAHIN AAYA?



5.
It
doesn't matter that Mihir IS Shagun's bro and can take care of her, Raman STILL
falls for his maniac son's B.S. and thinks it would be fine of Shagun to stay
with ADI. So partial. So selfish. What about the wife? Has she no feelings?



6.
Raman,
PLEASE get a full-time Aaya with a degree in Child Psychology for your criminal
son, since Shagun would be busy with her beauty treatments.



7.
Ishita,
you're partly responsible for this mess. You should've stood your ground and
made your boundaries clear at the very outset. You should've voiced your
displeasure when you had an inkling this horrible arrangement could turn out to
be bad. You should've told your husband this isn't acceptable, and that the
ex-wife needed to be placed under a different arrangement. No point crying over
spilt milk. And so, quit crying. Quit taking their shit. Buck up and fight
back. Show your husband he cant manage by himself, an iota of what he blamed
you for today. Leave the damn house and go on a soul searching mission or
something. Do whatever the heck pleases you. Just stop stretching your body
tissues to gain this crazy family's love and acceptance. Coz They're Not
Worth It.



8.
Thank
You CVs, for ruining our favourite characters. But while you're managing the
whole Bhalla House's healing process over their extreme obsession regarding
ADI, please get Subbu in picture and make Ishita twirl around with her past
love. I don't care if you get him back from the grave. Raman Bhalla NEEDS a reality check.

Bang on analysis@gravity...

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dreamzsrk

@dreamzsrk

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

#10

Thanks gravity for the review

The moment I read the line where raman asked ishita to stay away folding his hand, I only remembered the accident track where he holded her hand and asked her to be always with him to support and refine adi.

I would have never minded showing raman in grey shade but there should have been gradual progression and some sense of logic . Everything is shown as if the world is going to end the very next day. The magic that ishra created for 1 year has been just thrashed away in 1 episode. What may ever come in future to salvage all this can never bring back the soul again.

Although I know it is just a fiction, I felt very bad and cried for both Ishita and Raman. Yes, for Raman also, as it can never be made worst than this. I just cant digest the fact that a character that i loved so much along with all his flaws has been striped and raped badly.

I did not watch the episode , wanted to give a miss but reading your review , I have just decided to say goodbye to this crap show for ever and just be happy with the updates in IF forum.

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