Infidility

Originally posted by: meditation

Hi All, My name is Pooja,and I have a very close connect with the story of Ajeeb Dastaan Hai ye, as it is a story very similar to my cousins' and if Ekta Kapoor was to approach me I would tell her how my coz shaped up her life with a husband almost like Samarth. Coming back to the soap,I can empathise with Shobha but what is strange is that the creatives have consistently shown the turmoil in Shobha's mind on Samarth demanding a divorce and his arrogant behavior and self centered attitude that broke Shobha's heart.

First and foremost I feel that Shobha may be in a tizzy and also may be thoroughly confused at this point but it was imp for the director and the cvs to hilight just on single point and that is how Samarth slept with multiple women every single night of his life with Shobha,so how have the kids become relevant now ?

As I always say one strong parent is better than two weak ones.

Anyway this is my point of view.

Suggestions are welcome.

Choosing Samarth for her kids is not justified in my view what kind of good example she is setting for her children when d kids will realize d truth of their father in future they will feel disgusting n ashamed to call him father

Previously Shobha trusted Samarth blindfolded, now once she realised what kind of a person he is she is taking this step only for her kids who still miss their father.

Very nice topic!!

Shobha needs to think from every point of view about how this man character will bring a wrong image to her kids too, he has wronged her trust & respect multiple times a child needs both parents but if one is not having a good character and values for the other spouse then there is no guarantee a change will happen as for Shobha she will not get close to Samarth after what he has done that will reflect on his behavior towards her the kids may catch such behavior.. Shobha has gained independence with her own strength why weaken it again as we see the projection of the childs request to see both parents together has been the foundation of her going back ?? She puts her family always first in any issue she fights well to keep it if she can be strong alone then the need of one is enuf of two and as a parent good parent values which she carries she can groom the kids better ...

Not bringing any other side of her relationship with her boss or anyone just shobha or a woman in general who has brought valued independence & strength by her own will power shouldn't give samarth a chance back in her life it is to revolutionize the rights woman are fighting for. They learn to protect themselves their assets of value respect & trust for themselves & their kids as a quality and good parent.

Originally posted by: Shiningstar2014

Choosing Samarth for her kids is not justified in my view what kind of good example she is setting for her children when d kids will realize d truth of their father in future they will feel disgusting n ashamed to call him father

Originally posted by: Mahi78

Previously Shobha trusted Samarth blindfolded, now once she realised what kind of a person he is she is taking this step only for her kids who still miss their father.

Now after Vikram's entry in Shobha's and kids life there is a. Comparison between Samarth and Vikram and Shobha and the kids will start missing Vikram and how mean and shallow Samarth is .

I feel this is very important twist to value Vikram's importance in their life and accept him with their whole heart rather than just accepting him just as a substitute.😊

Originally posted by: shanti05

Very nice topic!!

Shobha needs to think from every point of view about how this man character will bring a wrong image to her kids too, he has wronged her trust & respect multiple times a child needs both parents but if one is not having a good character and values for the other spouse then there is no guarantee a change will happen as for Shobha she will not get close to Samarth after what he has done that will reflect on his behavior towards her the kids may catch such behavior.. Shobha has gained independence with her own strength why weaken it again as we see the projection of the childs request to see both parents together has been the foundation of her going back ?? She puts her family always first in any issue she fights well to keep it if she can be strong alone then the need of one is enuf of two and as a parent good parent values which she carries she can groom the kids better ...

Not bringing any other side of her relationship with her boss or anyone just shobha or a woman in general who has brought valued independence & strength by her own will power shouldn't give samarth a chance back in her life it is to revolutionize the rights woman are fighting for. They learn to protect themselves their assets of value respect & trust for themselves & their kids as a quality and good parent.

I am unable to quote the above statement so putting it here!!

Six months back she was naive and subdued .Now Vik has moulded her into a fine self dignified woman.Will that change persist even now?
Will she defy her husband on family life or on any other issue?
Hey friends kindly give me the answer, I am serious about it. Thank you.

Yes the whole scene seemed that she was willing going to embrace him now coming to the point 6 months back & now loads of challenges faced she has herself Vikram has been her guiding light!! She has seen how he has put her upfront and showed how dignified she is !! At work at other places where people ought to point fingers as she sees the world..

This is where her going back to the family will be a teat is she prepared will she keep her dignity high!! Above all now with Vikram given her a perspective of how he felt atleast the embrace the talks the reasoning what will she see for herself !! The pblm is she always brings family before herself their happiness their needs what abt urs!! Where do u value urself ???

So have to see how the writers project Shobha's character !!