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Posted: 10 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: redviolet

People have diffferent ways to deal with certain issues! Anger is one way of dealing with it and it should come out to Saahir as he is most a fault for what happened to her. It should not come out with others. She is not defeating Farah to satisfy her ego that is save her mother's reputation. Kurti Appa taunts her lot she does not to anything to beat her. Further more Farah as threatened to take it outside in front of crowds? How would this family drama effect Nausheen already in ill health? How would people perceieve her famiy or her sisters? Further more she is returning money which is a responsible thing to do. She is not trying to get rich by proving her worth to a comatose patient who is not capable of any more harm at the moment like Farah.

You might say so but its not like she stayed when people were giving her clear signals to get out. And her staying in the house does not allow Saahir to do half of the heinous deeds that he did period too.

I see that whenever you defend the wrong Arzoo does it's always by pointing out Sahirs wrong deeds...so it's clear that Arzoo cannot be defended on her own..

So the logic is basically...not that Arzoo is right..it's that so what if she is wrong...look I will give you a list of Sahirs wrongs!

But as has been said multiple times Sahir has not been defended for his wrongs...never...if you have read what was written when he was wrong you would know that..when he was wrong he was wrong...yes...that was when he was clearly indisputably wrong and not just wrong in one persons perception...!

And any defense for Sahir was based on him alone...not by pointing out Arzoos deeds!

And once again..all these thoughts of Arzoos that you mention are your own...we haven't been shown any of them...all we can see from her actions on screen is her ego getting hurt at what farah said...that takes precedece over the fact that Nausheen wasn't wrong in taking money from her husband...Arzoos ego took precedece over her sisters education also! She was ok with a year getting wasted! A for perception of her family...when you stay like that as 'guests' for so long and have no plans of shifting out does it really matter what the perception is?? You can't afford to care!

And if you are going to go into thoughts and motives I suggest you reflect on what has been actually shown of Sahirs thoughts as well...clearly this is not about him wanting money..it is to prove to zeenat whenever she wakes up that he was capable of doing something she said he couldn't! If he cared about getting rich he wouldn't stake it all on one deal to get Saiyara into the top 10.,, it's not about earning money for his pleasure but about proving to zeenat!

And like you said people have different ways of dealing with things..men or women...Arzoos way of dealing has manifested into arrogance and ego..so much so that her own sister is shut up...this..despite having the support of a family...and Sahir chose to make a promise his life...with no one to even talk to...again that we have been shown!

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#52

Originally posted by: naina2010
After reading your post my question to you is why doesn't Sahir told this to zaki and played game with rehman and Samira instead of hurting and using aarzoo ?
Zaki would have easily agreed on his terms and both could have cracked the deal without any issue ek se bale do?

But no instead he deliberately want to destroy zaki life? What right does Sahir and alvira got to destroy aarzoo and zaki life?

Look, Zaki slept with samaira, he made arzoo pseudo-pregnant, and after that he took like ages to bring samaira's paternity report ... Sahir initially asked zaki, begged him, requested him, gave him the sake of his reputation and saiyyara and nothing worked, because Zaki said he would marry any girl had he not been in love with Arzoo..

Sahir and Alvira got no rights to destroy zaki's life, i agree... But whats when zaki is getting what he deserved ? Moreover Sahir and Alvira had rights to expect that zaki will give his helping hand in crisis hours which zaki did not, zaki has completely detactched himself from all the problems saiyyara and his mother and brother are facing, had he shown once on his own going and tackling Samaira and Rehman, matters would not worse as it has.. Also, making a girl pregnant is not as a bigger crime than sleeping with her and then calling her characterless .. Men like zaki deserve to be treated like this, he just cannot play the saint game only because he is in 2 r s so called true love with arzoo, had Sahir slept with Arzoo and left her, then would we still say that Sahir is right to leave her because he has found a new muse for himself ? NO ..

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#53

Originally posted by: redviolet

Edited by harshu.sundas - 10 years ago

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#54

Originally posted by: --Ari--
Ego isnt not making mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes.
Being a balanced strong person means you have to be sensible enough to call a spade as a spade and accept your mistakes.

Which sahir has always done and which i never saw aarzoo doing. everytime she tried to apologize for one thing she created 10 things she needed to apologise for. That might seem funny or cute to some but its irritating at times how shabbily they have portrayed the FL and yesterday was the final nail in the coffin.

Sahir making zaki responsible for his philandering ways with samaira is wrong and he is horrible for that.

But aarzoo saying yes to zaki and playing with him just to spite sahir is perfectly alright and shows strength of character.

amazing 👏

My point Ari.. moreover Arzoo got it becak, she encouraged Zaki to get over samaira even knowing that sam and zaki had an affair, then being a woman she did that, so why do we even blame men like zaki and sahir ? women used these two as par their own convenience, and see even arzoo two times them, so why are these men at fault only ? its okay , i mean zeenat can betray sahir, crush his ego and love but she should be forgiven because she is a comatose woman ? Its okay Arzoo has always been an irresponsible employee and more arrogant one, but she should be forgiven because Sahir has been rude too ? Its okay if Arzoo is helping zaki to get rid of samaira, his sex partner whom he has promised off marriage earlier, but arzoo should be forgiven because sahir played with her ? Its okay if Arzoo calls sahir a money making beast and his wife's cheater but she should be forgiven because Sahir has called her a gold digger and apparently broke her heart for her own damn good.. Ugghhh yes Sahir is wrong wrong wrong, but Arzoo is howlarioous...🤣

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#55

Originally posted by: IMAnam
Sundas she is way beyond me
That thinking about selling that bracelet was last nail on the coffin for me

I don't even want to waste my time on two people who are ruining his life and claiming their life is at stake *Irony just died*
Yes he makes money because everyone else is not worth making anything but all seem to be hyenas to me
Tonight what she said about that I'd love to say the least that
she was very strictly insulting
she stooped way too low for me
That personal attack was brutal
She can blame him all she wants true but that mocking him about his wife that is what some one with no values does
I'd love to salute him for not telling Arzoo about his wife
He was right not to do it

sweto its okay.. chill yaar .🤣. i love your rants though.. Sweto Arzoo misunderstanding and even blaming SAC i can understand, but not the way she did, i mean the choice of words .. this is only because Arzoo ;later on will feel very heartbroken when she comes to know about the whole truth.. You know it hurts more when you realize that you have judged and mocked a person based on what he tempted to show you... We are human beings and thus can be wrong at our judgements, but when we mock somebody we should look at our own collars too.. Sahir was wrong to do what he did to her, but he still has an ample amount of respect for her.. 😳

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Posted: 10 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas
sweto its okay.. chill yaar .🤣. i love your rants though.. Sweto Arzoo misunderstanding and even blaming SAC i can understand, but not the way she did, i mean the choice of words .. this is only because Arzoo ;later on will feel very heartbroken when she comes to know about the whole truth.. You know it hurts more when you realize that you have judged and mocked a person based on what he tempted to show you... We are human beings and thus can be wrong at our judgements, but when we mock somebody we should look at our own collars too.. Sahir was wrong to do what he did to her, but he still has an ample amount of respect for her.. 😳

I'm all chilled 😆

It's a personal thing I don't know why though I'm disgusted with people who when at odds go to personal attacks 😡

& true that she is gonna feel all bad at saying all that

but I was actually very pissed at that dialogue 🤢

not saying that he should have played that game I don't support him in that he was wrong

not telling her about his wife was right acc. to me

I'm all new to ranting 🤣 you love them this fact is cracking me up 😆