DOTW:The Past Is Back To Haunt! - Page 2

Originally posted by: raksha.l

Ryka, you have a way with your words..Good job..

However, I disagree with the last paragraph that you wrote above...Robbie had a choice of choosing the right thing to do but he let go of it..What he did to Kasturi is unfathomable and unforgivable...If I were in Kasturi's place, I may not have been able to forget Robbie ever, but I would probably not be able to forgive him at all...Whatever Kasturi told to Robbie before her marriage was so true..Robbie still needs to learn how to be unselfish in his love...He seems to have forgotten what all he did to Kasturi and also by blaming Raunak, he is just showing his ignorance to us...

The duffer first needs to sit alone all by himself..Put his grudges aside, and think for 2 minutes why the heck would Raunak want to steal his love...This seems like the most weirdest thing ever to me...He needs to get Raunak back on pack..and once Raunak will understand his pain, things will be much better...

I hope it did not make any sense, otherwise it would mean I know what I was saying...(read this somewhere and liked it)

Raksha, Thank you.

Coming to the last question... It was a general question and so my answer was general and Not Robbie specific.

Coming to Robbie, I am not even contesting the claim Robbie has been wrong. He is wrong and he is dead wrong. No one disputes that, nor will I. But Yes, the marriage wasnt the solution. The Marriage is only going to ruin matters further for the lives and the familes concerned... esp when this is not real but a melodrama... so I see the worse coming up and I feel it is going to be Fatal(That coming from the fact that I have been an adrent viewer of 'Rajeev's' Kth😳 Please dont mistake that I will put Robbie in Sujal's pedestal... No way would i do that, I love Sujal far too much for that😳)

I dont think Robbie was selfish when he came to stop Kasturi from getting married. He was talking for both of them... recount his words he says tumhari kushi Raunak mein nahi hai. He was ready to do everything it would take to set it right. And trust me... He would HAVE! But was he given that chance? Was he given even the right to appologise for his deeds? Did Kasturi spare a thought for the fact that he must have also been through hell seeing the hand writing and a consent signature of hers on an abortion paper along with his best friend's name on the day of their engagement?

I know Robbie is always accused of being selfish. May be there is a point. But wait a minute... are we being fair to a guy calling him outright selfish when we know his own parents use him for money and fame and are ready to but at stake his happiness? Why is everyone calling Robbie selfish when we see him being used by his own people? Kasturi knows the background he comes from, she herself said she feels bad for him being stuck in such hallow relationships(her conversation with Robbie thinking it was Girish) How could she expect Robbie to know how relationship are meant to be like? She knows how volatile, temperamental and grudgeful Robbie can get... and accepted him the way he was... Now she even has a problem with him being a Rockstar? I dont understand what she meant... If Robbie let her down, so has she in many ways which may not be apparent on the face of it.

If Robbie is feeling betrayed by Raunak, I understand him. Raunak has always claimed to have understood his friend the most, has understood him so well that even at a tender age of 7, he could see the distress his 7 year old friend was going through because his dad didnt wish him for his bday... A guy who showed so much of compassion to his friend... stood in silence at that one moment that was the deciding moment of all 3 lives? Esp when his claim was that it wasnt in his self interest? Robbie is holding Raunak responsible for begining of the mess... Raunak is accountable for the decision he took in the family matters of Robbie, Raunak is accountable for having put his name along with his best friend's fiance on an official document.... he is more accountable because his decision to hide the truth is what caused the mess in the 1st place. And the inconsistent behaviour of Raunak after marriage only makes Robbie's contention valid. Raunak always says he can handle Robbie, then why not tell Robbie the truth and make sure he acts sanely? I am not saying Robbie is right having a grudge on Raunak, All I am saying is Robbie isnt wrong to hold that grudge.

At the end of it, I am not defending Robbie's mistakes... they are committed. and he accepts them with all humility... now lets look at a way of fixing it than holding on to that insult hurdled by him at her and her family. Because as I said in some post last week... Kasturi & her family's public humiliation isnt the only issue... it is far more worse and serious. This Marriage is only going to get everyone in murkeir mess, which could have been averted if Raunak & Kasturi had seen beyond the wedding ceremony as the solution to the problem.

Btw I am just curious... what did Kasturi-Raunak expect after marriage from Robbie's side given they have to live in a room next to his?

Originally posted by: sujal_kashish

This week has led us to a new mystery who is the girl in the burka with a strange tattoo? What is she trying to tell Kasturi? Why isn't she directly coming in front of kasturi?

This much hyped girl behind her burqa is certainly not Shivani... If she is she could have come directly in front of her why would she hide herself.... doesn't make sense at all to me.... now if she was obsessed with Raunak then why would Raunak feel guilty about it?? If she wanted to break Ra/Ka marriage then why let this wedding happen... She could have stopped it rather than making an entry just the day after their marriage.... Apart from that why is that girl always seen when Robbie is near to Kasturi?? Another thing is that right now its only the Shivani track right now that is there in the forefront.... And I don't think that the writers will actually let things reveal so soon...

What is the connection between the girl and Ranauk? What could his past be?

Probably Raunak and Shivani would have been married secretly for some reason or the other... for the sake of family or not I don't know and neither do I care... If it was just the obsession on the girl's part than Raunak would not have despised the idea of getting married at all....

Is it really Ranauk's fault that he has hidden the truth because he tried his best to tell kasturi about his past before their marriage?

Not exactly coz he did give he the letter but then why was he so guilt stricken when he had to go and he lied to Kasturi.... wat was that for..... Until and unless the truth is out can't say anything!!!

In your opinion, which type of marriages work better: love marriages or arrange marriages?

Whether love marriage or aranged both needs to be nurtured with care.... Husband and Wife both take several voes and both are equally responsible to make their relationship work.... Most important is the trust and the mutual understanding in the relatioship.... In love marriages too when the practicality of life is blown on the face then a person comes to his or her senses.... To start with it looks good to make small compromises but in the long run when intial love fades away the same compromises becomes obligatory.... Here wat works is the understanding between the couple... Moreover its also a game of destiny!!!

What do you think Robbie should do instead of ruining his, kasturi, and Ranauk's life?

Robbie should actually start respecting his life first.... Degrading urself is certainly not a right way to get back ur love!!! Most importantly he should try to understand that by doing things impulsively he's not only making a scene of himself but also Kasturi.... But at the same time I wud not want him to sit and accept that his love kasturi is now married to his friend Raunak.... Who is happy in that marriage anyways?? Kasturi is completely lost in her past and Raunak though nave started getting feeling for her yet is hiding something from her.... In the very first place whatever has happened was wrong from the beginning.... Why blame again only Robbie for ruining the three lives?? the other two are also at fault for getting themselves and Robbie into this mess and not the for the evil forces!!!

Robbie has started drinking and was willing to ruin his career which took years to build within a few seconds just for his love. Is this obsession really his love and will it do any good for Robbie? Isn't their any limit to it?

Robbie lost his love due to his foolishness and he knows it.... The sad part is he didn't even get time to make up for his mistakes.... he knew only if once he would have confronted her she would have been his and all his dreams wud have become a reality.... He is today obsessed with his love.... He being angry at Raunak is also quite understandable..... It is not the matter of JUST his love but the matter of his everything his LIFE.... ofcourse he should refrain himself from doing anything that will just degrade him more....

Robbie has just lost his love but is forgetting all his other relationships in life as well. In addition, doesn't care about his ambitions, career, interests, etc but just one word is on his lips which is kasturi? Do you think for one relationship a person should forget the world around them and the true meaning of living?

Love is one of the strongest feeling that one can experinece in his/her life time but its not the only feeling.... Forgetting everything else for a single person is also not right!!! In this process he'll hurt many other people who loves him... but we are talking about Robbie... Who was there by his side anyways?? who loves him?? which mother would use hsi son as a pawn and which father will call his own son sone ke ande dene wali murgi?? Kasturi came into his life and brought along with her all those things that he didn't experience before.... She was the one who taught him the true meaning of living his life.... He didn't experiece a pure relationship which was filled with love so he came to believe that such thing didn't exist but Kasturi she proved him wrong.... She filled his world with true happiness... In this case how will he even remember the world around him when he came to a point that she was the only world ever known to him.

Do you think robbie's process of separating kasturi and ranauk will actually bring them a lot more closer?

No Doubt!! the more determined he'll be to get Kasturi back the more determind will Kasturi be to save her wedding... In this process she'll do everything in her limits to safeguard her relationship and will step by step reach move towards Raunak!!! Everytime she'll be hurt by Robbie she'll go to Raunak...

Do you believe this quote is true "love always gives pain and anything is fair in love and war? Would you go by this statement to gain victory?

No... I believe in neither... Love is the most beautiful feeling... Even the rose has thorns with it but then it doesn't take away its beauty.... A rose is still a rose... can we imagine it without those thorns?? no its a package fromt he nature... Love is also like that it does gives pain but at the same time it is the only thing that makes life more meaningful and a reason to live life.... It doesn't always gives pain it also gives one the most chrished moments of one's life....

Everything is fair in love and war.... no i don't believe.... If one person is wrong doesn't mean u'll urself stoop low to win over him/her.... its just which stand are you taking in your life... are u ready to wrong everyone in the process to win or u give back wat u get....

X.o.X.o.---Jasmine---x.O.x.O

Jasmine thanx for the topic and the questions.... That was really nice and I enjoyed answering them....

Sonia

>So Now it's time for this week's discussion Questions! 😆 😆

This week has led us to a new mystery who is the girl in the burka with a strange tattoo? What is she trying to tell Kasturi? Why isn't she directly coming in front of kasturi?

she did try once but kasturi didn't read her letter. i think she's trying to tell kasturi about ranauk's past.

What is the connection between the girl and Ranauk? What could his past be?

it's his girlfriend or ex wife. i think ranauk did something really bad to her in the past.

Is it really Ranauk's fault that he has hidden the truth because he tried his best to tell kasturi about his past before their marriage?

well, he's not trying now. he's trying to hide it from her now. so i think it is somehow his fault.

In your opinion, which type of marriages work better: love marriages or arrange marriages?

all depends on destiny. it has nothing to do with love or arrange in my opinion.

What do you think Robbie should do instead of ruining his, kasturi, and Ranauk's life?

i think he should concentrate on his career.

Robbie has started drinking and was willing to ruin his career which took years to build within a few seconds just for his love. Is this obsession really his love and will it do any good for Robbie? Isn't their any limit to it?

i think it's just his obsession it could might do some good for him. like after seeing him like his kasturi may fall for him again.

Robbie has just lost his love but is forgetting all his other relationships in life as well. In addition, doesn't care about his ambitions, career, interests, etc but just one word is on his lips which is kasturi? Do you think for one relationship a person should forget the world around them and the true meaning of living?

no, i don't think so because other things for example his dream of becoming a singer were his dreams since a child but this relationship has just begun now.

Do you think robbie's process of separating kasturi and ranauk will actually bring them a lot more closer?

maybe. but i think kasturi still love robbie.

Do you believe this quote is true "love always gives pain and anything is fair in love and war? Would you go by this statement to gain victory?

i wouldn't go crazy for anyone. i'm not that kinda person like robbie.

love
harman😛