Raman Bhalla and his ... *Updated with Precap collage on pg 2*

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

"I guess that's just part of loving people: You have to give things up.
Sometimes you even have to give them up."
Lauren Oliver

I'll update with some JKR style lecture for RKB😉😆

~Edited

I have mixed feelings about the episode. On one hand my heart wanted to reach out and give Raman a bear hug for his selfless love for Ishita, for feeling she deserves better...for sitting in the parking lot avoiding coming face to face with her or crying alone in the family room engulfed in darkness fighting against his own anguish...a desolate man who's ready to give up the love of his life, trying to 'save' her from all the trouble that has landed in her life because of his previous marriage and also Param. It was gut-wrenching to watch him in those scenes and his scene with Pathak. Or when he finds the two chunks of his heart sleeping peacefully on their bed...probably his last time seeing them sleeping together. Heart-breaking.

But the wife in me wants to smack him on his head and yell "have you lost it?"

What makes him think, his departure would ensure that Ishita's life becomes like it was before. And what was that life? A young woman who had resigned to her ill-fate of a life alone as she cannot bear children. She had given up on love. Raman heralded that love back in her life and then some. That feeling of being cherished by someone. The feeling of having someone by your side who may pull your leg in the privacy of their bedroom but will stand up for you and give you unconditional support if anyone dares to point a finger at you. He knows she's deeply in love with him and that she knows her love is reciprocated by him. Will the divorce from him not break her spirit again? So the divorce will protect her from those people who really don't matter to her...but wouldn't it kill her to lead a life without her Ravan Kumar?

And what about his family...his daughter who only the other day, tied their hands together so that they stay together, as a unit?

So RKB, in your self-sacrificing mode in order to protect Ishita you're taking away from Ishita and Ruhi their source of sustenance: YOU.

Life throws in problems, running away from those problems never takes the problem away...it's better to face them, standing together ..by each other.

Done with sermon from Pastor Gan (thanks Doc for inspiring me) 😳😆

Note:

Have several complaints about the editing today. So when is Raman leaving?...Ishita plans to wait up at night to surprise Raman as he is leaving the next day...gets up in the morning to find Raman has left for office...then at the office instructing Pathak to get the divorce paper ready and bring it home next morning...So I was really confused. 😕..the execution was missing something

Otherwise it was beautiful..an episode of opposing shades of love...

PreCap Collage😳

Edited by GanBarunFan - 10 years ago

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Payal

@-Payal-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Oh Gan...Love those shots. That moment was so poignant...though, there were quite a few today that were.

Love your words today...I have nothing to add. My Heartbroken Duffer needs to realize that he's not taking the problems with him, but rather leaving her to deal with them alone. He's so misguided.

Pure randomness from me today cause everything that can be said about My Heartbroken Duffer's plight has already been said.

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Raman

"I'm backing down now. I really do love you. That's why I'm doing this." - Richelle Mead

"Maybe this was what love meant after all: sacrifice and selflessness. It did not mean hearts and flowers and a happy ending, but the knowledge that another's well-being is more important than one's own." - Melissa de la Cruz

Tujhko shayad nahi hai khabar
Tujhko jeete hai hum kis kadar
Tu haathon mein toh hai mere
Hai kyoun nahi lakeeron mein

He waited in the parking lot so he wouldn't have to face her. He's clearly drowning in two opposing forms of guilt. The first, the guilt that's making him leave her, and the other, the guilt that he faces for leaving her.

The moment when he looked in on his two angels sleeping peacefully, he couldn't help but smile drinking in the sight of his entire world, trying to etch that image of them into every crevice of his mind. The next moment when he realized that may be the last time he'd gaze upon them, and the emotion overwhelmed him and he had to turn away before he lost his resolve. It was physically painful to watch him close the door on his life with them.

It's heartbreaking to see him put himself through this agony. It's high time the missus knock some sense into him.

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Ishita

"You're in my every breath and every thought, intertwined so deep inside me that love's not a strong enough word -- you have my devotion, your name branded on my soul...A hundred years? It'll never be enough. I want eternity." - Nalini Singh

Bolo ya na ab yeh bolo
Bole dil ke main teri ho loon

Bas mein na mere mera haal hai

Teri mai hu, Mera jaha sara

Sara jaha tu hai
Tu hai jaha mai hu,
Mai hu jaha tu hai

This woman's love for her husband is such a beautiful sight to behold. The love that she has for him is so overwhelming that she's no longer able to keep it inside. She's desperate for a moment with him, to just tell him, unable to let him go without knowing that no matter where he is, no matter how far, her love will go with him.

Her confidence in his love for her is so endearing; it's this confidence which is giving her the courage to lay her heart out on the line again, knowing that her love will finally be reciprocated - that they'll both finally get their share of the love they both deserve. Hence she has to tell him...because they've both been waiting for this love for a lifetime, and she couldn't waste another moment to begin their new life of together - one filled with the happiness and love they've both been deprived of for so long...one that would finally wash away the last of the cobwebs of their past.

My heart breaks at the thought of her receiving those divorce papers...it's going to shatter her completely in that initial moment until the inner JKR Madrasan Sherni in her comes out. Thank God for that inner Sherni that will show RKB what a certified duffer he is.

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Love,

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Eyes-Wide-Shut

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Posted: 10 years ago

Missus and her shayari inspired me to write a few lines on her bebasi 😳, puttar as always leaves me with excessive feels that I must ignore so I can finish the OS in a happy mood.

Will update once I finish the OS and return with a cup of joe.

Ek khat likh rahi hoon, fursat se choo lena ise

Aakhen band karke padhna shayad meri rooh dikhjaye

Kaano ko band karke sunna shayad mari dhadkan mehsus hojaye

Isme kuch bhule bisre geet hain, aur kuch ane wali nazme

Kuch silwaten hain isme aur kai sidhe panne

Jaana bas ek bar iss khat ko zara gale se lagana

Aur iss khat ko apni manzil tak pohchana

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Edit: G first things first, thanks for taking over the pastor role, I liked your sermon and want puttar to attend your weekly Sunday sermons 😆

Oh that collage and tears in his eyes, I just can't see him hurting like this 🥺, it's just heartbreaking. He is being stupid but it's out of love so I can't be mad at him because missus will take care of his stupidity by breaking a few bones 😃

Today the missus stole the show! G the way DT emoted through her eyes and that simple sari with her hair tied up, she reminded me of Vidya Balan from the movie Parineeta. Ishita was so endearing today, her insistence at spending time with her husband, trying to steal any and every moment just to have a word with him. The softness in her voice, the eagerness in her mind and the love oozing from her eyes was so heart touching, how I wish Raman saw her state while she was talking to him on the phone, I bet his resolve would break and thoughts of divorce would be history. In my eyes, today was all about love, one wanted to run towards her lover, the other running away from his, all in the name of love!

The quote is nothing profound but describes this stupid couple in love 😃

'"The batshit kind of love that makes no sense at all... and at the same time... all the sense in the world... That is us... You and me; a "WE." - Steve Maraboli

Edited by Eyes-Wide-Shut - 10 years ago

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NaV

@SIKinLoVE

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Posted: 10 years ago

i'm just glad he doesn't have to 'give her up'.. tear tear

its crazy how their minds are on different ends of the spectrum..she's flying high in love and he's crying high (?), well crying plenty in love...

im EAGERLY waiting for his guilt to be gone... so the romance can commence...

lovely pic... depicts the tears he shed today, along with the love he feels in his heart for her..

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Anu

@RomComFan

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Posted: 10 years ago

Res... Beautiful quote and collage Gan- even the B&W shot of BS works with this!😃

Feeling so sentimental. No need to mention the spot on performances by KP, DT & SR at this point because it's just repetitive but what a terrifically conceived episode. So well written, so well shot, so many contrasts- this is the kind of episode that pulls you back in when you start feeling a little down.

Again, back to our original , beloved , unmatchable YHM. Where were you hibernating all these previous weeks CVs? 😳

Waiting for your lecture Gan while I grab a coffee consider the many different ways I loved the scenes in this episode...

I shall return shortly once my brain gets out of mode so I can put my thoughts into somewhat cohesive sentences!😉 I already know this will be a somewhat long post from me, I'm going to try to be more concise and make it shorter this time, but no promises- I apologize in advance!

---EDIT---

First off love your post Gan... and that second collage- the shot with the fist...*puddle*. Seriously I'm just going to lie here like this until the week is over... that way people don't have to cart me off repeatedly.

We'll get out out this by latest Friday right? No more heartbroken Raman? They can't drag it out longer right?😕 Because I don't know how much longer I can hang on without actually trying to put my arms through my screen to give him a hug!😔

As I said I love the contrasting scenarios, the biggest of which has been expressed beautifully by so many of you all, that of Raman and Ishu in love.

Other amazing contrasts that has me in this current state of

- the contrast between Ishu & Toshi as they cared for their hurting (in different degrees of course) children. That beautiful motherly instinct that knows when to comfort and when their child is hurt portrayed so well by both. Special mention to the Ramn & Toshi scene for making me flash back to the scene after Ishu apologized to Adhi and Raman sat crying after overhearing Ru and was comforted by Toshi. At that time he made a decision to make things right, this time...how times have changed but still remain the same!😭

-- the contrasts in the actions encouraged by Toshi and Raman in order to ensure that their entire family was happy; she encouraging Ishu to surprise Raman in Singapore and he hoping that Ishu & Ruhi would find their happiness without him- both for the happiness of those they loved.

- the contrast between Ishu lying waiting for Raman in the dark with candles giving light & Raman waiting in a much brighter space with darkness clouding his thoughts

- the contrast in the mood and content between Raman and Ishu's conversations with Prathak and Mani about their love for eachother . Their love is very fragile for them both and I loved how the rush of great emotion that accompanies that love was presented by ISHRA- the concept that the overwhelming strength of it can be positive and negative depending on your own mental space and ability to deal with the past.

-'I Love You'... we've been wanting to hear it for so long and today we got it repeated so many times and each with differing emotional value. Raman's desperation and his repetition of the phrase as almost a desperate prayer to justify his own actions compared to Ishu's giddiness and her repetition of same as a joyful secret- Well done CVs, KP, DT!👏👏👏

Special mention

How intriguing it is to see Ishu, once the outsider in the Bhalla household be seen as part of the unit by all, including Raman, who, though the center of the Bhalla universe (outside of princess Ru of course) deliberately pulling himself out of that space.

And the precap...🥺 I can' t right now!

Edited by RomComFan - 10 years ago

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arshi21

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Posted: 10 years ago

While watching the show I was all like "yaar Raman yaar...please yaar..c'mon man!" I felt bad for him and also I was quite mad at him. Silly boy!

I loved pathak-raman scene. Lovely! And the way Raman looked at his world sleeping in his room peacefully and that wonderful smile that lit up his face which faded into a sad one was so beautifully done! He is a brilliant actor!

Koi sacchi karan ke Rone pe ban laga do!

Ishita's impatience was so palpable, and I was feeling so bad! But good days are near and JKR will definitely get her Ravan Kumar back! :D

I loveee your collage! :")

Hope his jkr knocks some sense into him soon and gets him back!

PS: did you see the precap? Holy mother of god. It was sooo beautiful and amazing and yet sooo sad. The way she slowly lets him move that lock of hair away and the way he first gives in to his desire to touch her and then when he is about to wipe her tears away he realizes he cannot do that?

*claps*

Beautifully done by both of them!

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: SIKinLoVE
i'm just glad he doesn't have to 'give her up'.. tear tear

its crazy how their minds are on different ends of the spectrum..she's flying high in love and he's crying high (?), well crying plenty in love...

im EAGERLY waiting for his guilt to be gone... so the romance can commence...

lovely pic... depicts the tears he shed today, along with the love he feels in his heart for her..

You're MrsSir Right? 😆 If it's possible please let us know how would you like to be addressed 😊

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WhyAmIHereAgain

@WhyAmIHereAgain

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

i have so many things to say... but i will wait for ur lecture first...

i feel like writing after a long time...so i will come back...

@arshi21... ur being mad at raman n yet feel sad for him...is exctly the feeling i was having...n still am having...

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tannvi

@Badtameez_Dil

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Posted: 10 years ago

the sbb song they played is perfectly suiting in the episode for Raman

' hum pagal nahi hai bhaiya ..humhare dimaag kharab hai"

that divorce papers se hit hona chahiye...i liked when raman express his feelings...but i would more Love if these crying all the talks ...that happen b/w raman-ishita...

i would love to see raman express all his fears...his burden his sadness with ishita...how shagun has left him completely broken...

im looking when raman keeps her head on ishu's lap...she is putting her hand in his hair...

talk his heart out...

nt this crying n sofa or chair lonely lonely..talking like a fool despite knowing she Loves him..it would hard hitting for her...

that gal is so desperately wanted to tell him...

Precap---

woahhh its so so Beautiful so aww worthyyy ..ekkk..

that so amazinggg

that heyy world can wait but i cannot...she ws like that everyone can wait...my feelings needs be at moments get to u...

He ws like tucking her hair bk awww...like i know what u want to say...than doesnt wipe her tears...was i but i cant bear to hear..wipe those tears like giving when i giving those tears...

Ps-- u think confession will happen or nt ...

Im tanvi :)

Edited by Badtameez_Dil - 10 years ago

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Payal

@-Payal-

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut
Missus and her shayari inspired me to write a few lines on her bebasi 😳, puttar as always leaves me with excessive feels that I must ignore so I can finish the OS in a happy mood.
Will update once I finish the OS and return with a cup of joe.

Ek khat likh rahi hoon, fursat se choo lena ise

Aakhen band karke padhna shayad meri rooh dikhjaye

Kaano ko band karke sunna shayad mari dhadkan mehsus hojaye

Isme kuch bhule bisre geet hain, aur kuch ane wali nazme

Kuch silwaten hain isme aur kai sidhe panne

Jaana bas ek bar iss khat ko zara gale se lagana

Aur iss khat ko apni manzil tak pohchana