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Monica

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Posted: 11 years ago

Discussion Thread for today's episode TAHRians..
Go Ahead !! & Carry on ur discussions😃

Credit for Siggie : Shanti Di 😊

Edited by moniluvskinshuk - 11 years ago

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kmfan_2

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Posted: 11 years ago

Moni...thanks for opening the thread...

I will share my views after a few hours once I watch the episode properly.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKx9Z8qGzSc

Edited by kmfan_2 - 11 years ago

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kmfan_2

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Posted: 11 years ago

I watched the episode again and I need to honestly ask one important question --

Can love be selfish or selfless? Here I am talking about Abhi's mother who first forced him to take such a drastic step as he was left with no other choice and she claims to say that she loves him so much.

Reflecting back on her deeds and because she felt he may have gone forever in the accident she decides to take back her words...and why can't she apologise...Maa hoon isliye? is what she said . But Why not?

And then she again announces to Ria's parents that Ria cannot be sent away anywhere because she was going to be a bahu of their family. She wants to have it her way all the time. Everyone needs to please her and her fixated views.

Just as she had a change of mind, can Ria now too decide to change her mind and say that she would think about this whole relationship, as in accept Abhi but not his mother who accepts or rejects to suit her convenience?

A mother's compassionate heart cannot be like this is what I feel. Unless there is a BIG reason for her being this way.

The manner in which she confesses that she accepted the rishta only to keep Abhi at home was shocking to me. The poor girl who enters this house will have a tough time if these are the grounds in which she enters into matrimony.

I can make many posts on today's episodes but since we don't have too many people commenting I am writing all here...

Abhimanyu, Sarthak, Dadi and Abhi's DAd were all reasonable and wonderful but when the house is ruled by Rukmini it seems as all were trying to persuade her rather than take charge.

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Taahir

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Posted: 11 years ago

Abhi tells his mom from this day he'll won't ever meet Ria again but
he'll never marry anybody else , still all his mother can do is turn her face
away in attitude .
when Abhi walked pass the family and out the hospital doors , Sheetal
came forward saying for the love of his mother he is sacrificing his love
actually I was glad that Sheetal stood up and Sarthak was shocked at this and decides to go after Abhi while Abhi is in great turmoil
memories of the incidents playing in his head giving him immense pain
When Daadisa , Kailash and Sarthak comes into the room to talk to Rukmini she says both Jaitin and Abhi are suborn but Daadisa says they have already lost one son they don't wish to lose Abhimanyu but Rukmini
is stubborn when Sarthak talks about the accident she starts getting alert , thinking the accident could easily take her son away , thats when
Kailash reminds her of Abhi's childhood days , and I have to admit
Rukmini has tears of love and happiness remembering those days
but what surprised me was Raman he felt Kailash is troubling Rukmini and giving her stress , at that moment I just felt he is not
happy with Abhi maybe some kind of jealousy I'll have to see more
of him to really know his intentions towards Abhi .
When Rukmini decides to approach Abhi he remembers he should
not show his face and the pain in his eyes were just terrible
this I jut cannot understand why does a mother say these words to
her child .
Rukmini tell Abhi she is a mother and cannot apologize but she realize her fault , how on earth can a mother not apologize .
When Kailah declares that Abhi and Ria will get engage everyone
is truly happy and I was so alert seeing both Rukmini and Raman
been unhappy with this annoucement
only to find out that Rukmini only agreed to she don't lose Abhi
and like I said few weeks ago she'll blame Ria for Abhi's lies

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Monica

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Posted: 11 years ago

Thanks for ur all Wonderful Views Shanti Di & Taahir .

Well I totally agree with what u all said that Why a mother can't apologize if she feels she is wrong ? Shanti Di It was not shocking for me when Rukmani said that She is accepting RiYu's alliance just for Abhi . And I guess it was expected as She realized and saw that She might loose her one more son whom she love the most . And So For his Son she agreed for it . We all predicted that she will not accept this alliance from full heart . With passage of time only she will understand Ria & RiYu's true love for each other . But she is forgetting one thing that When Abhi will see it that her mother accepted this allinace half heartedly how much bad he will feel !!

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kmfan_2

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Posted: 11 years ago

Moni...I am not shocked at Rukmini...at all but the mother in her who is overlooking the happiness of her son for her unchangeable views...😃

Abhi will change after he gets to know and I WANT him to!!!!!😆

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Monica

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: kmfan_2
Moni...I am not shocked at Rukmini...at all but the mother in her who is overlooking the happiness of her son for her unchangeable views...😃
Abhi will change after he gets to know and I WANT him to!!!!!😆

I know Di . Hahaaa I don't know wht will be the reason of Abhi to change . But Even I am waiting for that 😆 . I am all ready with my popcorns to see Fights , misunderstandings and lotzz of drama , tensions between RiYu 😆😉

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Ms.SK

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Posted: 11 years ago

thanks moni and shanti. somebody needs to bang rukhmani's head.

cannot understand her attitude. unless there a dark secret which has mad her like this??!! only time will tell.

hope we do get to know why she behaving like this. CV's if they use their brains, can come up with an interesting track in revealing rukhmani's background.

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Ms.SK

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Posted: 11 years ago

another thing. dadi is rukhmani's saas?? if yes, then how come bahu is more over powering than dadi??!!

the way rukhmani ruling the house despite dadi being there, could it be she is afraid that ria will take over her role in the house 😆 then it will leave rukhmani in same position as dadi 🤣

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Monica

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Hahaaa Shobhi may be 🤣

But On Serious note , I guess Daadi is different from Rukmani , I mean much more calmer , much more understanding than Rukmani who knows to understand different pov's . I wrote somewhere that Kailash & Daadi had given all responsibilities and decision making responsibility to Rukmani And So they let her decide as she has been following traditional customs of Maheshwari family from long time . They have faith on her that she will not take any wrong decision . But I think As we will see more episodes , I am seeing Kailash & Daadi taking decisions of the family as they will observe wrong decisions of Rukmani . Like They spoke to her yest and explained the situation to her .

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