Fed up with Girlfriends Mood Swings..

7months back when this relationship started everything was going very well, she was mad for me and we were happy... She is only child so parents are too much possessive so there is too much restrictions from her family so we hardly meet... I understand that and never forced her to meet...

But slowly slowly i am thinking she is taking me granted.I keep waiting but not single message comes when i ask why u not replying, she gives very stupid reasons, which are hard to believe, like how can one not able text one message once in a day and on regular basis... i am busy whole day still i take out some time to text her but she replies very late or never replies...

sometimes all of a sudden she suddenly stops talking without giving any reason and will not talk for days, and sometimes she is so close that i wonder that is it same person... when we meet she talks so well, so affectionate and lovely, but same person suddenly changes as she is at home.. sometimes i feel is this the same girl or there are two persons one i meet personally and other whom i talk on phone..

As i already said its difficult for us to meet us, but hieght of the thing was when i planned for her birthday last month, but just a night before her b'day she told me that she is going to meet her friends tomorrow and cant meet me, i have literally thrown her birthday cake which i ordered... from that day i am thinking seriously whether should i carry on or not, ...

I talked with her and told all my problems, but when she meets she shows me that she understands me, but as soon as she gets back to her home, there is no guarantee she will remain same... SHE WANTS ME TO UNDERSTAND HER BUT DONT KNOW WHETHER SHE TRIES TO UNDERSTAND ME OR NOT

2-3 days goes well and again she dont feel like talking, then after some days she becomes normal... i am fed up of this and not able to predict her behaviour or whats going in her mind and what should be my stand... this spoils my mood and precious time
When we meet its really very lovely,i really like her and want to carry on, but not able to deal with this..., what do u says guys whether i should carry on or not, or if carry on how to tackle her sudden mood swings..

Plz friends, tell me how should I deal with it..

Breakup with her...she's just playing with u..

Any other(especially females) also feels the same ?

Communicate with her.. tell her how you feel about the discrepancy between when she is with you in person and when she is home and demand an answer/explanation, and valid ones at that. Tell her that her constant pushing you away and pulling you back in on her whim makes you feel uncertain about the relationship ... tell her that you want to see her try and hold on to the relationship with a certain level of consistency if she really does like you and is serious about it.

Originally posted by: -Suhana-

Breakup with her...she's just playing with u..

Originally posted by: D3viL

hey mate this is a problem I experienced as well!! and incidentally the girl hotm3ss is the one who was the hot/cold hot/cold girl.. so its funny as hell reading her response.

talking to her via texts she appears extraordinarily cold! and even here on IF she isn't the person I absolutely .. undoubtably love and adore; she is really cold! and don't get me started about her sisters and when she is around!!!! so early on when I realised she was a chameleon changing here and there.. I PUT MY FOOT DOWN, and snubbed her back.. you need to do that too.. so they know. Talking to them won't work, because they will tell you there is nothing they can do.. or you don't know whats its like ...or I will get into trouble and all that. If she is dismissive to you on the phone then when you meet up with her you be dismissive to her there... and then like hotm3ss said .. tell her you need a break... after all it worked on her!!!!

Originally posted by: hotm3ss

I'm gonna order this dessert for you when we eat out. Affogato - An affogato (Italian, "drowned") is a coffee-based beverage. It usually takes the form of a cold frozen scoop of vanilla gelato or ice cream topped with a shot of hot espresso.

And I know you'll love it too 😳

Originally posted by: D3viL

the frozen scoop of ice-cream in front of your family for dessert and that shot of hot expresso behind closed doors... can I just come over after dessert? : P