The Daily (Indebtedness)Beat-Nov 13th

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Posted: 10 years ago
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"IF I BEGIN TO THANK YOU IT WILL TAKE ALL NIGHT"

This complete utter HONESTY is what makes Raman Bhalla the most unique character on TV. We may hate him a lot but there is no guy quite as honest as he is.
Ishita's logic was bitter and unacceptable to me but it is the truth.
Some things are true when it comes to family.

They had something akin to the famous bench scene today, it was a couch scene... quite, mature and emotional.
These two have the best emotional conversations.
Every time something like this happens, it reinforces to Raman the fact that she is SO DIFFERENT from him.
They are truly different people, like chalk and cheese.
Raman is driven by his heart and she by her mind

It didnt take him too long to fall in love with her
It took her forever to realize she MORE THAN cares for him.

His feelings are as outspoken as his words are. There is no holding back. She is extremely guarded. She is over protective of the ones she loves too.
I can tell she loves Mihir a lot. Mihir loves her more than he loves Shagun. Ishita is not doing all this to be more relevant to Mihir.
She is doing it all becauuse she cares for him. She loved him even before she fell for her husband...


With Raman she is extremely vulnerable. She doesnt care to show it on most occasions but she is... unknowingly she has let her guard down in front of Raman
Raman's open admiration for her nature was very impressively written... I liked the way he said "I could thank you all night"

He is not the IDEAL husband... but he is a husband most woman would IDOLIZE. He is a rare combination of a lot of flaws and immense generosity.
To able able to accept one's mistakes or give credit for the other person's actions, is generosity

Raman is AS REAL AS IT GETS


On days like today Ishita comes close also.

Adi doesnt need any GPSs to guide him on the path to self destruction. His Mom took him there half way already.

Param and Sooraj and Ashok seem to be doing the rest of the honors. As a parent its terrifying for me to see the hair line difference separating good influences from bad in life.
Unfortunately for Adi, that difference has dissolved.

Its going to be a long painful journey for him and will leave lasting emotional scars.
Since its a show they might not address all that.

Adi is on the verge to becoming a psycopath, and for Raman thats extremely unfortunate.

How Param , Sooraj and Ashok plot to humiliate Ishita?
Shameful!!

I am all for standing up against crime etc. But such lines only sound good on Internet Forums.
Not in real life. In real life, if you value your safety, you need to mind your own business.
Ishita should realize some battles are just not worth fighting for.

Raman letting her go is quite extreme also, and unrealistic
Thats the American definition of marriage. If the going gets tough, just QUIT
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sorry Nisha, I really didnt like todays episodes on many levels.

U pointed out a very strong opinion that Fighting against crimes sounds good on Internet forums n in real life people look out for their safety first etc. Its ur opinion n I completely respect that but m sorry I disagree, Social media has helped many people get justice too eg- Nirbhaya case, jessica lal case etc. I am of the opinion that one must fight against crimes otherwise criminals will get an excuse n also confidence that there is nobody is there to challenge them in court of law hence they can get away with everything.

Maybe I am wrong in having this perspective but I will still stick to it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Raman Bhalla is as real as it gets.. and Nisha dear your review is as real as it gets... absolutely, whole heartedly agree with everything you have said. I have also read between the lines and got the subtle message that you have so nicely camouflaged with your episode review.

Ishita's thinking today was realistic. When we live in a family, we have to think about the greater impact of even the minutest incidents. Ishita was right in her place today. Truth is bitter...

Raman ... as real as real can get..

Rest I don't care... I just hope they show some kind of punishment meted out to the wolves... I don't care who gives it.. Raman, Mani, Mihir, Toshiji, Bhalla clan or Iyer clan... Even little angel Ruhi will do... but please ..the CVs need to show that the "Wolves" cannot get away all the time.

About Adi... a poison tree planted in his young mind by his own mother is now near fruition... Not even the mother who planted it, can now prevent it from destruction.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great post as always Nisha...

Especially the words you use to express your love for Raman are awesome!!!! 😳

I really feel bad for Adi.. mislead by people... no one to really care..
Age , that requires utmost nurture.. is paving way for his adversity..

Vandu-Bala scene was good and real.. Mihika concern for mihir looked fake..

Param Ashok and Suraj need severe thrashing ..

Hope angry young raman would be back to rough them up...



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well written post Nisha. Thats American definition. They quit so easily. Its interesting how Ishita will face this decision of Raman.
The 3 idiots are so disgusting. In real life this happens.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very nicely written.

For all people who are bashing Adi, it is close to reality where kids are misguided and their young minds are poisoned. I have seen this in my life where my friend had a divorce and they used their 8 year old son to bitterly fight with each other. It was heartbreaking to see the parents USING their own child to settle scores with each other. So when I see Adi, I relate to that incident , first Shagun poisoned his mind against Raman and now there are others who are adding fuel to the fire to settle their personal scores😕 . Obviously a insecure child can be most easily manipulated ...that's the fact !!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The first 5 mins of the show was the highlight. Nothing else was of much relevance. The conversation was so heart touching. Simple lines yet deep.
And thereby I repeat, Ishra is magic. Pure magic. 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think this is by far the best post I have seen around here! You spoke mt heart out! That line that Raman said just left me like
Its so true! Raman no way is a perfect husband! He has so many flaws that makes his character SO real yet so loveable!
I just love the way you described everything in your post! Its so perfect!❤️
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I love your post and analysis... so well written and agree with regarding Adi, children don't chose their parents but parents have a lot of choices when instilling values, good and bad.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Geethika waiting for your Ishra scene OS..please post it here first..

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