The Daily (Indebtedness)Beat-Nov 13th - Page 3

Originally posted by: rose35

Agree. The promo just showed Raman's action after what happened at the Bcahelor's party. We have to watch the episodes for Ishita's reaction. I have a feeling Ishita will confess first. Do you all remember the "vachan" thing? I hope the CVs remember too. And the "deal seal"... Ishita will definitely say "Deal seal ki thi. Aur ab aap peeche hat rahe ho. NOt fair. Muhe vachan do aap mera sath kabhi nahin chodenge"... Ishita might end up saying something similar once she realises Raman's intentions.

Nisha: I m great fan of you along with few others on the forum. We think alike n big fan of Raman/Karan so I more so enjoy your post. Husbands like his nature bring spice to the married life. I do not like chocolate heroes but like rough n tough like him. It's great pride for wife to mold them. Thanks for writing n u r so quick in your post. I wish I could write as good as u all do.

I m just worried that Ishita will make him remarry Shagun for sake of Adi n Raman will not be able to go against her wish. For me that will be the end of YHM. I watch this serial just of DivAn.

I cannot agree more on your comments in yesterday's post 'for u only' about traffic police. I had smile on my face as I am awe of traffic police. God forbid, if a cop's car is behind me how much courageous I pretend I m shivering as if he is going to pull me over n give a tkt.

Please keep writing as somebody is waiting to read u. Have great day!

Hey Meghz

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Hey Meghz

Totally understand your POV. Welcome it and appreciate it

Unfortunately Nirbhaya has not brought lasting change

Neither has Kejriwal

Every year when I go to Delhi and walk out of a Metro Station at 10 PM on cold foggy nights dont feel magically stronger because of Nirbhaya or Modi or Kejriwal

Nope

Neither do the autowallahs or cops or the spoilt brats belonging to the wealthy elite families shiver in their pants because of rabble rousing happening on the Internet

Girls working in call centers in Gurgaon continue to be molested

Law enforcement inactio. Still continues to be reprehensible

Originally posted by: mnr123

Sorry Nisha, I really didnt like todays episodes on many levels.

U pointed out a very strong opinion that Fighting against crimes sounds good on Internet forums n in real life people look out for their safety first etc. Its ur opinion n I completely respect that but m sorry I disagree, Social media has helped many people get justice too eg- Nirbhaya case, jessica lal case etc. I am of the opinion that one must fight against crimes otherwise criminals will get an excuse n also confidence that there is nobody is there to challenge them in court of law hence they can get away with everything.

Maybe I am wrong in having this perspective but I will still stick to it.

Originally posted by: mnr123

Yes but ignoring is a way to stop, I don't think so. N also People r such cowards can't beat up when they clearly see Autorickshaw wallas or Men on streets Molesting girls or passing off lewd comments etc?

I don't think such things should really be taken Lightly n also attitude of policemen towards this is sometimes appalling but that should not stop people from doing what is necessary to teach such goons a lesson. Not all policemen are like that, some of them r truly brave and upright.

Somewhere I think after Nirbhaya case a lot of women are coming upfront and registering such incidents, there r lot of things happening - media exposure etc, such incidents will not stop completely but surely reporting such incidents will instill some fear in a criminal's mind especially if they come from weaker sections of society.

But if u challenge in Court u can bring down Rich and famous people too- Jessica Lal case. (obviously she too was a celebrity on social circuit is a different issue, but the politician in that case used up every resources possible.)

Obviously in both the cases above, Nirbhaya will not b back nor Jessica n somewhere complete justice is not served too , but their cases gives hopes to many thousands of victims and their family members who have gone through similar trauma.

These days even parents r helping in registering cases etc - earlier the family wud disown their own daughters and target the victim(girl) but now at least Parents and people in the society are showing some sympathy towards women.

Law is changing, it will take a while may be a 100 years but still its worth a fight.

Originally posted by: Veritas

I agree, and Ishita is not just any woman.she is a strong independent woman,married to a ceo.

comes from a financially sound background.

if she cannot fight for herself no one can, they need to send out a strong message when women safety is such an issue in India.

like Prime minister Modi mentioned in his independence day speech, why are rules only for girls in this country ,parents should hold boys accountable for their behavior as well.

And look at the people who harassed her so called sharif high society, well educated business men.the leaders of society.

I mean they must know she is Raman's wife.not even one person from the crowd came forward to help her.

I don't think Raman, Mani ,Mihir and bala would stand by and see something like this happen.

she should file a case and fight because this time even her family is with her.

Originally posted by: banglangmang

Nisha: I m great fan of you along with few others on the forum. We think alike n big fan of Raman/Karan so I more so enjoy your post. Husbands like his nature bring spice to the married life. I do not like chocolate heroes but like rough n tough like him. It's great pride for wife to mold them. Thanks for writing n u r so quick in your post. I wish I could write as good as u all do.

I m just worried that Ishita will make him remarry Shagun for sake of Adi n Raman will not be able to go against her wish. For me that will be the end of YHM. I watch this serial just of DivAn.

I cannot agree more on your comments in yesterday's post 'for u only' about traffic police. I had smile on my face as I am awe of traffic police. God forbid, if a cop's car is behind me how much courageous I pretend I m shivering as if he is going to pull me over n give a tkt.

Please keep writing as somebody is waiting to read u. Have great day!

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

EXACTLY

This is what ails the system. Try being a nobody and attempt to report a crime... of a missing female child... "bhaag gayi hogi apne lover ke saath" will be the first response

MOST crimes in Delhi are committed by the most politically economically and legally influential

The PM can say ANYTHING at a rally, nobody is going to hold him accountable. We havent held any PM accountable in 60 years...

I speak strictly for Delhi

Nisha - I agree with what you had siad and that is we have to watch out and be responsible for our own safety. No matter where we live whether it is in India or in any other country there will always be crazies roaming around looking for their prey. No matter how strong you are physically and mentally it does leave an emotional scar when you undergo the trauma in the hands of those vultures. I loved the fact that they are showing the emotional toll that has taken on Ishita after she was harassed so badly by a group of men. The last time when Param tried to molest her they did not explore the possibility of her being affected emotionally. In the show, the thing that I like to see is that eventhough it is not Ishita's fault that she was stuck at a wrong place she should stand up for herself and report those morons to the police and make sure justice is served for all the other girls who have been the victims of perverts like Param.