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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I always loved debates on love and lust.😆


According to me when love comes first then lust is not seen or felt as lust but when lust comes before love then it sounds like there is no love.

When you love someone for the person s/he is and also the body, it looks like you love the person from every aspect. You like each and evrything of the person. Plus in love it's normal to get physically attracted because you want to touch and feel your lover.

But when you lust over someone, usually it's only to get physical with the person. You want to get the person because of the body and s*x. Plus I find it's your mind which asks you to get closer physically not your heart whereas love comes from heart.

I guess that's why all the casanovas go from one woman to another but once they fall in love they stay with one and stops their tharkipana. It's the same with girls too.


Agree!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@apardh_ba: Yeah agree. When you deeply love someone lust comes automatically. When you like someone physically, you don't fall in love.



@poo_j : Thanks. 😃
Edited by MuguetDScorpion - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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n KY2 right now love track is going on so these questions came in my mind..
what is definition of pure love?
Is getting physically attracted towards the person u 'love' not pure love just lust??

what do u guys think??

two weeks i have started Ky2. what i have noticed while watching this serial i jot down that nowadays in each n every serial. there is no As such Pure love seen. what u get to see is mechanical dori-rain-hay scenes with mix of romantic songs just to grab trps. What makes KY2 different. they r giving the viewers right content with No lust n obscenity.
now coming back to Pure Love, owe doesn't have to have lust, though for romantic love to keep the spark I think it is a good thing to have. :) i mean it works like a glue to stick two partners.
here in the serial they are showing Us the Buildup in the strong relation, which MANAN will hold as Trust is there relationship key. both are loyal n honest with each other :) now with trust n loyalty, they will absolutely take further level to there relationship like passion,commitment,respect,sharing and care for each other..so in MaNan case lust will be like a glue which will make there life more beautiful but with subtle, and purity ..they came a very long way..
if there relation was just based on LUST. manik got so many chances like store room,in his house so many times. but he dnt do. he waited for his strong feelings to approach nandini and how she feels about him.. they r not conceited or they have mutual understanding and bonding..
hopefully to see more in there relationship as twists n turns come :)



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Posted: 10 years ago
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If you are in love with someone, you will be physically attracted to them, there are no two ways about it.
For example, I grew up with a lot of guy friends and people(family) kept asking me why I wouldn't consider marrying them😆, the simple truth is while I loved them, I loved them in a very platonic way and it was impossible to have feelings that were beyond platonic for them, whereas when I met my husband, I knew beyond a doubt that this was it, because I was mentally and physically attracted to him.

Love comes from compatibility, mentally and physically, over hours of companionship, of hours over conversations and of building that trust, that needs for any relationship to work. Love just does not happen contrary to popular belief, love like any relationship needs to be worked on. The only unconditional love in anyone's life would be that of a parent and child, everything else involves a lot of work from both sides.

Just my opinion.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Love always starts with attraction..whatever basic level it is at..

I will talk from MaNan's POV here..

It all started with Hatred(for obvious reasons).. The first emotion Nandini triggered in Manik was anger! Hatred kept Nandu in Manik's mind all the time to the extent of obsession! & his obsession didn't let Nandu take Manik out of her mind either!
And then crept in an emotional connect & understanding from Manik's side..after Rishab's incident in her house.. He starts to harbor positive feelings for her since then..
There even came trust..for the sole reason that Manik knew Nandini had a pure soul & a clear mind.. That's why he trusts her with Dhruv's files..
but again a misunderstanding triggered anger/momentary hatred for Nandu..
Nandu forced him to re-think.. He did not realize he was walking in her path(even jealousy makes way seeing/imagining DhruNi together).
He tries to fight his own attraction for her which continues for a while.. This subconscious urge to be the important person in her life..he did everything to get her attention.. he even felt protective towards her..he didn't realize she had become as important to him as Fab 5.
And when Harshad mentions it he goes crazy thinking about "Why she had become so important" No answer but his own feelings & admiration for Nandu draws him towards her..voluntarily or involuntarily.. he sees her company in a positive light.. he loves being with her .. their comfort level increases..
he acknowledges the attraction b/w them & then follows Nandu's advices & welcomes new changes.. he acts on his feelings & though he has not given a name to it yet.. he knows their bonding is on an emotional level.. n when there is love..physical attraction is natural.

As for Nandini, it starts with respect, admiration, acknowledging the physical attraction b/w them..to care, concern & finally love!

^^So can this be plain lust?

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