attraction,lust and pure love :/??

Originally posted by: A.Hajnal

I think Lust is pure physical attraction...When a person feels no need and hasn't anything in mind but just momentarily pleasure...That is lust...

But a person can be attracted to someone, but wants to know the person, cares about him/her, feels attraction that goes beyond physical, attraction for their character, their mind and heart...That is something more than lust...Could be more, if given the chance...I call it midway of love...

Pure Love, there isn't a perfect definition of pure love...

Some people say love is when there is no physical attraction...The need to get close to the person you feel for...Some people say that there is no love, but platonic one, if there isn't any physical attraction...

I think both are needed...The love is complete if a person feels physical attraction, but there has to be trust, friendship, companionship...They two people has to be possessive, protective about each other in every way...The want and need to be with the person all the time...

But I don't think anyone can tell us what is love...Because we are different people, feel & think about things in different way...Have mind that works in different way...Our priorities are different...And our choices are different...

And there are different kinds, shades, depths of love...In the end Love is a complex and unresolved mystery...Lust is more simple to understand and to deal with than love...😆

Originally posted by: Sanely_Insane

Aloknath deities says anything which involves a physical activity is not love but pure lust. Arthath, it is A.P.A.V.I.TR.A.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I always loved debates on love and lust.😆

According to me when love comes first then lust is not seen or felt as lust but when lust comes before love then it sounds like there is no love.

When you love someone for the person s/he is and also the body, it looks like you love the person from every aspect. You like each and evrything of the person. Plus in love it's normal to get physically attracted because you want to touch and feel your lover.

But when you lust over someone, usually it's only to get physical with the person. You want to get the person because of the body and s*x. Plus I find it's your mind which asks you to get closer physically not your heart whereas love comes from heart.

I guess that's why all the casanovas go from one woman to another but once they fall in love they stay with one and stops their tharkipana. It's the same with girls too.

Originally posted by: A.Hajnal

I think Lust is pure physical attraction...When a person feels no need and hasn't anything in mind but just momentarily pleasure...That is lust...

But a person can be attracted to someone, but wants to know the person, cares about him/her, feels attraction that goes beyond physical, attraction for their character, their mind and heart...That is something more than lust...Could be more, if given the chance...I call it midway of love...

Pure Love, there isn't a perfect definition of pure love...

Some people say love is when there is no physical attraction...The need to get close to the person you feel for...Some people say that there is no love, but platonic one, if there isn't any physical attraction...

I think both are needed...The love is complete if a person feels physical attraction, but there has to be trust, friendship, companionship...They two people has to be possessive, protective about each other in every way...The want and need to be with the person all the time...

But I don't think anyone can tell us what is love...Because we are different people, feel & think about things in different way...Have mind that works in different way...Our priorities are different...And our choices are different...

And there are different kinds, shades, depths of love...In the end Love is a complex and unresolved mystery...Lust is more simple to understand and to deal with than love...😆