Why can't Urmi explain to Shaurya

I am surprised why cannot Urmi just explain to Shaurya why his father is wrong? Okay he doesn't have to be told about adultery and one night stands but the boy can be explained how his father never treats his mother with care and respect, how he always screams at her, insults her, how he has tried to trouble them. He too has seen it. Moreover when Urmi was beaten up, he must have seen her in such a state. So she can clearly cite that example that she was beaten up by his father who always tries to take him away from her and thus she cannot go to live with him. A child does not need to be explained the details or the reasons of the abuse, he or she can understand the abuse or whether his mother is being treated nicely. This even leads to psychological effects in children. Even a dog can understand the mentality of the people in the house and Shaurya is such a bright child. Surely he can understand why Urmi doesn't want to go back if she explains with care that Samrat always scolds and beats her. It would be traumatizing for the child no doubt, but would at least stop the long term effects of the treatment Samrat is doing. He will make him Samrat Junior.Instead of crying and refusing to tell anything about why you can't go back, you are pushing him more towards Samrat.

fully adults in her family and inlaws did not understand her decision to leave samrat. how do you expect a little boy to ?

Plzz ya he is a kid...nd this is wat happens in reality

I agree with you for the most part, but I can see why Urmi is keeping Shaurya out of the loop. As bright as he is, Shaurya is still super young. Having a father like Samrat and finding out what his father really is can be super damaging to him when he grows up. I think Shaurya did understand that his mother wasn't being treated well. He mentioned that to Samrat didn't he?

Yeah I know Shaurya is still a baby. But he had seen his mother being ill treated by her father and I remember he had even asked once whether Samrat had again beaten her up( during the change of heart drama of Samrat)... So Urmi can simply just say that his father doesn't treat her well. Not a word more on the details. The child has been supportive throughout and understands his mother quite well and has never even left her side for a second. Even when Sushma used to talk to Urmi rudely Shaurya wouldn't like that. No chils, however small, wouldn't like his mother being treated badly. Samrat has just brainwashed him. Urmi has to do something or she will lose her child forever to Samrat and that would be too bad for the child psychologically.

As of now if the child asks why can't you go back and Urmi says I can't tell you, Shaurya will feel Samrat is right and Urmi is wrong because she has no reason. She has to say him something in a sugar coated way so that the child is brought back to the right path again. He has been just brainwashed by material goods..

Originally posted by: ritwikad

As of now if the child asks why can't you go back and Urmi says I can't tell you, Shaurya will feel Samrat is right and Urmi is wrong because she has no reason. She has to say him something in a sugar coated way so that the child is brought back to the right path again. He has been just brainwashed by material goods..