Is there anyone in the forum divorced?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't know how can people love this track. If there any divorcee/ divorced man in this forum she/he could share his/her pain and they would never try to relive the pain again. Getting cheated from his/her spouse is a nightmare for anyone and then getting divorced makes the issue worst. I'm sure no man/woman will want to relive the darkest wound in the name of healing and finding love. In real if a person has to face this pain again he would lost any faith on relationship and a point of no return will occur with his/her current spouse which will end in another divorce.

I would like to share a real life experience.I have a relative whose husband was divorced before and he misunderstood her closeness with her colleague. It almost cost her marriage, she very nearly avoided divorce. Since then she learned her husband was her priority, not any XYZ. It took her husband more than a year to be normal with her, Those who're thinking it will heal the pain, it's not like that. Maybe in reel life it happens but in real life it just destroys lives and families.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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CVs shouldn't have showed this serious matter so lightly...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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exactly...in tonight's epi,raman was perfectly shown shattered which really happens in real life...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tulipkhanna

I don't know how can people love this track. If there any divorcee/ divorced man in this forum she/he could share his/her pain and they would never try to relive the pain again. Getting cheated from his/her spouse is a nightmare for anyone and then getting divorced makes the issue worst. I'm sure no man/woman will want to relive the darkest wound in the name of healing and finding love. In real if a person has to face this pain again he would lost any faith on relationship and a point of no return will occur with his/her current spouse which will end in another divorce.

I would like to share a real life experience.I have a relative whose husband was divorced before and he misunderstood her closeness with her colleague. It almost cost her marriage, she very nearly avoided divorce. Since then she learned her husband was her priority, not any XYZ. It took her husband more than a year to be normal with her, Those who're thinking it will heal the pain, it's not like that. Maybe in reel life it happens but in real life it just destroys lives and families.


@bold: Exactly. In real life it destroys families and relationships and in Ekta's serial it heals so called past wounds...😆😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tulipkhanna

CVs shouldn't have showed this serious matter so lightly...


CVs only want high TRPs , hence this high voltage drama. Who cares if it is highly insensitive...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AroraTanya


CVs only want high TRPs , hence this high voltage drama. Who cares if it is highly insensitive...


Hmm...seems like that. If anyone put himself/herself in Raman's shoe/any divorced person's shoe, she'/he would never like to experience that again. It doesn't heal, it hurts even more. That is the reality.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bang on post. In real life it only results in broken family and relationships. I have a distant relative with similar kind of experiences. So , I can relate to what you're saying.We don't know what will be the outcome of the track yet but yes, CVs should have been more careful. It would give wrong message to viewers, especially to the teenagers like us who'll think it's okay to relive the pain for healing the purpose. In real life it will just bring more destruction.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't know about people loving this track.

But ya have seen divorced people n also people who were dumped by their lovers for wrong reasons, so for anyone whoever it is Man or woman, reliving their past is the worst nightmare one can have.

Not everyone is secured enough to understand that once u have gone through hell 2nd time u won't.

Maybe cinematic liberties permit CV's to use this track to show that Raman will come out of his past, but in real life such situations can lead to worse.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123

I don't know about people loving this track.


But ya have seen divorced people n also people who were dumped by their lovers for wrong reasons, so for anyone whoever it is Man or woman, reliving their past is the worst nightmare one can have.

Not everyone is secured enough to understand that once u have gone through hell 2nd time u won't.

Maybe cinematic liberties permit CV's to use this track to show that Raman will come out of his past, but in real life such situations can lead to worse.


but this is not real life and comparing it to reality will be pointless. *shrugs* above all it is a ekta show but YHM is the best of the lot.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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OMG ur the person after my heart. I am so mad at this track. My friend went through this nightmare we call divorce cost her 4 years of her life to trust people around her forget her boyfriend. There is no way a person who has borne what Raman has can see ishu and Mani hug and be ok when mu clears up. There is no going back in real life. I used to love this show cause they were so sensitive about real life feelings and real relationships. This is ridiculous in name of extending confession.
The best alternate would be them turning into friends. A show can easily move forward on a friendship/ attraction track. This is just cruel for the characters. They are all acting out of character. Ishu being so sensitive how can she not see Raman being hurt by her communications with Mani???

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