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Originally posted by: Anushka8722

I would say he's a true Agnihotri!🤣 (my bro..)

Originally posted by: Neetz

Awww my dear.. you aren't wrong.. I won't say I am a hardcore feminist but I do support rights of a woman and this isn't saying that I don't support the rights of a man.. i support them both for in the end its the rights of a human be it a man or woman that i strongly feel for. I never say a woman is always right and neither a man is. They both tend to be wrong at times na.

Yes! Exactly! I believe in equality chahe jo bhi ho. And at the end of the day, its not about woman or man but about humans. The reason I asked was because some people are not able to analyse the situation deeply here. We have to think from both the perspectives and then make criticism if any. Yet, I am seeing that blindly kisi ko support karke, doosre ko itne disrespectful way mein bash kar rahe hai
I have always maintained that Jodha was wrong in giving in to Ruk's wishes. She is too mahaan at times especially in this case. And this Is NR. By giving the child to Ruk she hurt not only herself but Jalal too. Poor guy didn't have any say in this matter as a father.I loved seeing him fighting Ruk for Jo's rights as a mother.I feel she hurt the babies too. She should not have separated them granted they were infants but still. They had been together in her womb and bahar aate hi separated.

Haan she was wrong in giving her child to Ruqu. Others were wrong in not standing up for her when she was insulted, but did anyone ever say that why couldn't Jodha stand up for herself?
With the current track I am torn. I didn't like the words he said to Jodha but then that's what all humans do I.e. blame the other. M more miffed with NR in name of history. They are butchering their pure love. Love is standing by the other.no ifs no buts.It's their love because of which I have digested all the NRs till now. After Hussein it has become unbearable. Jalal k mohobbat ka mazak bana diya hai if u ask me.

NR toh hoga hi, because it is not possible to replicate every situation. But woh bhi logical aur smart hone chahiye. The biggest violation has happened in the name of the Chittor War now. I mean such issues need to be handled with sensitivity. Kuch bhi dikhakar time pass karna is not good.
He is angry at God more than anyone else. And that's leading him to isolate himself from Jodha and in turn hurting her more. but the guy is himself devastated. his dreams have been shattered time and again. CVs have made a mockery of Jalal as a husband, emperor, lover and father too.
You aren't wrong in thinking so as it is your POV and it should not be influenced by another person re. listen to others too but change yourself only if you feel you have been wrong in thinking so till now.

I agree; more than Jodha or anyone else, he is angry with God here. He is human and usse mistakes toh hoti rehti hai. I am not justifying putting the entire blame on Jodha, but Jalal was strong when Hassan passed away. He seemed to have lost it after Hussein, which was understandable since he lost both his kids in quick succession. Anyone would go crazy. And upar se, he didn't even shed a tear, so his madness is understandable. However, he could have isolated himself away, rather than playing the blame-game. But Neetz, I compared this to reality and the situation is no different. Many times, even in a long-term relationship, there has been an instance where one partner has blamed the other

P.S. I love akdha too. As SB said I am with both here too as they're one for me re. But but I am with them in their love, happiness,their shared grief but I am NOT with Jalal in this barbaric act of his and the reasons are even more pathetic. seriously. Even real Akbar was wrong wrt this. This doesn't mean I am a hardcore feminist.

I love AkDha, but Jalal's of killing innocents for revenge due to personal grief is not justified. We know all the reasons for the war and it is sickening to know things are being twisted. but I cannot stand the fact that people keep bashing such great historical characters without even a little sense of decency

P.P.S.I long to see them undertaking the spiritual journey and discovering their true selves and their pure,divine love.

I am waiting for this after-phase mainly because it will showcase a deeper connect between Jodha and Jalal

Originally posted by: justlovetv

Awww my dear.. you aren't wrong.. I won't say I am a hardcore feminist but I do support rights of a woman and this isn't saying that I don't support the rights of a man.. i support them both for in the end its the rights of a human be it a man or woman that i strongly feel for. I never say a woman is always right and neither a man is. They both tend to be wrong at times na.

Yes! Exactly! I believe in equality chahe jo bhi ho. And at the end of the day, its not about woman or man but about humans. The reason I asked was because some people are not able to analyse the situation deeply here. We have to think from both the perspectives and then make criticism if any. Yet, I am seeing that blindly kisi ko support karke, doosre ko itne disrespectful way mein bash kar rahe hai😭

That's their POV na. you cannot change it. what I have understood is people are generaaly miffed with Jalal for his blaming Jodha which I also didn't like but I am looking at both the sides which some aren't. Why are you spoiling your peace of mind bcz of what others are doing? Keep in mind they are bashing EKTA's JALAL.

I have always maintained that Jodha was wrong in giving in to Ruk's wishes. She is too mahaan at times especially in this case. And this Is NR. By giving the child to Ruk she hurt not only herself but Jalal too. Poor guy didn't have any say in this matter as a father.I loved seeing him fighting Ruk for Jo's rights as a mother.I feel she hurt the babies too. She should not have separated them granted they were infants but still. They had been together in her womb and bahar aate hi separated.

Haan she was wrong in giving her child to Ruqu. Others were wrong in not standing up for her when she was insulted, but did anyone ever say that why couldn't Jodha stand up for herself?

I would say when none stood up for her, she should have for herself. She shouldn't have relied on others for it. Whatever happened to that fiery Rajput princess? The reasons are maybe-she is devastated too after all, she can't go back to amer and she has to be in Agra all her life. Besides she promised Jalal she would never leave him no matter what and she's staying true to it. what do you have to say here? I am not pinpointing her but stating what I think. She has stood up for others always- from a bandi in palace to shanti out in the village to BB then why not herself? Self-respect is a big thing. if you don't respect yourself, how can you expect others to do it? she keeps bearing the insults from Ruk like a martyr which is pathetic.

With the current track I am torn. I didn't like the words he said to Jodha but then that's what all humans do I.e. blame the other. M more miffed with NR in name of history. They are butchering their pure love. Love is standing by the other.no ifs no buts.It's their love because of which I have digested all the NRs till now. After Hussein it has become unbearable. Jalal k mohobbat ka mazak bana diya hai if u ask me.

NR toh hoga hi, because it is not possible to replicate every situation. But woh bhi logical aur smart hone chahiye. The biggest violation has happened in the name of the Chittor War now. I mean such issues need to be handled with sensitivity. Kuch bhi dikhakar time pass karna is not good.

DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING LOGICAL AND SMART FROM JA'S CVs.

NR has to be there I know but they shouldn't have touched such a sensitive topic when they can't handle it with dignity and moreover they don't have the means to. Budget hi nhi hai itna. Chittor war is something that even the court chroniclers of Akbar couldn't justify so why Ekta had to take the job upon herself acting like Jagat Mata and giving away wrong info to the audience? Here she has insulted real Akbar. I understand this was the BLACKEST chapter in his life but we still remember him as AKBAR THE GREAT. Now the audience that doesn't know the truth will lash out at real Akbar for killing innocents just bcz he lost his kids and wanted to take revenge from God. These weren't the reasons at all. Haan even if they will know the truth they will criticise him but then that's HISTORY. It can't be changed. Hope you getting my point.

He is angry at God more than anyone else. And that's leading him to isolate himself from Jodha and in turn hurting her more. but the guy is himself devastated. his dreams have been shattered time and again. CVs have made a mockery of Jalal as a husband, emperor, lover and father too.
You aren't wrong in thinking so as it is your POV and it should not be influenced by another person re. listen to others too but change yourself only if you feel you have been wrong in thinking so till now.

I agree; more than Jodha or anyone else, he is angry with God here. He is human and usse mistakes toh hoti rehti hai. I am not justifying putting the entire blame on Jodha, but Jalal was strong when Hassan passed away. He seemed to have lost it after Hussein, which was understandable since he lost both his kids in quick succession. Anyone would go crazy. And upar se, he didn't even shed a tear, so his madness is understandable. However, he could have isolated himself away, rather than playing the blame-game. But Neetz, I compared this to reality and the situation is no different. Many times, even in a long-term relationship, there has been an instance where one partner has blamed the other

Yes he was Jodha's rock after Hassan passed away. He did cry then waise when he was alone.(I just finished watching that epi again btw. it's so amazing. I don't have words for it.) After Hussein they have turned him into a madman. That's why I am hating the CVs for butchering their love story like this. They merely had to show a fallout so they could justify Jalal's not listening to Jodha's words and going for war to vent his anger. If there had been no fallout toh Jalal would have listened to Jodha as always and wouldn't have gone on the war.(referring to JA show). This was a time when we were all expecting that they'll be each other's support and face it together for they are in it together na. it's a shared grief. Eventually they'll come out of it stronger but yahan to blame game chal rha hai. Jodha lost her kids in quick succession too. i am not saying he should be all mushy at night and cruel during the day. he has suffered more loss than Jodha if we look at his life till now but why did the CVs had to turn him into a monster like this? He's bound to be shattered but showing it in this way is not right. I understand this happens in reality too but CVs are taking it to a different level by intermingling it with the war yr. That's why the forum is so divided I think.

P.S. I love akdha too. As SB said I am with both here too as they're one for me re. But but I am with them in their love, happiness,their shared grief but I am NOT with Jalal in this barbaric act of his and the reasons are even more pathetic. seriously. Even real Akbar was wrong wrt this. This doesn't mean I am a hardcore feminist.

I love AkDha, but Jalal's of killing innocents for revenge due to personal grief is not justified. We know all the reasons for the war and it is sickening to know things are being twisted. but I cannot stand the fact that people keep bashing such great historical characters without even a little sense of decency

Nothing about this is justified. Akbar never fought a war for personal reasons re. This act of his was barbaric in real and the reasons CVs are giving to us for this in reel are disgusting. they shouldn't have touched this issue. we would have understood a separation stemming out of self-guilt and grief. They could have shown them reconciling eventually which is obvious na. There was no need for OTT drama and pathetic dialogues. People are bashing REEL JODHA AND JALAL. They are being given twisted reasons behind all this na with such dialogues that are enough to send TRP aunties into a frenzy.

P.P.S.I long to see them undertaking the spiritual journey and discovering their true selves and their pure,divine love.

I am waiting for this after-phase mainly because it will showcase a deeper connect between Jodha and Jalal

Hope the CVs show it. This show is full of negativity and I am still watching it. ufff

I have never been the one to watch serials u know-saas bahus and all. i endure them for my mom when we have dinner. most of the time i zone out and read my novel while mom watches this crap. even she has stopped now. Zindagi is the rage these days.its shows are good comparatively. they don't drag na.

Originally posted by: Neetz

@ red

Sammy please relax. here 🤗

Don't fret so much. i was taken aback by that question of yours you know thinking what did i do that offended you maybe. 😆 m not a hardcore feminist. what i feel i already told ya. hope u have no issues.

Originally posted by: lashy

WOW girls

I'm amazed

👏 you rock.. what discussions..

I'm yet to give it a PROPER read

my family's hungry

But i am touched on many levels

Neetz hope your Headache is better

Update is up

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4197891&PID=114759109&#p114759109

As promised - on Saturday

Phew!

Originally posted by: justlovetv

Arre Neetz! I wasn't pissed with you yaar! I am pissed with some of the people here who just look at only one side of everything. I have read your posts and they are balanced. There are some idiots here who write any crap.

I have no issues with you re. Its just that even the people who wrote positively are reacting so negatively now that I felt that I am thinking of the situation wrongly.

Thanks yaar! Love ya!🤗🤗🤗

Originally posted by: ..Tahniat..

Where is my hello?😔
Where is Barsha di?😔