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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sorry. This post I made because I didn't make proper topic content at previous topic "Raman is wrong today".
The one who read that post will understand what I'm meaning here.


First IshRa got to know about roka affair.
They both slapped him.

Sorry. I have to mention this. Romi didn't rape her but had sex with her.Then why both slapped romi only. They should have to confront sarika too if they confronted romi. But they both pampered sarika. Why? Is it because romi refused to marry her. Sorry here romi act can't justify sarika act similarly sarika act can't justify romi act. Both did mistake then why romi only confronted.

IshRa wanted romi to marry sarika. Again sorry. Lemme remind you how they both tried to separate them. Without knowing or without trying to know what relation RoKa having, they wanted them to separate. What if romi really loved her. Why didn't they try to understand what feelings roka have. They blindly separated without asking romi or sarika intentions.


Next as a family member and we'll wisher Raman advised both. But both are refused to hear his advice. Then Raman has no rights to take ddecisions behalf of them. I'm saying again what I said in mihir engagement track.

No one has rights to interfere in other's life.

How Ishita doesn't have rights to unite mihir and his sister, same Raman also don't have any rights to interfere between RoKa. He can advice but he can't take decision behalf of them. Here he advised .I liked it but he can't do anything more.

Now final block he seek pathak help in this case. I'm sorry. Here many misunderstood my point.

First some persons said he did due to his mother. Sorry to them I didn't ask is Raman good son? I asked is Raman right? He supporting a person who supports a brat cheated woman in name of fake marriage

Next, some mentioned, he did this to convince romi and toshi.
I didn't think it will work. Because he can convince them by beating but he afraid about changing. He has no guarantee that romi will turn good. Then what is the point here to convincing. Both mom and son wants to get rid of sarika. Here how can convincing work. Even if they agree to marriage. Will they keep sarika good?

Third, someone mentioned, he does to take control over three of them and to stop injustice happening to sarika..

Sorry. How can he support sarika only? Is it because she wants to do marriage, is it because romi refused to marry? Or is it because she is pregnant ? Or does Raman want justice to womenism.

If romi raped her, i would be proud about Raman's decision to supporting sarika. But here sarika had sex with romi whole heartfelt. Then how can he support sarika only.

Sarika did mistake bby having sex before proper marriage. Romi did mistake by refusing her. Both are responsible for each other's plight. Here supporting or accusing only one is wrong to me.
Both did wwrong to opponents.
so let them fight and face what they did.

As said before, either jjustice or injustice not copyrighted to neither both of them.

Raman could have left this case to real partners of crime. If he wanted to help toshi, he could have advise her but arranging lawyers and etc doesn't seems right to me.

If he did this for duty of son, I appreciate him for being good son but I can't accept he is right.

P.s
Here I didn't talk anything about ashok. Please leave that character.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree both romi and sarika are at fualt but the problem here that romi dont want to take responsibility of the kid and sarika..he just wanted to sleep with sarika for his pleasure not bcoz je lovd her is that not a crime equal to rape he has killed her self respect by sleeping with her without love rape is he same snatching the respect of the girl whereas sarika slept with him bcoz she loved him..their deed was same but their intenntions were different thats y everybody were scolding romi yesterday..
and today whatevr raman said to sarika was right her ony fualt was she took ishra siggestion lightly and believd romi over them again bcoz of love...
and reagarding the lawyer one i dint find it wrong as he is human every time he cant be right at least he dint use his influence and get the case closed...we all know if rkb wants he can do that but he wants justice for the kid and he wants hi bro to see the consequenses of his deeds..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I too said that same. he advised sarika. but she didn't take his help. so he should have to leave. if sarika approved their help, I won't make post about Raman interference in this case. while both victims are refused to hear then why he hell bent to do mahantma works. is it because of kid. if sarika obsessed with something, what can he do. that's why I made this topic. as said before while one prohibited to interfere then he has to walk on his path only.

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I didn't mean he always have to right. but he could've leave this case to sarika as how left decision to mihika at MMS track. yes, romi and sarika intentions are different. but supporting her only seems wrong to me. she did minor mistake that's why she is able file case against him but it can't justify her act. she has to face what she did. if she got IshRa help that would be different . even though IshRa support sarika, they can't accuse or blame romi because sarika is partner in crime. they can't force romi to marry to sarika but they can help sarika in other ways like helping in filing cases, supports her if any conversations happens.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ishra slapped n confronted romi coz he is their family member, one cant go n slap another person. As far as confrontation to Sarika was concerned Raman said u didnt listen to what I said n fell in Romi's trap n Ishita also asked Sarika y did u not come to me rather going in court.

Raman is assigning a lawyer not to save Romi but himself n Ishita coz Sarika is filing a workplace sexual harrassment case not a rape case. Sarika in her defence is going to say Romi abused her n Ishita fired her from her job n Ishita's husband gave her another job in another big company n tried to buy her with money just as Romi was doing. Cant Raman defend himself ? N assigning a lawyer doesnt mean that Raman will win a case.

Both Ishra here r not forcing Romi nor Sarika to do as per their wishes. Yes Ishita wants Romi to marry sarika but she is not forcing him n she is not openly supporting sarika too, in fact she said try to understand Ramans intentions coz she knows Romi is not ready to marry Sarika. Raman is not supporting Romi at all he on his face said u have done the mistakes deal ur way, he also told to Sarika that u didnt listen to me but at least try n understand situation now as far as help is concerned he can at the most offer her financial support but cant force his bro to marry her. N even if he forces his vbro to marry then it might not b a happy marriage.

Ishra r helping Sarika coz although she is at fault, she is the one who will suffer most out of it not Romi. N they r helping her for practical reasons not out of pity.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@meghala
did I say he can't hire a lawyer. of course he can. but arranging lawyer behalf of mom is unacceptable to me. apart from this I didn't question anything about Raman or Ishita. if he needs to face problem, he can hire a lawyer for him but today he did this for toshi that's why I opposed.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: suseesuez

@meghala
did I say he can't hire a lawyer. of course he can. but arranging lawyer behalf of mom is unacceptable to me. apart from this I didn't question anything about Raman or Ishita. if he needs to face problem, he can hire a lawyer for him but today he did this for toshi that's why I opposed.



Firstly dear my name is Megha u have twice called me meghala, m just finding it funny hence said 😆

Ok even if that makes him wrong so what he has done so many wrong things in the past we r Humans not gods to be perfect yaar. 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123



Firstly dear my name is Megha u have twice called me meghala, m just finding it funny hence said 😆

Ok even if that makes him wrong so what he has done so many wrong things in the past we r Humans not gods to be perfect yaar. 😳

sorry sorry very sorry megha.

yes. I know human are born to do mistakes. but one who realises would be appreciated. that's why I loved Raman at accident track. he clearly conveyed that message. "somethings are bigger than truth and lie"," he didn't like to do but he have to do "

but in this track Raman TM is missing. if he conveyed message that he does for his family and sarika, then it would be appreciated but here I feel that he interfering much after romi and sarika both are refused to listen his words.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: suseesuez

sorry sorry very sorry megha.

yes. I know human are born to do mistakes. but one who realises would be appreciated. that's why I loved Raman at accident track. he clearly conveyed that message."somethings are bigger than truth and lie"," he didn't like to do but he have to do "

but in this track Raman TM is missing. if he conveyed message that he does for his family and sarika, then it would be appreciated but here I feel that he interfering much after romi and sarika both are refused to listen his words.



Lets see dear this track has not played out completely maybe he will realize his mistakes about seperating Romi n sarika before or not keeping a close watch on him 😳

No need to b sorry dear 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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if he do, once again I'll be proud about his characterisation.

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