JA Oct 7 2014 | Elegy for Hasan, Oct10 Abhay Updt P18, Call to Zee P24 - Page 11

Originally posted by: preetgurti

Precap is puke worthy
such a big let down on jalal part

Originally posted by: preetgurti

Charu
ruq blame jodha for hassan death and say it was her negligence thay he died jalal in anger raise his hamd to slap her
she is scared and suddenly start chocking and jalal rush to her hugs her and call for hakim

puke yuckkk

Originally posted by: JAfanCharu

Originally posted by: RadhikaS0

@Charu

Do watch the episode. It's not so bad to watch. If I was able to watch it, you can too. WUs sound worse than the actual thing. 😊 You will be amazed by Jodha today. She was a restless, anxious mother today. Full of foreboding that something bad was going to happen and that Hussein was in danger. You should see her Charu - as the half-crazed, mumbling to herself mother, whose sixth sense is telling her to save Hussein - she was brilliant. You can't miss it.

Jalal was so down and out today - I felt sad to see him in that condition. He could barely look up at anyone. His own grief combined with concern for Jodha are pulling him down badly. You have to watch the episode for him.

Sorry about your father. I am sure you are right - he is walking right beside you always. 😊

@Neetz, Charu,

We have to tolerate Ruq's bad behavior; if she doesn't behave badly, why will she be punished?

About Bharmal's entry:

First the news of the grandchildren's birth has to go to Amer. Then they have to start and come to Agra. Dadisa cannot travel fast, non stop. It will take time.

Anyway it's not being shown in this show. But generally no one visits a woman who has just given birth within the first 11 days.

There are so many glaring inconsistencies in the show. This is a very small one, if it is one. 😊 Just ignore it.

At least they came and learnt Hasan was dead and Hussein had been given away. Where is Jodha's mother? Where are her brothers? Even Sujamal who undertook such a risk to see her last time is nowhere on the scene this time. Seems they have all quit the show. 😕

Neetz, sorry about your loss. Trust in God - He will see you through this. 🤗

Love vs Obsession

Hi Radhika,

Thanks for that post and a coincidence that after cooling down enough from that emotionally draining episode even I thought the same.

Leaving aside all the prejudice and our obvious hate and if we look at the episode from a purely psychological aspect then this episode doesn't look bad at all especially with those exceptional actors who splendidly brings out every minute nuances .

For me todays episode was again in line with the last two episodes where in the last we see the denial,hurt,pain manifested both out of love and obsession today's was of fear and guilt and this is what I want to touch upon here.

Guilt:

All through the DEK scene jalal exhibited this guilt beautifully .He couldn't look into anyone's eyes as with all the pain he carries a guilt too that he has to now say these grieve stricken grandparents that they have not only lost one grandchildren but two as he very well knew ruq is never going to accept to this proposition and in his mind he is already blaming himself for the Farman given and somewhere failed as a father.

How contrasting it was to see the same guilt derived out of obsession from ruq . Somewhere in the corner of her mind she carries a guilt that she has been overboard at DEK and so she comes and try to show everything is normal by ordering a lavish bath and so often when our conscience try to warn us we just put it off by trying to justify our actions and that's what I think the precap is about .when is he running out of explanations she now wants to hold jo as responsible for her own plight and thereby absolving her from the guilt that she is having jo's baby unethically.

when guilt is derived from a positive emotion like love we try to blame ourselves like jalal did ,but when the same comes from a negative trait like obsession we try to put the blame on others and thereby sooth our own conscience. The former makes as more human whereas the later just kills the humanity in us.

Fear

Ruq in her obsession for MUZ has created such an attachment with the object of her purpose hussain which comes along with a deep fear that the child could never truly be hers and its always will be jo's .WE saw that fear beautifully brought forth .The moment zeenat said "in amer the child will be only considered as jo's " her deep root fear shows it claws and sadly leads to her own self destruction that she chose to believe who she shouldn't and question who really loves her. This again shows how obsession can blind oneself and destroys you completely.

Then there was a touching display of a mothers fear for her child which was splendidly displayed by pari. Losing a child is the hardest thing one has to face and it leaves in you a permanent scar .My mother lost my eldest brother in infancy and she till exhibits that fear whenever anyone of us get sick. I still remember those days when she would just sit along my bedside rubbing my feet when I'm sick and so I could very well connect with what jo exhibited today a mothers fear that at least her other child should be safe.

The maha mangas curse though gave a feel of watching a haunted palace ,I could very well connect to the fear of her as in trying times our mind always try to reason out why this happened to us so that we can heal and go forward .In Hinduism that is given to us in form of our karmic deeds which give us strength to cope up and proceed further in our life.

So again today was a contrasting display of what can make and break us.

all in all today was again a day that belongs completely to rajat and pari for bringing out all the finer nuances in their expressions.

P.S.

This again could very well just be the manifestation of my mind which is desperately trying to hold on to some positive so that I could continue watching this serial without much questioning. So if it doesn't make any sense to you please do consider this just as random ramblings.