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Posted: 11 years ago
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Both raman and ishita have flaws, so I would not say ishita is perfect either.
Mani, in my opinion isn't doing anything with ill intentions. He is not like shagun who purposely hurts ishita in an attempt assert her position in raman's life.

any outsider, such as mani will look at ishra's relationship and call it dysfunctional and that is most likely where mani is coming from. if he knew that raman subconsciously loves ishita then he would back off. he knows the circumstances under which both got married, so he is making assumptions right and mani has so far, seen nothing to believe that raman treats ishita well. Yes he rushed her to the hospital but I guest he sees a disconnect between them and therefore, assuming that they have a lifeless marriage(which, to a certain extent, they do.)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kuhu_d


don't worry-yes i do hate ektas tracks sometimes, but so far YHM is the best realistic serial I've ever seen. n i m confident raman will NOT just go to ishu n say...i ll let u go to mani u r free to go to whomever u love. BUT in fact i m confident he will cry n say that he knows not much about her compared to mani, but still he will fight for her.
n i m not at all worried about mani taking away ishu. i saw todays episode many times n every time raman shouts at the hospital staff they show mani's face-thats a big sign for us viewers to realise that he knows ishra is having some differences n complication in expressing their feelings for each other but LOVE EXISTS BETWEEN BOTH


Thanks yaar. Today you've helped me get over that fear 😃
I still can't say i'm absolutely loving this track, but I'm glad there are people who see that Raman and Ishita are made for each other, if only Raman is able to shirk his ego and his past and accept her fully and truly.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I will be honest I am do not like jealousy track, I was always against Mani coming in. I knew it would make Raman insecure, though In a way he had to realize his love so this was the only way. I know Balaji goes all dramatic with confessions and this is probably a high point.
I was just expecting better scenes when ishita woke up, Raman caring for her etc but what we get is a Ishita-Mani scene :(. Thats all that has bothered me.

Secondly forget Mani, people are blaming Ishita don't understand the reason why. What has she done wrong, I know she keeps doing Mani Mani but I never found anything wrong in the on-location video. Only thing which annoyed me was instead of getting an Ishra scene we got a Mani-Ishita scene.
Though I am still going to wait for the actual next few days to see what happens.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: v_ani_patel

Brilliant post and completely agree with u..

Raman is not a bad guy but some of his harsh taunts r too much ..don't want Raman to be lovely dovely all the time but ishita deserves respect, Lil bit care .he start to blast on her anytime , anywhere which is very much insulting. Mani is ishita's childhood friend and they meet after long time .in between that ishita's life went through very rough phase .if ishita feels happy to spend some time with him within her limits then I don't think its wrong.and Mani is ishita's friend only not her ex ..and for me its much much better than shagun torture..


That's what I don't get, Ishita and Raman haven't even confessed their feelings yet, so I don't get people's obsession with them being 'exclusive'. For god's sake if someone is being nice to you, when all you have gotten from your own family is ghussa and taane, I would grab at it too. In fact I would TRY to make raman realize how he should act by painting Mani as perfect. The guy needs a wake up call. We put up with Shagun romancing Raman, but we can't deal with Ishita- Mani, friendship? WOW.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm not a Mani hater...and I love the jealousy track...Raman needs to be shaken up.

But I wish they flushed the character out a bit and my hope is that the rest of the characters, Ishita and Raman in particular, stay true to their characters...I hate when the writers change their innate nature to fit a situation and don't let the characters respond organically.

Other then that I for one am loving jealous Raman! And truly Mani ain't an issue for me:)))
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Reina1


That's what I don't get, Ishita and Raman haven't even confessed their feelings yet, so I don't get people's obsession with them being 'exclusive'. For god's sake if someone is being nice to you, when all you have gotten from your own family is ghussa and taane, I would grab at it too. In fact I would TRY to make raman realize how he should act by painting Mani as perfect. The guy needs a wake up call. We put up with Shagun romancing Raman, but we can't deal with Ishita- Mani, friendship? WOW.


I don't think anyone can put up with Shagun romancing Raman 🤢
In all honestly I had started simply reading written updates for that entire track and was very close to leaving the show altogether, but I love Divyanka and Karan and wanted to hold on. The story picked up again from there which was nice.
But painting a guy as perfect to a guy who's ex-wife left him for someone better than he was doesn't seem like the right way to go about this.
I honestly think Ishu doesn't even realize what she's been doing in terms of talking about Mani. She was just saying her feelings honestly to Raman and he got jealous. It may have become excessive after a point though.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PyaarDostiHai

There are some who absolutely hate Mani and there are those who are just tired of hearing about him.

I didn't even realize he's only been here for a week because he's been used literally everywhere over the past couple of days (possibly mostly on the forums 😆). It's not about hating him or his character or what he's here to do. It's that we suddenly see this guy come in and be the one and only hero, both in the show and in the forums. The amount of Mani hate you see seems so much less to the amount of pure Raman hate seen. So some who love Raman (many of whom do actually realize he's not perfect), hate Mani.

Yes Raman is heavily flawed, and yes he REALLY needs to understand how much his words hurt. But the Raman they are showing right now isn't the Raman a lot of people fell for. The way a lot of people view it, they have greatly exemplified Raman's bad in order to show Mani's good. The CVs have also given a lot of screen time and shown a large amount of bloopers (like today's doctor interview) just to show that Mani is better than Raman.

Eh I hope that at least shows you how... uh the "other side" thinks? Sorry I try to look from both sides so I'm not enough of a staunch Raman supporter for this 😊



Okay, this is a good view of the other side. Because so far, I have only seen senseless bashing. Yeah I am kind of tired hearing Mani, but gosh its ten times better than 'Adi ke liye' and shagun shagun shagun. Its high time Raman's past take a backseat. We know enough about him, I think its important to see Ishita's past too. I don't think Raman's character is being compromised. He doesn't have to become Mani, Ishita wouldn't even like that. He just needed a major wake up call to realize that he needs to treat Ishita like a human. A love story does happen between two humans, and I wouldn't have enjoyed them falling in love if he continued to treat her that way. That being said, yes the bloopers have gotten ridiculous day by day. Thank you for the wonderful reply sweetie, I am so happy to hear a sensible response from the opposite side, I was so afraid of having chappals thrown at me.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hmmm...if raman is correct from his stand point..lets see how he will support and stand up
Against shagun and adi..when the time comes in the near future..

Im sure he will choose adi and will not take a stand from the husband point of view..which by ramans nature is a given to many people
But this is not right from moral standards/marriage point of view.
I m pretty sure..this will be debated.
Edited by seared - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29
My reason to dislike Mani, I don't watch YHM for Mani. I watch it to see Ishita and Raman, so when I suddenly see Mani everywhere it annoys me. Also I don't like how in an attempt to show contrast between mani and Raman, Raman is bring shown like a silly guy. This is definitely not the Raman I fell in love with, this is not the Ishita that I fell in love with. So yeah it annoys me. I would have loved to see Raman realize Ishira's worth because of Ishita and not because of Mani. I would have loved to see Ishra come closer to each other because of themselves not because of a third person. So there lies my unhappiness with the track and a new character with not much logic behind him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vsoujanya

I agree with this post. It's exactly what I think. I mean this was MUCH needed for Raman to change his old ways, not that he needs to change everything, but he needs to realize Ishita's role and position in his life. How important she is, and how actually dysfunctional he is without her. Like they say you notice how important something is when you're about to loose it, or are insecure about it. This is being done more maturely on the show, in the sense that till now it was all jealousy and funny, but now its serious business. Mani will be the reason Raman will realize how he actually feels about Ishita. And you are absolutely right, when we can tolerate the nasty drama Shagun does why can't we tolerate Mani, who by the way is a good actor, and doesn't screech or show attitude at everything and everyone. I mean Ishita was heartbroken during the accident track, she was crushed. This is nothing compared to what Ishita had to go through when she saw Raman and Shagun together, or when they went on a 'family picnic'! That was so hard on Ishita, and she came out it, gave space to Raman. Now its Raman's turn to do the same, and here Ishita is not even doing anything on purpose. I mean Raman can oscillate between his ex wife, and son but Ishita can't dare to be happy with a friend. Its a beautiful friendship and nothing more, at least in Ishita's point of view. And to Mani's defense, he is affected by Ashok's words, and by Romi's outburst. So its normal for him to think that how can a delicate girl like Ishita be happy with a person like Raman? But here he does not know the softer side of Raman, nor does he know the crazy side of Ishita. He knows nothing about the Ishra's huge development that has taken place since the beginning. So once he gets to know and see for himself he will let go of his concern. BTW from the on location video, Ishita always coaxes Raman to eat or take medicine, and Raman could have done the same. And she did not eat even when Mani said, it took Ruhi, Ishita's true love to make Ishita eat. That scene was all Ishita and Ruhi, not Ishita and Mani. 😆


@Bold 👏 yes. Their relationship is actually pure, and Mani is a good person. I guess its annoying that he is painted so perfect, but I think it just appears that way because he is placed against the flawed hero Raman. Mani has no ill-will, he only has his friend's life and happiness in mind. Any true friend would do the same. I am on mani's side because he is doing what any good man would. And amen to your last part, why can't he just be NICE? I know he's been through so much, but great way to hold on to your wife man...hey I will raise hell for this woman, but I will still continue to be rude to her. He needs to calm down. Ruhi is and always has been Ishu's voice of reason, but people are too caught up with bashing mani to see that.

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