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Posted: 11 years ago
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In one episode Ishani has mentioned that she trusted Ranveer & thought that they were just friends..but she didn't know there was something else in Ranveer's mind!
In another episode when Chirag emmotionally black mailed her saying that she supports Ranveer...Ishani said that the day she knew about Ranveer's feelings, she..<never looked back at him!>...she didn't complete her sentence..but something like that she tried to say I think! 🤔
Sometimes I feel that Ishani considers it as a very wrong thing or may be some kind of crime 😆..if some other feelings grow between friends! And may be this is one of the reasons that Ishani feels cheated by Ranveer..that being in a frenship with her Ranveer felt some other way for her!..
I can be wrong here...but I want to know from you all, is it so wrong if your best freind falls in love with you? When we love someone isn't it not a kind of friendship with that person? 😳 For a long relationship (consider a life long relationship), does friendship & love remain two separate things in life?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Friendship is love! 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved Ur Post Monamie,Totally Agree with U.👍🏼❤️
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Posted: 11 years ago
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you have to be friends first...I am married for 15yrs and I married my best friend...u see it is a different type of understanding...it is like u know every mood so all the right answers are there...and the disagreements are very small...it is a very nice feeling when someone understands u without u having to say anything...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111

In one episode Ishani has mentioned that she trusted Ranveer & thought that they were just friends..but she didn't know there was something else in Ranveer's mind!

In another episode when Chirag emmotionally black mailed her saying that she supports Ranveer...Ishani said that the day she knew about Ranveer's feelings, she..<never looked back at him!>...she didn't complete her sentence..but something like that she tried to say I think! 🤔
Sometimes I feel that Ishani considers it as a very wrong thing or may be some kind of crime 😆..if some other feelings grow between friends! And may be this is one of the reasons that Ishani feels cheated by Ranveer..that being in a frenship with her Ranveer felt some other way for her!..
I can be wrong here...but I want to know from you all, is it so wrong if your best freind falls in love with you? When we love someone isn't it not a kind of friendship with that person? 😳 For a long relationship (consider a life long relationship), does friendship & love remain two separate things in life?

Nothing wrong in marrying the best friend provided the relationship is not like Ishveer - one being a servant
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: NBT-BV

Nothing wrong in marrying the best friend provided the relationship is not like Ishveer - one being a servant



But do you not think that this friendship between the servant and master's daughter was a bit too cozy? The way he used to grip her hand leaving a mark, she hugging him taking his breath away? Surely there was more than just a friendship!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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But do you not think that this friendship between the servant and master's daughter was a bit too cozy? The way he used to grip her hand leaving a mark, she hugging him taking his breath away? Surely there was more than just a friendship!

Its just a show. In real life these things don't happen at least with the servant. One person being poor is OK - in college or being in profession.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Friendship is love, yes. But then I guess it would be a real shock and somewhat weird if you discover that the best friend u have known since childhood have been harbouring feelings for u since long. I don't know, its just my thought. But then again I agree that marriage with one's best friend will be the best and the most compatible relationship one can have. At the end, it all depends on the person how he/she will perceive about the relationship.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashraana

you have to be friends first...I am married for 15yrs and I married my best friend...u see it is a different type of understanding...it is like u know every mood so all the right answers are there...and the disagreements are very small...it is a very nice feeling when someone understands u without u having to say anything...

Glad to hear that!! 😳
I can totally understand u as me too is married to my fren! and can u believe after 1 year of married life we are still best frens!! 😆
I remember the episode of comedy nights when Ritesh Deshmukh came to the show...and one woman was complaining that her husband do not spend time with her but only with his frens!..she asked Ritesh if he also does the same with Genelia...and Ritesh replied that Genelia is more his fren...and wherever he goes with frens, she goes with him...I loved that answer! and I felt it is a complete relationship!
I think this story has the potentiality to show a relationship like this..but I don understand Ishani's POV properly
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: NBT-BV

Nothing wrong in marrying the best friend provided the relationship is not like Ishveer - one being a servant

yeah..this is what I wanted to know...but I don think that Ishani felt cheated bcoz ranveer was a servant..but bcoz he was her best fren!..I can be wrong...but that is what I felt from their conversation...
what do u think?

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