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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anraysha

Loved Ur Post Monamie,Totally Agree with U.👍🏼❤️

thank u! 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: poojasidd123

Friendship is love, yes. But then I guess it would be a real shock and somewhat weird if you discover that the best friend u have known since childhood have been harbouring feelings for u since long. I don't know, its just my thought. But then again I agree that marriage with one's best friend will be the best and the most compatible relationship one can have. At the end, it all depends on the person how he/she will perceive about the relationship.

Yes this is true...how the person will see the relationship!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111

yeah..this is what I wanted to know...but I don think that Ishani felt cheated bcoz ranveer was a servant..but bcoz he was her best fren!..I can be wrong...but that is what I felt from their conversation...
what do u think?

Why she should feel cheated? Its an icing on the cake if your best friend loves you. If you don't love him its fine but could Ishani get a better lover than Ranveer who understands her, is a confidant, stands besides her, takes care and what not. If Ranveer was not her servant but a rich family friends son or a rich neighbour she had no problem
Her only problem was his being a servant in the house. (even if he was a servant of some other family she had no problem I guess)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If you get to know that a close friend of yours loves you in a romantic way, you might feel awkward or feel sad for him/her as you aren't being able to reciprocate your feelings simply because don't feel the way the other person does. But feeling cheated is an extreme reaction IMO.
Love isn't a sin. If you don't feel the sexual tension for your best friend but your friend does, you don't fire him, you probably distance yourself from him and reduce the closeness.
I think the root of her hatred towards Ranveer should have been Disha's so called molestation anyway.

Coming to the financial aspect. Yes, these days people do feel comfortable with those, who have a similar educational background and financial status. But then again sometimes you never know how friendships bloom but then for that to be converted to a life long commitment, I'm sure one would have second thoughts before totally committing themselves to a person weaker to them both on educational and financial grounds.


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