DOLLY shouldn't get Married

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@nedhvik-91

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

[QUOTE=soji123] but her mother in law and sumit, mama boy, will make the story more interesting and spicy😉😃[/QUOTE
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Yes leela like a chilly in the story 😆

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ranjitha

@ranjitha

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Life is not as Black & White as people presume it to be.

Four things:

Sumit: He is a clear cut example of most of the husbands... We all want to live just with our husbands and not their families, but why should that guy leave his parents for a girl who has come to his life much later? Yes he should have discussed this issue with her, but is Dolly matured enough to understand it? He is at fault, but not completely.

Dolly: I loved what Dadaji said. Marriage is not just to a girl, but an entire family. Is Dolly living in a perfect world that her MIL will look like a devil to her? There are positives and negatives in every person; the key is accept the positives and change the negatives.

MIL: Yes her attitude is pretty irritating, but is she completely cringe worthy? Definitely not. She comes from a different exposure and her expectations are quite different and yes definitely she has an attitude. But she does deserve a chance

Dadaji: I dont know how many will agree with this, but this is one character for whom I watch this show. In a joint family, if everybody is left to do what they want, the family will be into pieces in no time. There is a necessity of some amount of discipline and that can be brought only by the bade in the house. Doesnt he understand whats going on? If that was the case, he should have been the first person to bash Nisha for the terrace act, but he knew the truth. Is he perfect? No. He needs to change to accept the changes, he will someday... And we all will be part of this journey of his.

Finally relationships are not that fragile that one misunderstanding, one argument will break them. All we need to see is, is the man with a good heart and if he is and the rest is upto us. We dont have to accept everything, but we can always try to correct things.

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jhalak7

@jhalak7

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Leela Aunty is those typical women, who waste husband's money on "Kitty party" and teach other about family. When she herself know nothing about relationship. For only food and to show her Kitty party friends she doesn't care to go against her own family(husband and son). Yesterday at last her husband was so pissed off ,that he told her to get out of that place so that ":his son"can get married. I am seeing how not Sumit's mother but it's his Dad who is actually keeping the family together. I guess Sumit is the copy of his father.
In our society there are mothers like Vimla, bahu like Lakshmi. They are the one who keeps a family together. Not woman like Leela aunty, for who there is no value of relationship, not even the life of her son.
That's why Sumit has turned in to a escapist. He keeps on telling lie instead of facing the truth to keep peace in the family. Because he knows , he can shut Dolly, but not his mom.
We saw this last night. I was feeling so bad for Dadaji. If I was Dolly may be I'd left that mandap that time.
It's true that there is difference between the cousins and Dadaji. Because he is old school. But all he is doing is to keep a family together.

Leela Aunty is the "female version" of Dadaji. Only that she is uncultured and has no respect for other's feelings or knows how to keep a family togethr.

No one hates Dadaji. Even after what he is keep doing with Lakshmi and Ramesh, they still love him . To other he is like God.

But no one loves or respects Leela Aunty. They are afraid of him. If Sumit her own son turns into a liar because of him, I don't see why Dolly shouldn't be, she is also a human being and she was raised by a good woman like Vimla. She is just a simple girl with not so intelligent brain. She is no ideal woman like Lakshmi chachi or didn't born in Vimla aunty's time.This is the fact. This is how today's girls are.
They are not disrespecting a family. They are just staring to act like a human being like "Sumit". Leela Aunty is a creature, whom everyone will want to stay a mile away. Just like her husband and son.

Because of the sake of peace Dolly should find a house with a great MIL like Vimla or Lakshmi chachi. But she is in love with Sumit. I hope in today's episode Sumit will stand up , not to disrespect his mom. But to speak the truth. Because lie can't take a person anywhere good.

Edited by jhalak7 - 11 years ago