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I kept thinking about Raman and ishita and their journey so far which has been so slow. I feel Raman has feelings for ishita and he is very clear in his mind that he loves her. So many actions of his prove that. He is also making an effort to get close to her and make her understand. Many times we have seen him lost in her eyes and he then snaps out. The recent shower scene where he hugged her and after seeing the reaction he thought she is changing . Gathered a bit of courage and slept next to her and finally got a reaction which was not expected. After which he went back to his shell of denial. He does not want to openly show his feelings to her mainly not because of his ego but because of his past experience with shagun and the scare of being rejected. He does not want to open up to anyone now.
Coming to ishita she has no expectations from anyone after Subbu experience. She came in to this marriage with zero expectation. She just believes in giving and has made up her mind that Raman will be never able to love her as she feels that he still has some place for shagun in his heart. She likes him as a companion and friend but nothing beyond this. She trusts him but does not expect anything from him,
If both of them continue this way then they will never move forward in their life. One has to persuade and express. In this case I strongly believe that Raman should soften a bit and try to express himself more. He should pamper her, give her the importance and make her believe that life can be good and she can expect love back from him. Ishita will no doubt melt as she has a good heart. It is just a little push needed.
No one can play Cupid for them. Raman should understand the situation and take control if things. Taunting her always will not help.
Shiv Shakti
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
