*DOTW: Love ya arranged marriage?*

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is a very simple; yet controversial discussion topic.


Since in Jamai Raja we have seen the implications of love marriages and arranged marriages both; I would like to know what my fellow Jamai Raja fanatics think.


So everyone start sharing your opinions on either one or even both. Don't forget to give the advantages and disadvantages of both. And please do back up your point instead of just saying you don't support something. Not paragraphs but a line or two stating why you don't agree.



Note:Personal experience is acceptable and more than welcome in the discussion; but please, no personal attacks. Let's have a healthy discussion; don't use this as a chance to throw attacks at each other.



Enjoy the discussion everyone!


Love,


Annie x

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Posted: 11 years ago
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In my point of view, either arranged or love both are best when we have our parents support and their part in it. But most of the parents are not supporting love mrge still. In that case, the better option is arranged marriage in my POV. So that we can have our parents support and that's a biggest gift of our life becoz' we r nothing without our parents😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well love marriage is great and wonderful in that case we know each other likes dislikes and everything else but is that enough to marry I think when in love their is a possibility that love might fade or something but the love do not fade people change and we as humans need to learn and accept the changes as it comes so I support love marriage just adapt to the changes



Arrange marriage is like a mystery first you meet the person for like a month and if you are compatible then you marry but why let people pick your partner don't you have a choice why marry someone you think is nice by just a mere conversation yes arrange marriage is a tradition but in these times you cannot trust every stranger yes the person might be a parents friend child but they only know the parent not the child so im saying yes feelings might develop in arrange marriage but it might never come and you will have to live a unhappy married life
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome Topic
I prefer an arrange marriage , yeah I know one is getting married to a
complete stranger but thats the benefit building a bond starting off with friendship which grows into trust and enjoying time together and allowing love to blossom , having fun in a legal courtship , going out on dates
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: taahir004

Awesome Topic

I prefer an arrange marriage , yeah I know one is getting married to a

complete stranger but thats the benefit building a bond starting off with friendship which grows into trust and enjoying time together and allowing love to blossom , having fun in a legal courtship , going out on dates




Well said point but that person can only pretend to be nice just to marry you then later down he shows his/ her real face
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I guess ki arrange marriages are better then love marriages becouse its a gradual process of knowing each other and living toghether.
Moreover in live marriages sometimes it hapoens that afer marriages the couple start fighting and all.
My chouce is arrange marriage
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have always been a strong supporter of love marriages. I honestly don't understand the concept of arrange marriages. How can you tell how a person is before it's too late? They can act sweet and all when meeting the parents and their future spouse, but can turn out to be abusive. Many times it turns out that they have a whole other life that no one knows about. With love marriages, you know everything there is about your partner. Years of dating will bring out the persons real personality as time goes by.

Also in arranged marriages, it is possible that one of the partners falls in love with another person, or that they just never fall in love. Some people are just incompatible, and it doesn't work out.

With love marriages there is at least some guarantee that the love is there

Simply my opinion. Don't mean to offend anyone :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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love Marriage.
Because My Parents Had A love Marriage Too. :-)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: stephie34




Well said point but that person can only pretend to be nice just to marry you then later down he shows his/ her real face

Yeah true but we do take a risk in dating than falling inlove with a specfic person and thats
a risk too as even than the person can pretend to be someone they are not and only later
reveal themselves
I think just getting married its a risk either way the person may be good or bad😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I would prefer an arrange marriage because we would get to know each other well as the time passes and then it would turn into a love marriage. I have do many reason as why I would prefer arrange marriages but it will go on and on forever đŸ¤Ŗ so yeah I would prefer arrange marriage đŸ˜ŗ

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