Difficulty only for women to replace the man they are committed to??

Originally posted by: Missesha

If the separation is mutual, it is relatively easier for both man and woman to move on.

In case of separation through deaths or unanimous decision by one party, it is usually difficult for the other party to move on.

In J's case all his decisions to terminate his relationship were unanimous. The females concerned were never given a chance to have their say. They were only given a verdict by Jagya himself without any consideration of how they would feel. N Jagya always had another female at his disposal in all 3 cases.

This explains why his women always suffered while he got away with all the goodies.

He later did realise that he was wrong in handling his women. But by then the damage was already done and he couldn't do anything to mend it. N when he tries to mend with the hurt woman from the past, the existing woman to whom he is committed suffers.

But there is no explanation as to how could move from one woman to another so swiftly

Originally posted by: rohini55

Shhh if you bring gender issues here you will be bashed. Jagya became Doctor plus MLA while Anandi, brilliant in academics and ex- sarpanch, has been reduced to a joker.

not a gender issue, not at all.

Jagya tells lies, Gauri tells lies. Jagya slaps Gauri, tells her he is returning to Anandi. Not a gender issue. Gauri is the sinner who deserves the worst punishment in the world, while J, the sinned against, will marry a third time.

Seriously, jagya fell out of love with Anandi and fell in love with Gauri. Within hours of leaving Gauri in an impregnated state, he fell back in love with Anandi. He swore he cannot forget her and would live forever in her memory. He was still in love with A, when he fell in love with Ganga.

Anandi pined for him, Gauri still pines for him and Ganga worships him like God.

Not a gender issue. Not at all.

Originally posted by: Stalwart.

Jagya trashed his Parents' and family members' advice to patch up with Anandi pointing that their relationship was forced and not mutual.

But how did his relationship with Gauri happen!??Who forced him?

He wasn't ready to deal the consequences of his own actions ❓

Originally posted by: rohini55

Shhh if you bring gender issues here you will be bashed. Jagya became Doctor plus MLA while Anandi, brilliant in academics and ex- sarpanch, has been reduced to a joker.

not a gender issue, not at all.

Jagya tells lies, Gauri tells lies. Jagya slaps Gauri, tells her he is returning to Anandi. Not a gender issue. Gauri is the sinner who deserves the worst punishment in the world, while J, the sinned against, will marry a third time.

Seriously, jagya fell out of love with Anandi and fell in love with Gauri. Within hours of leaving Gauri in an impregnated state, he fell back in love with Anandi. He swore he cannot forget her and would live forever in her memory. He was still in love with A, when he fell in love with Ganga.

Anandi pined for him, Gauri still pines for him and Ganga worships him like God.

Not a gender issue. Not at all.

Originally posted by: Stalwart.

Anandi struggled a lot to come out of her past i.e Jagya. It took a lot of effort from Badi Haveli's Dadisa,Bhairon,Sumithra,Gehna to convince her for remarriage and not to forget Collector Shiv who found no fault of Anandi in this case.

Nowadays Gauri is trying to reconnect herself with Jagat. Did she marry again after Jagat left?? May be her love for Jagat didn't vanish but her ego keeps it engulfed.Remember Jagat slapped Gauri infront of their friends...This must have hurt her a lot.Perhaps this was the reason why she wasn't interested in contacting him again.

Anandi cried for the loss of 1 man (Jagya) but Jagat lost 2 women (leaving Sanchi behind) before his marriage to Ganga.

Pain & difficulty he had while leaving them ❓

Jagat's ability to admit women into his life without much distress ❓

Is this the case only with Jagat (or) do most men behave in the same manner??

Aren't men well bonded with their life partner like most women do??