Romantic Or Psychological Tragedy?

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sajni786

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Posted: 11 years ago

SO what is the current storyline? Is it romantic? Or is it trying to find solace? Or is it psychological tragedy?

Personally I choose the last option...WHY?

Simply because I find nothing romantic about Rudra desparately seeking Paro in Myrah. I see nothing romantic in him kissing Myrah because he is desparately trying to live and feel Paro in Myrah. I see nothing romantic about Rudra being civil with Myrah AFTER making Myrah and Paro a "1 embodiment entity" in his mind. I see nothing romantic in Myrah hoping for a passionate love from Rudra while she forgets about the reality of her engagement because that "love" does not exist for her.

As for solace? What solace will there be ever for Rudra if Myrah remains Myrah? Will it change the fact for him that indeed he did get late on that fateful night? Will it change the fact for Rudra that despite him saving Myrah...he will not be guilt free coz he did lose his Paro?
What solace will there be for Rudra if let's say he "moves on" with Myrah? Is that really a move on when consciously you have separated Myrah from Paro but subconsciously you shall always seek Paro in Myrah?
What solace will there be for Myrah if she agrees to be with Rudra after knowing she is Paro's look alike? The solace that she loves him but he probably loves her face and his twisted thinking that she is his Paro's reformation? Will Myrah ever be able to maintain her own individuality as a person after that? Will she ever be able to keep her identity as Myrah for both Rudra and Dhruv who seek their deceased wife and mother respectively?
The answer to all the above is NO.

That leaves me with the last option only...Psychological Tragedy!
I wont shy from saying this that I agree with _SenbonZakura_ that Rudra is nothing short of needing a psychiatrist at this point. When a person comes to a point when the lines between what is real and what is not begin to diminish to an extent where you start living what is not real...you are nothing short of needing serious therapy. If Myrah (assuming makers keep Myrah=Myrah) jumps into this whirlpool along with Rudra fully aware of what is reality...then she is headed in the same direction because she will be making conscious efforts to win Rudra and Dhruv on her own merits...which will never be possible atleast until she remains a look alike of Paro. TBH...its quite a horrifically messed up situation psychologically when "move on" is based on look alikes simply because the look alike cannot represent "Hope"..."Solace" ..."Happiness"..."Reassurance"...or "Comfort". They rather represent twisted "Destruction"..."Terrifying Horror"..."Lifetime Delusional Behavior" and "Psychotic Remedy".

I don't know where we are headed at this point but I do want to mention that I have never been against "move on" as much as I maybe this time and its all due to romanticizing of this "move on" strategy with a lookalike. Rudra is completely entitled to live a new life...new hope...and it all is void and null if it is to happen with Myrah is she is not Paro simply because there is no "move on" at all. There is no hope for Rudra to let go of his guilt or let go of his Paro as he will only end up reliving her in Myrah not really accepting Myrah for Myrah...at a subconsious level.

At this point I have nothing but deep sympathy and gut wrenching feelings for Myrah...Rudra and Dhruv. Oh what a Psychological Tragedy it is!!!!!

EDIT:
I see Napster "like" my post and apart from being overly overwhelmed with happiness, I would request her to say a few words either here or a new post on what her views are regarding this situation. Her "like" has given me more confidence (not that I didn't have any but reactions from some people began to creep doubts in me) that my thinking of why this storyline is not workable is not wrong afterall.
Please Naps ji...if only I could have to pleasure to read ur take.

Edited by sajni786 - 11 years ago

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paddyj

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Posted: 11 years ago

I second your opinion. Psychological Tragedyit is.

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sajni786

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: paddyj
I second your opinion. Psychological Tragedyit is.

Thank you😳

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loveanime

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Posted: 11 years ago

Look at it this way. RR was promoted as a dark love story, take the love out of it then it is just a dark story. How this is a happy ending it is not, maybe it is not meant to be. Life is full of such ironies we just need to survive a reason to get up in the morning to keep breathing to keep functioning, world doesn't stop spinning for you. Who says you need to be happy for you to live or life is fair. Rudra can use Myrah to dream up Paro for the rest of his life and Myrah can dream up a life with Rudra as the fierce protector and great lover only it is not her he is loving but such details do not matter to keep on breathing. Real life is full of such illusions and who says you can't live like that, there is no right or wrong here, death is an absolute but reality of life is not. Those who are holding on desperately wanting Paro back are just wanting Rudra and Paro to belong to the same league as an Romeo and Juliet but what it is not it cannot be and what it will become will not last forever. The ultimate tragedy for Rudra and Paro is not they were torn apart is that they will be forgotten. No matter how much Romeo and Juliet make you cry you will watch it always years later generations later because that is the ultimate legacy of a great love story but Rudra and Paro will become ctrl-alt-delete.

Edited by loveanime - 11 years ago

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sajni786

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: loveanime
Look at it this way. RR was promoted as a dark love story, take the love out of it then it is just a dark story. How this is a happy ending it is not, maybe it is not meant to be. Life is full of such ironies we just need to survive a reason to get up in the morning to keep breathing to keep functioning, world doesn't stop spinning for you. Who says you need to be happy for you to live or life is fair. Rudra can use Myrah to dream up Paro for the rest of his life and Myrah can dream up a life with Rudra as the fierce protector and great lover only it is not her he is loving but such details do not matter to keep on breathing. Real life is full of such illusions and who says you can't live like that, there is no right or wrong here, death is an absolute but reality of life is not. Those who are holding on desperately wanting Paro back are just wanting Rudra and Paro to belong to the same league as an Romeo and Juliet but what it is not it cannot be and what it will become will not last forever. The ultimate tragedy for Rudra and Paro is not they were torn apart is that they will be forgotten. No matter how much Romeo and Juliet make you cry you will watch it always years later generations later because that is the ultimate legacy of a great love story but Rudra and Paro will become ctrl-alt-delete.

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That's the saddest part. I would have taken Rudra and Paro torn apart for life because that will still be like Paro once said "A sense of completeness in its sheer uncompleteness"...but with what's happening now will only mean what you said...PaRud wiped off

I really dont know how can look alikes ever be to be a symbol of hope and redemption for anyone when clearly they represent nothing but delusional behavior for life?

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180506

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Posted: 11 years ago

Unreserved: Sorry for the delay- I went to lunch 😆

Nail on the head. Bang on. Where is the romance? What is romantic about looking at a woman, and seeing a different one there? What is beautiful about a man smiling at someone who is not with him. What is heartfelt about him touching a woman only because he thinks it's another in a moment?

Nothing. There is nothing romantic there. It is however, utterly heartbreaking- both the moment itself and the moment he pulls away. It's the haunting realization that even after 7 agonizing years, he's still looking for her somewhere- and the fact that there is a look alike infront of him does not make the process of moving forward easier.

For Myrah she may fall in love with Rudra- people move on from commitments- so her wanting to scrap the marriage with Rohit is not too far fetched...what is far fetched is that she cannot put two and two together. The very man she's sighing over- whose love and devotion to his dead wife she is admiring- has looked at her in moments of intense longing, only to be snapped out of it when he realizes that although he's looking at Myrah he's not looking at her. He's looking at Parvati. Even with that knowledge aside, she can't place together that the name he calls out when he embraces her...is not her name. It's the woman he thinks about. Longs for. How can she not see this? Is there not a level of irony in here? You admire a man for loving a woman so passionately, and then suddenly take that embodiement of love and take it as being directed at you so seemlessly? How long have you even known him? 2 weeks tops? You think that your presence will simply erase the strong torch he's held for his dead wife for SEVEN YEARS? That's the biggest blooper on the CVs end for this one!

Anky and you are completely correct- Rudra DOES need a psychiatrist, it is simply tragic the way that he searches for Paro in Myrah- how can we call that moving on? How can we even call that love? It's heartwrenching. We must also acknowledge that Dhruv's need and want to have a mother was not just ANY MOTHER, he saw Myrah and wants HER has his mother: what's healthy about that? Nothing. It is not wrong for a child to want a mother, but wanting a woman who looks exactly like your mother...there is something inherently sad about that. So heartbreakingly sad.

You're absolutely correct, moving on is painful, it's heartbreaking- it takes time...but simply moving on for the sake of a face- that's sad.

Myrah deserves (everyone deserves) to be looked at by the person they love and simply be THEMSELVES. No comparisons, no ghosts, no memories or lingering feelings. Rudra deserves to love someone (if we're indeed moving on) and not have to think about another for every touch, caress and moment.

Psychological Tragedy is putting it mildly...it's simply depressing and heartaching to watch- I literally have no words. And before someone comments on taking our "agony" else where: Better to be an agonizing aunty with a realistic approach than happy go lucky puppy that accepts everything as moving on, fate or worse: love.

Edited by reeha...k - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

100% agree.

Your post is very well laid out and totally backed up. When I finished reading it I sighed wand shook my head because what you said in my opinion is so true. I'm not finding any of this romantic at all. Just utterly sad. Sad to see Rudra tormented by Myrah because she looks like his beloved dead wife. Sad to see Myrah who thinks she loves Rudra and forgets with a snap that she's engaged and Rudra loves his wife with all his being. Sad for Dhruv who thinks Myrah is Paro or is sent by Paro. It all feels like a mess and the ending (if it's Myrah and Rudra) will lack justifiably to me. Rudra in his lines especially post Paro's death says how much he still loves Paro and will do til death. but then CV's plan to make him fall for Myrah because she looks like Paro? To me that is very disturbing, not even 1% romantic.

But I guess in the next fortnight we'll all see how the marriage tracks change the scene. But I have a feeling it's only going to get worse as Rudra will get jealous because he feels Myrah is Paro deep down so 'seeing' Paro getting ready to marry someone else will make him aggressive. Myrah will see this as Rudra being reluctant to confess that he loves her. You see it's just a huge ball of mess but We have to see it through to the end and Inshallah we'll get what the majority wants. Myrah =Paro for our Parud ending.

Brilliant post

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sajni786

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Zara-
100% agree.
Your post is very well laid out and totally backed up. When I finished reading it I sighed wand shook my head because what you said in my opinion is so true. I'm not finding any of this romantic at all. Just utterly sad. Sad to see Rudra tormented by Myrah because she looks like his beloved dead wife. Sad to see Myrah who thinks she loves Rudra and forgets with a snap that she's engaged and Rudra loves his wife with all his being. Sad for Dhruv who thinks Myrah is Paro or is sent by Paro. It all feels like a mess and the ending (if it's Myrah and Rudra) will lack justifiably to me. Rudra in his lines especially post Paro's death says how much he still loves Paro and will do til death. but then CV's plan to make him fall for Myrah because she looks like Paro? To me that is very disturbing, not even 1% romantic.

But I guess in the next fortnight we'll all see how the marriage tracks change the scene. But I have a feeling it's only going to get worse as Rudra will get jealous because he feels Myrah is Paro deep down so 'seeing' Paro getting ready to marry someone else will make him aggressive. Myrah will see this as Rudra being reluctant to confess that he loves her. You see it's just a huge ball of mess but We have to see it through to the end and Inshallah we'll get what the majority wants. Myrah =Paro for our Parud ending.

Brilliant post

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Thank you for your reply.
I am afraid what you wrote in your last paragragh might just happen and I can hope along with you that Myrah=Paro for the entire story from RR1 to RR2 be justified orelse it will be quite a waste plus the message will be quite horrific saying its ok to move on with a look alike...atleast it will give some satisfaction...plus that evil did eventually win as Rudra did lose his Paro due to an evil person.

As for Rudra's lines...I don't even want to comment on how they are being blurred out already.

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maryam

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Posted: 11 years ago

A sound of reason after a long time! ! If cvs could be reasonable!

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sajni786

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: memario
A sound of reason after a long time! ! If cvs could be reasonable!

thank you...
You can hope for the best from CVs I guess at this point.
I have unfortunately lost that trust in them..."once bitten twice shy" is my theory. So I wouldn't bait on anything unless proven otherwise.

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