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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: angeala95



Thanks devraniji!! It couldnt have been done without u!!
Any help frm my side??

not now but if needed then i will surely ask u jiji😳
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Posted: 11 years ago



Oops, Govind...I just realised, I did not put the Pati name and my Name on top of the post in caps as per the requested format...can I make changes to the posts now?
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ssroomani




Oops, Govind...I just realised, I did not put the Pati name and my Name on top of the post in caps as per the requested format...can I make changes to the posts now?



As per rules, you can edit until the deadline crosses 😊

See I put my fav verse to honor him at the top 😆 could not resist 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
Answers from Dharmaputra's Dharmapatni

This is Diala competing for Yudishtra

~Round 3: Relationship Questions~

1) What will you do if Kunti asks them to divide you equally?

Ofcourse Matashree.. divide me into 6 equal parts rather.. one part will be your daughter in law, one will be the wife of Samrat, and the other 4 will be Bhabhi for each of my Devars.. *falls on feet*

2) How will you react if Panchali refuses to let you into the palace?

Come on jiji.. where is your confidence?.. My errr our Arya could not resist your beauty that he wanted you to be shared among all brothers.. and you think I would manage to break his long time passion for you? If you think I am good enough to accomplish that, I shall leave..

3) What will you do if your Pati brings home a Patni after you?

That would hurt 😭.. ok.. having someone to boss around is good on its own way 😆.. no that is not from my heart.. I will surely pretend to have accepted her with all my heart.. but I cant 😭.. I wish Arya knows this telepathically.. bear with me my dear pillows 😭

4) WIll you teach your sons to die for Jyesht Mata?

will teach them to fight for JM's honor.. death can be a consequence, not motive 😛..

5) What would you do to make yourself more attractive to your Pati (hint: think closely about the word "Attractive" and think closely about your potential Pati-to-be ... it can mean a lot of things)

I know he is attracted to me much that he took me for his wife.. but from question 3, looks like I need to buckle up.. let me think..

Arya loves to keep learning.. so I would wish to learn from him.. spear fighting, politics, scriptures, ralationships etc.. I am sure he will be impressed knowing me to be as studious as him.. I would also offer him lessons on cooking, stitching, singing etc.. and I get immediate result.. more time with Arya.. 😳



~Round 4: Specific Pati(s) Questions~

[Yudhistira]: Define Dharma in your own words

Being helpful is Dharma.. as much helpful as possible to your co beings, to the place you live i.e the world & to yourself.. I loved when my Starya said cutting one tree is equivalent to beheading thousands of humans.. my environmentalist Starya

[Yudhistira]: How will you react to Yudhi staking your co-wife Panchaali at a dice game?

I know he was right on the papers.. and he was caught in the situation.. if Dury staked Bhanu, what else can my Yudi do? neither is that forgivable, nor is it like I cannot understand why he did that.. I will let time to cure the scar...

[Yudhistira]: How will you react to Yudhi staking YOU at a dice game?

He can stake me if laws of the time permits.. If I marry him, am sure that also involves accepting that comes along.. if law says am a commodity that he can stake or sell, I don't mind.. ok in the game if he loses me, I shall happily serve as a maid to the one who won me.. if he manages to get me back, I would request him to permit me take vanvas alone for the rest of my life..

Edited by ...Diala... - 10 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
Judges i also have one more suggestion!! The voting in round 3 should also be pati specific!! I guess patnis have answered those questions too keeping in mind the patis!!
And there should be separate voting for each of the three questions of the pati in round 4!! But the final decision is with u people only!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
Dhananjaya : Brishti_Sarkar

1) What will you do if Kunti asks them to divide you equally?

Mata Kunti, I solely believe that you have not done this purposely. But if you have, I would like to tell you that dividing me equally among five of your sons will not bring any unity among your sons. Just taking the title of The Pandavs common wife will also not give me any greater respect than what I have. Look. Learn to have faith in your own sons. I am sure you have not taught your sons such values that they will be jealous of Arjuna because I am his wife and not theirs. Also, I think I will not be able to give each of your sons equal amount of love and respect. I have fixed my mind on Arjuna, and I have chosen him as my husband. The place cannot be shared by anybody. And divine me will only acquire me the title of a partial wife and give rise to problems among your son. Atleast now they are united, and comfortable for each other. After my division, will they be comfortable with each other? No man wants to see his own wife with another man, that too as her husband. So, please take back your purposeful or mistaken words, and let me marry only your third son Partha.

2. What will you do if Draupadi doesn't let me enter the palace?

2.
I would like to have a word with her. Firstly, you get respect only when you give. I would tell her that if she loves Arjuna, my aarya, then definitely I being her co-wife cannot decrease her love for him. I have no objection of her loving him either. Secondly, not letting me in is no solution. By not letting me enter the palace, she cannot deny me of Arjun's love because I believe he loves me. (That does not signify he doesn't love Draupadi at all.) Neither can it bring any good to the kingdom, or to her own mind. So I would request her to let me in, and accept me as a co wife of one of her husbands. I would promise not to come in between her and Arjuna, and would keep my promise. Also, she would only scare Arjuna, and make him more tense by not letting me enter. (Which also might include him). So, no point doing all this, and keeping your dear one in such disarray than accept certain things in life, and try to find happiness in what one has. I hope Draupadi will be convinced as she is an intelligent woman.

3. What will you do if your Pati brings home another Patni?


I would ask Arjuna, if he willingly married the girl or it was because of any reason. And I hope he will answer truthfully. I would want him to be happy, and for his happiness, I would accept the girl. I would welcome her, even if I wasn't liking her much. I would take sometime to find out what kind of a girl she is. If she seems to be a bit dangerous, as in somebody who would overpower me, I would make Arjuna give me the VACHAN that if a situation arrives where it's a question of trust, or any very serious matter, he would also listen to my words along with hers.

4. Will you teach your sons to die for Jyeshth Mata?

4. I will teach my sons to stand up against any injustice in the society. I will give my sons such values that they learn to differenciate between right and wrong themselves. I will teach them to stand up for any lady who is insulted. Be it Jyeshth Mata or the neighbour's wife. And I hope these values and my words to them will itself teach them what to do. If they decide their lives for standing up against injustice, and also take the decision of dying or not themselves. If it is a question of willingly die, then I would again say that my teaching itself will make them take their own decision. And of death comes to them as they stood for injustice, I will proudly accept with a heavy heart.

5) What would you do to make yourself more attractive to your Pati (hint: think closely about the word "Attractive" and think closely about your potential Pati-to-be ... it can mean a lot of things)
5.a) I would learn archery. Now I would like to talk more on this. Men are always happy with women who try to emulate them in their field of success. But I have to be worse than him, in every way. Men like to be patronising, and teach you how to do something, how to lead your life and how to be better than what you are doing. In his area at which he excels. But I will never become equal or better than Arjuna) Arjuna is a man if hands rather than words, so I think making an attempt to do something, and have an interest in learning would impress him a lot.


B) I will never insult any of his brothers, his mother, or any of his other wives in front of him even if I have anything against them.

C) Become Krishna's best friend. Sorry Jeeji Draupadi. :P So that I can ask Keshav for solution to any problem. And then, convey Govind's words to Aarya and impress him.

D) Look after his clothes, so that no stain even appears in his clothes fading it's white colour. I can be very caring!! :D


e)Polish his Gandiv every morning before anyone else gets up!!



F) send gifts to all his other children topped by Abhimanyu
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: angeala95

Judges i also have one more suggestion!! The voting in round 3 should also be pati specific!! I guess patnis have answered those questions too keeping in mind the patis!!
And there should be separate voting for each of the three questions of the pati in round 4!! But the final decision is with u people only!!



That is what I felt too...because patniyogis have responded depending on the disposition of their patis. If a Yudi hopeful responded like a Bheem hopeful, there will be heartbreak and tears!


It is up to the judges of course...I am not sure I have understood the voting formula still...I asked a question a few pages back.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Urmila11

Reading the round 3 replies first, Arjun patnis are very very smart 😃 you go devranis 👏👍🏼
Bheem patnis are funny 😃 Ron is almost like Bheem 👍🏼
My sautan sindhusri is very sweet & innocent 😊
Btw where are my other sautans? waiting to read their replies too 😃

Awee thank you it is a big compliment 😳😳😳I hope I havent missed any post other than chandrikas...'


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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: frappie

Awee thank you it is a big compliment 😳😳😳I hope I havent missed any post other than chandrikas...'




Devrani ji I read your post too 😃 have you posted the round 4?
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ssroomani



That is what I felt too...because patniyogis have responded depending on the disposition of their patis. If a Yudi hopeful responded like a Bheem hopeful, there will be heartbreak and tears!


It is up to the judges of course...I am not sure I have understood the voting formula still...I asked a question a few pages back.



I agree with both angeala & Shobha di, at least I think that round 3 is more or less pati specific as well 😕 & there are much difference between 3 Qs of round 4 😕 for Example, Dharma lecture can never be compared with a emotional/angry/teary staking thing 😆

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