The bullet pierced my soul! - Page 4

Wish u all the best in life :)Hope we all get over this show soon.

hiralnehal...

Such a wonderful post...!! You wrote my feelings exactly...


I am in similar situation like you... there was a time i would laugh at my mom and my SIL for regularly watching and "wasting" time on Sas-Bahu shows.. There was a time I used to be proud for not being like "other" women...I used to think myself as "intellectual" and "Practical"...

Today I See "Paro" as real woman of substance... much much more above my education and my salary... my intellect.. I want to be like her...

I have become so emotional... that I couldn't stop crying whole day on Friday... My husband and kids mocked at me... I didn't care...


Hat's off to the writers who created characters like Paro and Rudra...!!!
Hat's off to the actors to made them alive...!!!

And all bad words for the capitalists... who only care for money crunching...!

Originally posted by: Oldestfan

Hiral,

Thank you for addressing both Sanaya and Ashish equally with so much love and passion!

Colors made a grave mistake by putting Paro on the chopping block. Let me tell you why.

Every trp aunty I have spoken to, totally "gets" Paro! Every woman and man of reasonable understanding, including maids, beauticians got Paro. They all got this love story! Every single one. It was the story of Shiv and Parvati for them. Even now, they see this heinous event as the death of Sati!

The only ones who did not seem to get it were members of the IF forum, who were too blinded by their fandom, their preconceived notions of what a role should be, who measured Paros value in terms of dialogue, screenspace, " emoting" not emotions, who called her character paper thin, who wanted her POV!

If her POV was not clear, then why is everyone crying? If her character was paper thin, why is everyone drowning in grief? If she was not believable, why is everyone walking around saying paro nahi toh Rudra nahin, like zombies? Sanaya spoke about her Cvs in an interview referring to one of them as "her". She pointed out nuances of Paro that many of u s got, and some did not. And yet people were prepared to swear up and down that there was no female on the cv team!

But it does not really matter does it? rangrasiya has become a victim of diabetes diagnosed by taking blood pressure readings. In other words, by totally inaccurate metrics.

There are real women like Paro. My mother was one of them. Paro reminded me everyday of her. And the ones who never understood Paro have hurt me just as the ones who never understood my mother. She was callecnaive, gullible, chaalaak even. She was none of those things. She chose to love people regardless. Thats all it was.

Colors just showed the world that these women are not meant to survive. That honour killings work. That without a man, a woman is nothing. Colors would even kill off divine Shiv and Parvati to gain T RPs.

Well done.

Oldsfan... I loved your write up!!

I fall in Love with Paro in very begining of the show...Thanks to Dear VickySa...!! I loved each and every scene of Paro... I too used feel bad when people mocked at her...or when they said they can not connect with her...
I couldn't sleep the weekend... and watched Scene 50 times... where she explain Devyani about her relationship with Rura !
Paro is divine.. YOU are so lucky to have a MOM like PARO... One big hug to you and your mom.

So you are going too... I don't know what to say to stop you like I did not have when others left. All of us are too shaken and distraught with all this. I don't believe our show has been killed like this and all I am doing is just sob silently in pain.

Thank you Nema! My mother and father watch me from heaven these days. Its been five years for my mother and nine for my father.