Various shades of Trust

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Posted: 11 years ago
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The major problem with any daily soap is, we audience have this illusion that the Creatives of the show have a story set in mind and they will stick to it. Sadly its not true. They sometimes(many times) change their tracks/storyline according to TRPs, or according to fan demands, or simply because they got a better idea and want to implement it. So I am not sure if the analysis or my observation in this post was intentional and written by the CVs or not. May be I am giving it too much importance. Nevertheless, its part of the story till now. Things can change, but the past cannot.

I like the fact that Zain & Aliya have gone through so many shades of Trust. They have proven me wrong too. Initially I always thought that in their love story, Hate -> Compromise -> Friendship -> Attraction -> Trust -> Confession -> Love -> Intimacy...that was how it progressed. But I was wrong. Each phase has its own shades. Since my topic is about Trust, I am gonna focus on just that.

Trust during hate: They barely trusted each other. Aliya believed the worst of Zain that he published her wardrobe malfunction. He trusted that whatever Aliya did was to establish herself firmly as his wife and try to snatch his freedom. But we saw the gradual change in them.
Trust during Friendship: It started out with the handshake at the railway station that they never hide anything from each other. Somehow, in their heart, they started trusting each other when the situation arose. The way they solved the whole Bavdi & Barkat track speaks for itself.
Trust during realization: Sadly, they dint explore much on trust issues then. But we got a glimpse of their ego issues. When Zain yelled at Aliya and she eventually forgave him. When she got upset with him and left for Bhopal, his initial refusal to go get her back. It shows how even though their trusted each other, they did not want to humble themselves to each other for certain matters.
Trust during Love: This one was a beautiful phase. Zain's implicit trust on Aliya and her character. That no matter what happen, no matter what anyone says, Aliya's character can never be tainted in his heart. And Aliya's trust on Zain that he would do the right thing by supporting her. Not because he should think Aliya is always right, but because that is the right thing to do. The way they handled Zubair's court issue is a fine example.

Today's trust:
Today, too many things are piling up against Zain & Aliya. Some intentional(Suraiya), some unintentional(Nafeesa). But it comes down to, all the trust that they had earlier is being tested sorely. Where is the Zain who trusted that Aliya is doing things because that's the right thing to do in terms of humanity? Where is the trust in Aliya that Zain could never intentionally go against her or behind her back? Where is her trust that if she explained to Zain in calm manner, try to compromise with him, he will stay by her side?

Only time will answer us.

Will they realize their mistakes, understand where they went wrong and get back together?
Or
Will they for the time being compromise with each other and not really solving their issues? For family's sake?

What would we like to see as fans and audience? Its gonna be a wait and watch. I want them not to completely trust each other yet. To make it practical and realistic, no human being can simply trust the other person in just a day or two. But, adjustments should be there. As husband and wife, we adjust with each other, flaws or not. I want them to go through that. Hopefully their characters are given the right growth for that.

PS: It seems like I have blabbered nonsense.😆😆 But feel free to share your views.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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You didn't blabber nonsense, you made a lot of sense and I think we were all under the illusion that Zain and Aaliya would get through anything because of love and trust but they've proven like any other couple there is still room for growth.

I'm actually liking this phase to their marriage, they are flawed individuals who have always had different ways of handling things and this is no different. They couldn't walk through life with rose colored glasses, eventually they were going to clash which is completely naturally especially given everything that has piled up lately. Zain and Aaliya have barely had room to think without a new problem arising, there is just too much going on and little time to react.

I want to see how the CVs take things from here, so far I've been impressed with how they've handled the characters of BI granted there are times where I'm not happy with some of the compromises made, but overall I think they've done a good job and it will be interesting to see how Zain and Aaliya go forward from here.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great Post Nandini.

Yes Aliyah and Zain have been shown as the perfect couple who support each other in what ever came in their way yet this phase in their life has shown that there is still room for growth, these two still have a long way to go considering they have only confessed for about 2 months.

Only time can decide if Zain and Aliyah will realize where they are flawed and where they arent, where their egos clash and in what manners. Zain and Aliyah barely had time to think in peace before another shot was fired. They are both wrong yet right and the only thing that is getting in between them is actually their egos which isnt allowing them to acknowledge that both are rooting for the same thing.

I am totally in for the separation it will give Zain a break from the instigation and Aliyah a break from being the target. It would actually be really exciting to see them break everything down and realize the emptiness within them when they are separated.

Aliyahs dialogue, yesterday about them still being strangers is true, these two have gone through so much in a span of two months that they were barely able to actually sit down and chat.

Its going to be interesting in how Cvs approaches this track and how they portray it to the audience. Like every other shows BI has its flaws yet it has been able to give us the best of the best, to which I am sure this track will be also

Edited by _Littles12_ - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It's not nonsense in any angle!
I'm totally in love with your posts already. 😆

The thing is, they do trust each other immensely, but like you said their egos overrule all of that. It's a major issue in their relationship; both of them have Jupiter sized egos.

And because of this clash of the ego titans, this issue is just getting dragged on for ages. If they cooled down and actually thought everything out, then there would be none of this angst. But well, the show needs some drama. :P

Right now, they're so angry that they're totally forgetting everything they said to each other and that's normal. So I don't think their trust in each other has diminished at all, it's just gone into hiding for a while. 😆

Until they calm down, the situation will just go from bad to worse!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful post dear... .. the trust which tested during this time are the hardest.. It will be nice to see how these two headstrong individuals will solve their problem setting aside their ego
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post you have completely have made sense :)
I am liking this phase and want to see how they take it gradually from here in zain-aaliya's case.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow, this is an awesome post!!
We just have to wait and watch the episodes.. 😉
I loved all what you wrote 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post Nandini...

The reason I loved this story and show, was coz the characters where never larger than life, they were very normal human being, who had their own flaws.

And, the way their story progressed, like you summarised above was a beauty... it was like how u fall in love in any other arrange marriage, except that here they hated each other initially.

Now I wont delve in past as you did it amazingly well, would just add, that while they did travel a distance in their relationship, knowing each other and gradually falling in love, it was more from the side of knowing the good side of the other... for Zain, he found in Aaliya, a selfless girl who would go to any lengths for what is right... and for Aaliya, she found behind the irresponsible boy, a man who cares for people he loves...

What wasn't discovered was the bad side or maybe the grey area, which is there in all of us...and hence Aaliya's dialogue ..." hum kitne ajnabi hain"...

When they confessed and consummated, Zain stood by her, saying he believes her more than himself and she can never go wrong... but he is shocked in current circumstances, to see his Aaliya being unreasonable in his eyes ( to an extent she is being that by forcing Gauhar marrying Rizwan issue, she could have tried getting justice for only the child)... and Aaliya, initially had not envisaged the trust from Zain (She was wary during Barkat drama), but gradually he made her believe he will be with her always, in what is right... and thus she is shattered that he isnt supporting her this one time...

The love is still there and even the trust is, its abt seeing that other side. This will definitely be a character growth for them...and I dnt want them to get back immediately...

I would not mind Aaliya going to Bhopal, and both thinking it over, like where they are going wrong...last time, they didnt even get time to think...neither did he realise hurtful things said to her, nor did she think abt his jealousy..
Hence this time I want them to sort it themselves.

Besides, the fact that I love Bhopal, and I want a full on track...with initial kitkit and wooing and later romance, where they can revisit their childhood memories.

We know they were sworn enemies, so revisiting those places and rewriting the story there with love would be amazing...

Edited by annie07 - 11 years ago

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